Every person has periods of melancholic sadness and quivering calm, when it seems to us that we cannot change anything in the current situation. It is similar to a state of quiet despair, sadness mixed with doubt. In everyday life, problems, the burden of troubles and impossible tasks can put pressure on a person, preventing him from fulfilling himself in this world. However, our existence is such that we must go on, overcoming difficulties and doubts, since life itself consists of them.
The wisdom of the great ones
In a state of sadness and despair, a person tends to turn to the wisdom of the great. Reading aphorisms, fables and parables, we join the experience of our ancestors, absorb their life experience. Especially poets and writers, connoisseurs of human souls, can “advise” us from the depths of their years on how to relate to this or that situation.
Krylov's fables, Tolstoy's wise novels, Dostoevsky's insinuations, as well as proverbs and sayings composed by the people themselves over the centuries - what could be better in times of spiritual turmoil?
In the literature of manypeoples, we can find variations of the well-known phrase that everything passes, this too will pass. The wisdom of these words is that whatever makes you happy or sad will pass. Both good and bad, and this is the essence of the movement of time, the meaning of existence in the ages.
Many are “familiar” with King Solomon. He ruled the Jewish state in the period of its highest prosperity and became famous for his wisdom. There are legends and parables about him. Despite the fact that no real evidence of his existence has been found, according to the Bible, King Solomon is considered a historical figure.
The Legend of Solomon's Ring: Option One
According to the legends, Solomon was subject to passions, he had seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines. It is said that this prevented him from concentrating on more important affairs of state, and the wise ruler was even forced to turn to another wisdom, to his court adviser.
To save from passions, the adviser recommended Solomon to put on a ring on which some words were engraved. "Everything will pass" - this is the inscription.
Written on the ring sobered the king in any difficult period, whether it was a difficult or a fun moment in life. "Everything will pass" - as a magic formula of a conspiracy. The bad can pass (then the ring helps to find optimism), and the good can end (helps not to indulge in pride).
Legend says that one day the formula did not work, and King Solomon did not become more cheerful from these words. He decided to throw the ring with magic letters awayinto the river, but suddenly noticed some more letters on the inside of the ring. The inscription on the ring read: "This too shall pass!"
Like life itself, turning, the decoration showed through one letter or another, as you read this wise thought, there was either a feeling of joy or despair.
The legend of Solomon's ring: second option
One day, walking through the streets of the city, Solomon saw a rich jeweler. The king thought that there was a robber in front of him, and called a man dressed richly to him. "I'm a jeweler," the man replied. Then the king ordered the master to make a historical ring, ordering him to make an ornament that can make the sad happy, and the happy sad. Otherwise, the wise but cruel king promised to execute the rich man.
Difficult task! But the jeweler coped with it, according to legend, he was helped by the son of Solomon Rahavam himself. It was he who scrawled on the ring three letters of the Hebrew language - gimel, zayin and yod, they were arranged in such a way that, when read in a circle, they meant in translation the words “everything passes, this too will pass.”
The importance of wisdom in the modern world
Each of us can experience confusion, experience trouble. Human life on this earth is not a holiday, but a continuous struggle: for existence, for love, for understanding by loved ones. Probably, it will be symbolic to engrave the inscription “everything passes, this too will pass”, for example, on a wedding ring. If you quarreled with your soul mate, it's time to remember these words, rethinking their meaning. By the way, thisdoes not mean at all that nothing needs to be changed, since it is we who make our lives real by activating certain changes.
Family is an absolute value for a person. There are no reasons that would be objective for breaking a strong relationship. And if your partner thinks there's a crack in his marriage, give him a ring with this famous inscription that has saved many for centuries.
Solomon's parable of the ring, like all works of this genre, is designed to use your imagination to apply the story to your situation. In the first or second option, the wisdom of the ancient ruler will certainly be useful to you.
After several millennia, it is no longer possible to determine which version of this story actually took place, but the main thing remains that the parables support us in difficult periods of life, when we are ready to indulge in despair and stop fighting.
The parable about the ring of King Solomon inspires us with confidence that everything will always be fine, but for this you need to make some efforts, because nothing can change just like that. In the event that everything is fine with us, this story motivates a person to preserve everything that is so dear to his heart.
Meaning for the family
This wish is doubtful for the newlyweds, who are used to waiting only for happiness and new discoveries from their relationship. Indeed, it would be strange if at the wedding of the newly created family they wish something in the style of King Solomon: “Everything passes, this too will pass.”Every couple hopes that their feeling and the newness of their relationship will never go away. But what a disappointment awaits spouses who have been married for two, three years - they will have to rethink all their principles and familiar family foundations when something goes wrong.
A person's life is a complex structure in which happiness does not depend on just one person. It depends on the environment, the second half, children, parents, everything that surrounds him. But the personality itself can influence this environment.
Tip
If you plan to be happy but don't do anything about it, how will you achieve happiness? If you want to survive a fight, but don't know how to forgive, how can you forget about troubles?
Referring to the wisdom of King Solomon and giving your partner a ring with the inscription “Everything will pass, this too will pass” is an interesting move. Together with your husband or wife, you can turn to the experience of previous generations, not only your ancestors, but also the ancient king of Israel, and use his wisdom in your family.
Conclusion
In any case, the main thing in life is not the wisdom of other times, not reading parables and other stories, but your personal attitude to everything that happens. So always be objective. Think carefully about all actions so as not to harm someone or yourself.
