Emotionality is not a vice, but often it is thanks to emotions and the inability to control them that many harmless mistakes occur in our lives. Anger, aggression, fatigue, boredom, jealousy - are there any reasons to explode and be rude? If you need to return a loved one, if, nevertheless, a momentary weakness determined the path that we would like to go together, there are means of help in such situations.
Why is he leaving
Different people, meeting, forming a couple or even a family, feel the hope that they will always be together as well as in the first days of a relationship. But feelings are dulled, because the force of habit and life circumstances, and sometimes very difficult trials, test relationships for strength. Someone breaks down, someone was always weak, and time took off the masks, causing disappointment, someone simply confused passion with love, andThe "chemistry" in the body has already exhausted all the resources, and, as it turned out, the two have nothing to say to each other. And people break up.
But it happens differently: when in a fit they said too much to each other, in the heat of the moment and the door was already slammed, and the heart hurts incessantly. This is because people really don't know how to express their feelings, and how they value each other, they understand only after going through a loss.
How to deal with emotions
Emotions are an elemental force that must always be under control. A positive emotion can overwhelm those who have absolutely nothing to do with it, and a negative one in general can bring a lot of trouble. The human psyche is so arranged that the perception of emotion always occurs, but many people know how to control their emotional flow, so it is not always possible to find out that a person has reacted. Even if he said nothing, it does not mean that he did not hear, that he did not understand. But the visible response that a negative emotion provokes may not follow. Sometimes, once in the whirlpool of his own feelings, the instigator will not stop until he is out of breath.
If the door has already slammed shut, if the pain has cut with force and you want to scream, demand, swear even more sharply, you need to stop. Right this minute. Shift the emphasis, and by all possible means that do not harm either the situation or its participants, relieve stress. Cry - and why not, if accumulated? Watch comedy. Buy something tasty (chocolate, and this is a well-known fact, increasesmood), to fulfill a small whim of his own. In a word, to do something pleasant and useful for yourself with the sole purpose of calming down. It's best not to do anything until you've taken a very long and relaxing shower (water also has anti-stress properties) and you've had a good night's sleep. Often, nervous breakdowns in people happen precisely from fatigue.
Now you can think about what happened, with a cool head and subsided (even if just a little) emotions.
Can't live without him
Sometimes a breakup hurts because of the fact, and not because this person is really so important. You just need to find the strength to admit it. But it happens (and, alas, far from uncommon) that really close people hurt each other unknowingly and part because of nothing. Pride or resentment makes it difficult to overcome the feelings that they still have for each other, miraculously there is a whole crowd of advisers and compassionate people nearby - a support group that only exacerbates the whole process. But if, nevertheless, the separation happened due to a misunderstanding, then in the heart that has cooled down from anger, sincere feelings are alive.
Help from above
Those who are pure in heart are pure in mind. People who wish with all their hearts the return of a loved one can seek help from the saints before trying to return the departed. A sincere prayer for the return of a loved one home, coming from the heart, will definitely help. A believer will definitely receive help, and the one who first encounters a requestsaints for help, he will be comforted, he will find peace in his thoughts and confidence that everything will be according to the will of God, which means that his hope (hope) will be the very link between the heavenly patrons and the life situation, which turned out to be difficult to solve on your own.
Prayer for the return of a loved one will help everyone
If a person is sincerely inclined to turn in prayer to the saints in whom he believes, or has the technique of communicating with the Universe (which, in fact, is the same thing, named differently), the help of the saints can come in the form of ideas and solving some nuances accompanying the problem, insights and the right words at the right time, and fullness in the soul, so that during a meeting with a loved one he feels the full power of feelings - love, bitterness, repentance. By the way, these methods are equally good for people of both sexes. In the face of God and the Universe, everyone is equal, so everyone can use such a tool as a prayer for the return of a loved one. Men who needlessly offended their women often resort to them, because prejudices prevent them from taking the first step towards reconciliation, and the soul is toiling from longing and pain. It is more difficult for men to express emotions, but it is also more difficult to correct the situation. Sometimes a prayer for the return of a loved one serves only to ensure that the person who mentally puts his request into words simply hears himself and finally understands what he really needs. If a response arose in the soul to the words of the prayer, to the request of heaven for help in returning it, this is a sure sign that the prayerhelp.
