Female loneliness is a terrible thing. It is hardly possible to meet such a representative of the beautiful half of humanity who would like to meet old age alone. Every woman needs affection, care, attention and a man's shoulder. But even with a partner, she does not always feel like a happy person, because relationships may not work out. Is it possible to determine in advance whether it will be possible to build a relationship with them or not? Of course, yes, if you know what type of men in relations with women the alleged chosen one belongs to. There are 13 of them in total.
Tyrant
Perhaps the most difficult partner from a psychological point of view is a tyrant. The difficulty lies in the fact that it is most difficult to identify such a person at an early stage of acquaintance. He can be affectionate, attentive, caring, and show his true nature only after marriage or when living together. The tyrant constantly controls his woman, does not let him out of the house anywhere and does not allow him to communicate with friends if he does not like them. Often hecommits assault or says insults if the chosen one disobeyed him. Most often, the male complexes become the culprit of such behavior. The tyrant is not confident in himself, so he is afraid of his partner leaving or betrayal on her part.
Unfortunately, it is difficult and almost impossible to remake such a psychotype of a person. If you forgive him insults or assault, then he will feel power over a person and will continue such behavior or begin to behave even more aggressively, and a woman’s life will turn into a real nightmare. This type of men in relations with women manifests himself from the worst side, and nothing can be done about it. The tyrant will never trust you. All you can do is accept or leave.
Mama's boy
Another difficult type is a sissy. Re-educating him is also almost impossible. The main reason for this behavior is the upbringing of a person, most likely, the parents always made all the decisions for him. The mother of a man-son still does not understand that her son has already grown up, and still continues to exercise control over him. Such partners are always dependent and, as a rule, there is no male core in them. In a relationship, they are looking for strong and strong-willed women, like a mother, who will make all the important decisions around the house and take on all possible problems.
To understand what kind of person is next to you, you can arrange a test for real men. Invite him home and ask him to do an elementary thing around the house or simulate a stressful situation tofind out how he will behave in it.
Misogynists
Women get burned in relationships often. But, despite this, they pull themselves together and continue to build love further. Unfortunately, men endure breakups much more difficult. If they were betrayed, then they may become imbued with hatred for the female sex. If they decide to build a relationship again, they begin to suspect their partner in everything or despise her.
You can fix this type of men in relationships with women if you help him forget old heartaches. Often you need the help of a psychologist. The specialist will give a man important advice that will help him start life from scratch. But do not confuse a man who is disappointed in women with a tyrant. After all, hatred is not always the result of resentment. Sometimes the problem is in the person himself - his worldview, character. If you have such a man in front of you, do not waste your time on him.
Alphonse
Even in ancient times, there was a stereotype that a man is a breadwinner. He earns money and builds a career at a time when his wife raises children, cooks food and keeps the house clean. But in modern life, there are often men who believe that they were born in order to live beautifully and at the same time not strain. Falling in love with such a partner is easy. Alphonse is a man who always looks beautiful, dresses stylishly, smells delicious. He always looks after him beautifully, often even gives expensive gifts in the early stages of dating.
Often they choose older women as partners,trying to charm her and bind to him. Usually gigolos impersonate absolutely other people. The main condition for them is that a woman must be rich and successful. Psychologists recommend a test for real men that allows you to calculate the gigolo. It is enough to come up with a story about your sudden ruin and see how the partner behaves in this situation.
Careerist
The situation with careerists is not entirely clear. On the one hand, this is an ideal partner, with him, of course, the representative of the beautiful half of humanity will feel like behind a stone wall. He studied well at school, then achieved good success at the institute, got a good job and step by step succeeds in the career ladder. He is rich and successful.
But this type of men in relationships with women has a negative side. They are almost never at home, they work day and night. Even if the working day is already over, they go to refresher courses or lock themselves in their room, where they study new information. A good male father from this type is rarely obtained. Usually a woman is engaged in raising heirs, a man only selects qualified tutors for them or a place for education.
Casanova
Another dangerous type of male partner is Casanova. Falling in love with this is quick and easy. He is handsome, smart, attractive, charming and loves to beautifully look after his soulmate. Most often, they delight partners in intimate life, the moreenchant. But the negative quality is that he quickly gets bored with his partner, he breaks off relations and goes in search of a new chosen one. It is impossible to build a family or a long-term relationship with him.
