The relationship between a man and a woman is a very sensitive topic. Not always love stories are similar to those that we see in numerous TV shows and melodramas. Any couple may have a period when the passions subside and there is an understanding of the actual relationship to the partner. That is when a woman often becomes disappointed in men.
Let's understand the concept
I'll warn you right away that this feeling is from the category of negative and unconstructive. Usually it is caused by unfulfilled expectations. Disappointment is followed by pain and, as a rule, resentment, because it seems to the woman that she was deceived or even insulted. Although the other side of the coin is that she simply idealized the man and expected more from him. I expected that a loving man would regularly give flowers, as in the period of falling in love. I was looking forward to going to a restaurant as an indispensable part of family or just established relationships. But it's an idyllic picture, not alwaysmatching with real life. The result is the appearance of sadness, depression, sometimes irritation and disgust for the partner.
The main thing is to recognize this feeling and start fighting it, otherwise a woman may face destruction from the inside and the development of complexes.
All Men…
Women are emotional creatures. Throwing themselves into a relationship without looking back, they may experience disappointment in men. Why does this happen? The reason is primarily hidden in education. It is important for parents to raise their daughters to be good mothers and housewives. Therefore, having met her lover, a woman begins to dissolve in him, becoming for him an ideal in everything. At the sight of such an attitude, the beloved has no choice but to turn into a lazy person and a passive observer. He begins to strive to where he is perceived as a real man. The woman does not have any other feelings - only disappointment.
Another type of ladies is characterized by a negligent attitude to household chores. Allowing themselves to be loved, they are only interested in their own career. In such relationships, disappointment also occurs, since a loving man also needs care and love. The way out for him may be to go to another chosen one, who is not too lazy to cook and keep clean and comfortable. The one they left will once again come to the idea of male dishonesty.
Relationships are he althy and unhe althy
Sadly, it is disappointment that pushes a large number of couples to divorce. Adherents of Gest alt Therapyconsider disappointment inevitable when a couple has a he althy relationship. This is even one of the certain stages that every couple has to overcome.
Most men and women are interested in building he althy relationships. This is when partners are able to constantly contact and communicate with each other: to be aware of the life of the other, his problems, to assist in resolving this or that situation.
If an unhe althy relationship has developed, then one or both partners perceive the other person as an unchanging reality. They cannot recognize the changes taking place in another person's life. It is more correct to call such a life not a joint life, but a life side by side. Little by little, close people begin to move away from each other. This is the scenario for many couples.
Dangers of Online Dating
We've de alt with real life. Only today, a lot of acquaintances are made not on the street, in a cafe or cinema, but on the Internet. As a result, women often fall for the bait of womanizers who pursue their own selfish goals. The result is predictable - disappointment in men. So, if you are going to dissolve in a new relationship, you should get to know the new boyfriend better. If a situation arises when a virtual friend urgently needs a certain amount of money to borrow, break off such an acquaintance. Most likely, we are talking about the tricks of an ordinary swindler. If a new acquaintance really aroused sympathy, you can continue to communicate with him in a normal setting. itwill allow you to give a more accurate assessment of the chosen one.
So, we briefly listed why a woman is disappointed in a man. It is important to know how to deal with this feeling, because life goes on.
Disappointed in a man: what to do
The first and main condition will be that you cannot lock yourself in your inner world. It is necessary not to hide your own emotions on this occasion, otherwise they will accumulate and only aggravate the difficult situation. It's okay if you want to cry. There are people whom each of us trusts. You need to talk with them about overwhelming feelings and emotions. Drawing, dancing, hiking. The list of hobbies in the fight against negative emotions can be continued. The main thing is to move so that there is no time for sadness.
Good at such moments playing sports, walking in the fresh air, reading your favorite books. Connecting with interesting people also allows you to quickly get rid of any negative feelings.
In order to avoid disappointment in a man (psychology also did not ignore this topic), you do not need to perceive the first chosen one as a potential life partner. Let it be unobtrusive and non-binding communication.
One of the biggest mistakes that leads to disappointment in a man is trying to change him. It cannot be done by force. After all, every adult already has an established character and habits.
Being in love, it is difficult for a woman to soberly assess the currentsituation. For this reason, if a person's behavior begins to alarm, it is better to ask the advice of a loved one or girlfriend. Relationships will then please when they are constantly worked on and improved. The main thing is to remember that a man is not the meaning of life, but only part of it. And it is not at all necessary to plunge into a relationship without a trace, otherwise disappointment is inevitable.
Soap abuser?
You should not be categorical about a man. After all, people are not divided into two categories: bad and good. All different. And the person who offended is only different from the image that has developed in the female head. He has many good qualities, because it was not in vain that a woman once fell in love with him.
The label of a loser is not for you
An important point: if a woman understands that she is disappointed in her beloved man, this is not a reason to live on with the label of a loser. In such situations, you can even, oddly enough, find a plus. This is the acquisition of excellent experience and knowledge, which will help in the future not to make such mistakes. It takes time for emotional wounds to heal. Moreover, disappointment in men is most often a deep wound. Therefore, you will have to be patient. Everything will certainly get better and go on as usual.