Nicholas the Wonderworker and prayers for the return of a loved one
Nikolas the Wonderworker is always addressed. This saint, who once lived on the territory of Lycia (today it is the territory of Turkey), helped many who called to him during his lifetime, performed small miracles for the poor, patronized the poor and the afflicted, made gifts to children, and therefore his fame spread throughout the world after his death. There is a lot of evidence that Nicholas the Wonderworker helped like a saint to those who needed help and asked for it. A prayer addressed to him for the return of a loved one will certainly be heard if it comes from the heart. There are a lot of options for it. You can read the kontakion and akathist before making the usual request in your own words to Nicholas the Wonderworker, or you can use this option:
“Lord my God, Mother of the Most Holy Theotokos and holy servant of God Nicholas the Wonderworker, I trust in you! Help my soul to find forgiveness and return my beloved, the servant of God (name). Amen. Amen. Amen.”
Any prayer for the return of a loved one to Nicholas the Wonderworker will be more effective if you put a candle in front of his icon and concentrate on your request.
Prayer for the return of a loved one to Matrona of Moscow
It happens that due to various reasons, a family breaks up. And the reasons, of course, are the most trivial, when someone has not forgiven betrayal or rudeness. It happens that the inability to have children lies at the heart of the problem. In these cases, they turn to MatronaMoscow. Prayer for the return of a loved one, strong and effective, will help save the family. There are several options for such a prayer, here is one of them:
“Holy Mother Matronushka, help! Return to the true path my beloved, the servant of God (name), so that we are happy together, and grant us a child. Send me his faithful and strong love. Amen.”
Any prayer for the return of a loved one to Matrona will be heard and understood, but you should not ask that those who caused discord in the family be punished (for example, about retribution to a mistress) - God already knows who to punish and for what.
Joseph Murphy and his affirmations
Speaker and writer Joseph Murphy, like many other mentors in the field of psychology and parapsychology, metaphysics and subtle matters, has written a number of books that help you associate yourself with the microcosm of the Universe and see all the problems surrounding a person from a different angle. The so-called prayer of Joseph Murphy for the return of a loved one is, in fact, an affirmation and explanation from a moral and psychological point of view of all the events associated with parting. He teaches how to treat yourself and others, how to build, not destroy, how to analyze and perceive life as a gift from above.
Harmony and happiness
For those who seek self-knowledge, the path is not so difficult with such manuals as books by Joseph Murphy, Kozlov,Sinelnikov, Sviyash and many others. Having understood himself and analyzed the situation that was given, a person purifies his own energy (or karma, or soul), and if this is accompanied by a prayer for the return of a loved one, the result should turn out to be not only a fact, but also big changes in a positive direction for the couple.
Other ways to get your loved one back
No matter how trivial it sounds, praying for the return of a loved one is far from all that needs to be done to return happiness. It is worth paying attention to your appearance and distracting from thoughts about what happened in order to analyze your mistakes from the outside and perceive separation as a lesson of Fate.
Having drawn the right conclusions from it, you can not be afraid that the situation will repeat itself. It is worth seriously criticizing yourself and remembering your mistakes - it will be easier to understand why your loved one left. Putting yourself in his place, rethinking a lot, you will already understand what you can talk about with him at a meeting, whether it is worth renewing relations at all, and if so, how to behave in the future and what not to allow, and what, on the contrary, to make the rule. Prayers simply help to tune in to the right wave in order to correctly assess what is happening and what is desired, so as not to confuse the true desire to be together with the usual whim, habit, or, even worse, annoying stubbornness.