A rather nasty subspecies of Casanova is a male pick-up artist. For him, a relationship or intimacy with a woman becomes just a tick in the numerous list of partners. Most likely, the relationship with him will end with one date, he will disappear as soon as he wins another victory. If a short but vivid romance awaits you with a Casanova, then with a pick-up artist - only disappointment. Psychologists claim that such individuals suffer from an inferiority complex, which they are trying to compensate at the expense of women.
Stingy
Sometimes a partner beautifully courts, gallantly behaves towards a girl, but he shows his true male secrets only after entering into marriage with a partner. For example, this applies to stingy people. Only by living together with him, you can see that he saves on absolutely everything - on food, clothes, necessary items for the house. There are such special individuals who prefer not to spend their wages at all and depend on the financial situation of their spouse.
There is also a way out of this situation. Psychologists recommend jointly planning expenses and creating a single family budget aimed at purchasing the necessary things.
Insensitive
As you know, a man loves with his eyes, it is important for him how a woman looks, she should attract him. Representatives of the weaker half of humanity pay less attention to the appearance of partners. But they are very fond of compliments and pay attention to the actions of a man. Unfortunately, there is also that category of men who does not show their feelings in any way. They always look reserved and unemotional.
Unfortunately, it is extremely difficult to correct such a character trait on your own. Long-term help from a psychologist will solve the problem, and then only if a cold-blooded insensitive person wants to change himself.
Critic
It is very good when a trusting type of relationship has formed between a man and a woman. This suggests that they can tell each other the truth without fear of backlash. But a relationship with a male critic cannot be called trusting. Such a partner behaves tactlessly and points out every flaw. With all this, he thinks that he is behaving correctly, and he perceives his attacks on his partner as friendly advice. The critic does not see his own shortcomings.
There are not so many ways out of this situation. For example, you can ignore criticism. Just be confident in yourself, then the man will get bored making comments, because no one reacts to them. But this is quite difficult for a woman - the psychological burden is very large. Therefore, try to arrange a heart-to-heart conversation with your partner, explaining that this manner of communication is unacceptable.
Drug addict or alcoholic
Sit on your day off in front of the TV with a bottle of beer and enjoy watching an action movie orfootball is a normal phenomenon for a man. But everything should be in moderation. If a person suffers from alcoholism or drug addiction, this is a huge problem that needs to be addressed. At the same time, the man himself is usually sure that everything is fine. He finds excuses for himself, says that this drowns out stress or fatigue after hard work, invents minor holidays or occasions for fun.
At first, this seems like a minor problem. The woman is sure that if she helps anyone, he will change. But then a man will begin to put forward his bad habits in the first place, and in the second everything else - his wife, children, work and moral values. If conversations and beliefs do not work, then it is worth contacting a clinic for dependent people so that qualified specialists can carry out the work. But even in this case, it is necessary that the man himself wants to get rid of the bad habit.
Concerned
For every young man, sex life is of great importance. But some individuals are more interested in sex. They have their own male secrets that may seem strange to a partner. Such individuals do not like long courtship and romance. Already on the first date, they will begin to closely examine the chosen one and hint at intimacy. In the future, even more strange acts regarding a sexual nature may appear in a relationship.
Many girls like frivolous partners. But if his behavior is not to his liking, then it is better to immediately declare yourpositions.
Owner
Another category of men is owners. These include those individuals who do not allow his partner to communicate with other men, even in the most innocent way. They will be calmer if the chosen one instead of work stays at home and takes care of children, since in this case her communication with representatives of the opposite sex will be limited.
Minor manifestations of jealousy are normal, you should not be afraid of them. Almost all men are possessive at heart. This only says that the partner loves his soul mate very much and is afraid of losing her. But if he exercises excessive control over his chosen one, then such behavior should be stopped. Pathological jealous people can be dangerous. Such a partner will deprive you of friends, will control any of your social contacts. And if he suspects treason, he can easily turn to assault.
A normal man
Separately, it is worth talking about normal men, that is, those who look perfect in the eyes of a woman. First of all, the chosen one must be serious. For him, an affair with a woman is not just an affair, but an occasion to build a long and lasting relationship. This is noticeable on the first date, if the person will show maximum interest in the girl.
Conclusion
In total, from a psychological point of view, there are 13 main types of men. In addition, there are also combined types. Who to choose, and with whom to avoid relationships? Alldepends on what a particular woman needs. It is recommended to study the man thoroughly so that later you do not have to be disappointed in him and break off the relationship, which is a lot of stress for a woman.
