The plot palette of dreams, as you know, is limitless and sometimes asks us riddles, the solution of which we hope to find only in the writings of the most experienced and authoritative specialists. For example, let's imagine that some nice girl (and, as you know, there are no others in the world) had a chance to cheat on a guy in a night vision. Why dream of such embarrassment, because in reality nothing like this comes to her mind (let's hope)? Well, let's try to figure it out.
Pay attention to the details of what you see
First of all, let's turn to the "Family Dream Book", whose name alone indicates that its compilers, like no one else, are close to issues related to heart ties and interpersonal relationships. And indeed, about what dreams of cheating on a guy in a dream, they provide very detailed explanations. First of all, the authors draw the attention of readers to a very important, in their opinion, circumstance: where exactly did the moral fall of this victim of his own lust happen - at home or in some other place.
It must be said that in both cases nothinggood does not shine for her (and rightly so, of course), but if, to top it off, the harlot brought her secret admirer home, then in reality she will soon face serious domestic problems. Which ones, the authors do not specify, since in each case they are individual. As for cheating in other places, they won’t get away with it so easily: the poor thing (we’ll still be indulgent to her) will face such severe emotional upheavals ahead that she will have to resort to the help of specialists.
Sleep as a reflection of mental state
The authors of the “Family Dream Book” also consider the question of why she dreams that a girl cheated on her boyfriend not with a man, but with one of her friends. In our "advanced" age, such relationships are by no means rare and have long ceased to cause universal condemnation. So in this case, the dreamer is recommended to take a closer look at her sexual inclinations, and already in accordance with them to build a future life.
Of course, all of the above applies primarily to girls who in reality reassured their boyfriend with a promise of a hand and heart. For all other persons who are not bound by oaths of love, these interpretations are not relevant. The only exceptions are those who often have visions of lesbian love. The authors strongly recommend that they consult a psychotherapist, since such dreams may indicate a certain pathology, which is very difficult to cope with without the help of a specialist.
Let's listen to the expert's opinion
Couldn't stay away fromsuch an exciting topic and the Austrian psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud (photo below), who saw in the intimate sphere of human life almost the basis of all his thoughts and actions. Talking about why he dreams of cheating on a guy, and equally on a fiancé, husband, or anyone else with whom he associates a promise of fidelity, he gives an interpretation of several plot options for what he saw.
First of all, the respected master writes that if a woman or a very young girl allows herself such liberties with a stranger in a dream, then this indicates her doubts about her own attractiveness and sexuality. In reality, the dreamer, apparently, torments herself with unfounded experiences, since it seems to her that she is deprived of the ability to arouse desire in men.
The author also attaches great importance to those emotions that the traitor experienced in a dream. If, indulging in forbidden love, she felt remorse, then this is a bad sign - in reality she is too cold with her chosen one. At the same time, the absence of negative feelings in a dream portends a strong relationship in real life.
The third one is superfluous both in a dream and in reality
Freud also considers other plot options, for example, why do you dream that you are cheating on a boyfriend or husband, and he suddenly appears and willingly becomes the third participant in the sex scene? Without giving a moral assessment to such actions (if they happened in reality), the master only warns that in a dream this is a very bad sign that can portend he alth problems, and their appearancewill be connected precisely with the intimate side of life. A woman who sees something like this in a dream is advised to refrain from casual sex, and if this is beyond her strength, then take precautions that even schoolchildren now know about.
Stay away from temptations
It is very useful to look for answers to our questions in the "General Dream Book". In particular, on its pages you can find a warning that if in a dream it happens to cheat on a husband, fiancé or just a lover, then in reality one should avoid temptations that can lead to significant material losses. In particular, it is not recommended to invest in projects that promise quick and easy profits, enter into dubious deals, and also purchase expensive items from random suppliers.
The compilers also consecrate the question of why a guy dreams of cheating with an ex-husband or a previously rejected lover. In this case, they give two different interpretations. According to one of them, the dream suggests that in real life this lady (or girl) has a fairly developed intuition and can trust her inner voice in everything. However, another explanation is immediately given: if you dream that you are cheating on a guy with an “ex”, then this is a harbinger of some future actions for which you will have to endure remorse.
Comments from overseas dream interpreter
Since girls all over the world sometimes have erotic dreams in which they break their vows of allegiance, then in the dream books compiled by their compatriots, suchthe story is reflected. Let's open, for example, the work of a well-known American interpreter, hiding under the pseudonym Miss Hasse.
Setting out to explain to readers why a guy dreams of cheating, a learned lady wrote at the beginning of the last century that such a vision, although it can give a certain pleasure, is associated with the danger of a family conflict, which the dreamer herself will provoke. However, such a turn of events does not have the character of a fatal inevitability, but is completely preventable, it is only necessary for the girl to be more careful and not climb, as they say, on the rampage.
In addition, the overseas compiler informs her readers about what dreams of cheating on a boyfriend, husband, fiance, lover, etc. with one of her closest relatives. It turns out that such a plot portends unprecedented success in real life. Like a true American, Miss Hasse associates it with career growth or business success.
Anonymous but very knowledgeable author
The author approaches the coverage of this problem in a very thorough manner and recommends first of all to pay attention to the details of what he saw.
So, if the dreamed betrayal consisted only in kisses with an imaginary lover, then in reality it is better for a girl to part with her realgentleman, since feelings for him have clearly cooled down. But at the same time, the sexual intercourse with a stranger seen in a dream has nothing to do with her true heart inclinations, and does not even promise any complications. On the contrary, according to an anonymous author, he is a harbinger of fame and success.
It is curious that hearing in a dream from a guy a confession of perfect treason for a girl is a good omen, promising her a long and lasting relationship with this man. Since the French have always set the tone in matters of the heart and were considered to be recognized experts in them, we will not argue with the compiler of the dream book, but take into account all of the above.
Night dreams and real personal life
The compilers of the currently popular Gypsy Dream Book willingly share information on this topic. Many young ladies, tormented by the question: “Why do I dream that I cheated on a guy?” Try to find the answer precisely on his pages. Let's face it: the authors do not tell them anything encouraging. In their opinion, the betrayal committed in a dream indicates that in real life the dreamer is by no means averse to letting an unexpected guest into her heart.
At the same time, according to the compilers, this is a signal that relations with those who in reality have the right to count on her fidelity are reaching a dead end and are on the verge of breaking. What to do in this case, the girl herself should decide, since no one's advice will help her.
However, not everything is so sad. The same authors inform their readers that if, followingbetrayal will dream of the thrashing received for it, then in reality their real life will turn out as well as possible, and those to whom they were unfaithful in a dream will turn out to be the happiest of mortals in reality. As the saying goes: “They would have been with their lips…”.
What is the voice of the people talking about?
In this article, we have cited the statements of only some compilers of dream books, giving an interpretation of night dreams, sometimes visiting both very young girls and women with family life behind them. The people have a very definite opinion on this matter, in many ways consonant with what the experts say.
First of all, it is generally accepted that a dreamed betrayal is a warning from above that in real life rash acts should be avoided, especially those related to the intimate sphere, since their consequences are sometimes very deplorable. Of course, such advice should be followed regardless of the nature and plot of your night visions.
Don't rely on dreams
At the same time, one often hears that a betrayal seen in a dream can promise unexpected luck in real life - we already talked about this in one of the previous chapters. However, even the most convinced optimists say that this is a very unreliable reason for joy and for real positive, the plot of a dream should contain many specific details, and about which ones, there are very different and sometimes completely contradictory opinions.
