Love is life. Both literally and figuratively. How many words have been said about this feeling, how many poems and novels have been written! We all want to love and be loved and suffer if we don't. But it is rare to hear that a person truly loves himself or dreams about it. But why? After all, happy (regardless of external circumstances) can only be so. Therefore, let's learn how to love ourselves, our beloved, so that later we can give this feeling to others for free.
Your sense of self is how you see yourself and the people around you
How does your day start? What do you feel when you look in the mirror? It may seem strange to some, but it's actually very important. You can enjoy your reflection, think how natural and beautiful you are in the morning, how wonderful your day will be. Or, on the contrary, get upset when you see a sleepy face, bruises undereyes, rather make up, but even then not feel pleasure and joy, looking at yourself. If the last description seems to be written off from you, then you should stop, think and start learning how to love yourself, your beloved.
This inner feeling largely determines how others perceive you, what mood accompanies you throughout the day, how things go and whether the results of work bring real joy. A person who loves himself knows how to truly enjoy everything, even the little things, creates the impression of being happy, which is why he attracts other people. Do you want to be that person?
Notice the strengths, be loyal to the weaknesses
The first thing to realize is that you are the one and only, there is no other like it in the world. Any distinguishing feature makes you unique and unlike others, and therefore special. If you love another person, then you probably see many advantages in him, and you perceive the shortcomings only as the completion of the image, without which he will already be different. Why are you trying to eradicate everything that seems imperfect to you? Why don’t you notice that there is a lot of good, kind, beautiful in you (and this is true)? If you continue to consider yourself worse than others, then gradually convince others of this. Is this not in your plans? Then change your attitude towards yourself. Some exercises and tips will help you learn how to love yourself - loved and unique.
Make wishes come true! Own
Make it a rule everya day to please yourself with what brings you pleasure. For example, buy a cake that you have been dreaming about for a long time. And so that it does not affect the figure, walk that day on foot instead of pushing in a full bus. Sleep in to work tomorrow. No one gets fired from one time, but you will enjoy the sweet morning dream that you missed so much. And on the weekends, go shopping, buy the most beautiful dress, because you wanted it so much, but did not know where to wear it. That's the reason to come up with a worthy pastime: go dancing, have dinner at a restaurant or take a walk around the city in the evening. There will be those who want to keep you company, you just have to take a closer look!
So, day by day, you will gradually learn to think about yourself, follow your desires, please yourself. And here it is not far from love. At the same time, it will certainly be mutual! Say loudly: "I want to love myself!". For some, this is not easy, but it is necessary. Now take action, right now.
Remind yourself of how good you are
One more tip: get a small notebook, something like a diary, where you will write down your positive qualities, good deeds, compliments said to you and other delights that will help you in difficult (but at the same time simple) learning how to love yourself, beloved. And if there was some kind of failure, disappointment, then in no case do not reproach yourself! There are different things in life, and even the most wonderful people have bad days. The main thing is that they do not last a lifetime. After allyou won't let that happen, right? Love yourself, love the world, love other people and do things that will make everyone happy, and you first of all!
