In the crowd, all people are alike. But it is worth talking, and an attentive observer will see that this or that person is unusual, not like others. An extraordinary person is always a curious phenomenon and a reason to think that there are no limits to perfection for a person. It is always a reason to reflect on your own accomplishments as well.
Specialists in nothing
Abilities look impressive, but they are of little value on their own. The labor market pays for the achievement and stability of high results. An extraordinary person is a person who proves every day that more can be done. He proves by his own example. Donald Trump was once asked if he would hire the winner of an erudite contest. The billionaire answered in the negative - after all, such a person knows a little about everything and nothing deeply. Therefore, every day in business he has nothing to do. He can be hired as a consultant for a one-time creative project, but not for long-term work. So thatan extraordinary person is always a narrow specialization. It's always many hours of hard work in a field that most people find boring.
Unglamorous work
Tennis players spend hours practicing moves without the ball. It takes a lot of time, it's not interesting and it's not spectacular at all. Often in the first few years, a young tennis player does not participate in tournaments at all. The result is far, happiness is not close. And in the end - victories in sports and the highest achievements. Examples: extraordinary man Maxim Mirny or extraordinary woman Maria Sharapova. Behind their originality lies thousands of hours of hard and boring work.
Be yourself
An extraordinary person is always a developed system of his own views and sufficient courage to live in accordance with these views, not to be afraid of opinions, not to tremble before condemnation. And, by the way, a really deep personality will not strive to become extraordinary. It comes naturally. It is enough just to know your goals and follow your dream, work every day. Then you will make the world wonder.
Unpleasant but manageable
An extraordinary person is always the result of a painful experience. People who seem to find everything easy on the outside usually know the price of this “lightness”. Talents are often associated with either precocity or hard labor. And with a lot of very unpleasant situations when the child feels weak, awkward, stupid. Remember - even in stressful, "ugly" situations, you look much better than you think. Often observers do not even understand the nature of yourdifficulties. So don't be too hard on yourself. Do you speak English badly? It's okay if you can't surprise your teacher. Do not be afraid, try, make mistakes, correct yourself. And everything will work out!
To become an unusual person, you do not need to strive for someone else's, imposed ideals. Find what you like and get better and better. Sooner or later you will understand how to apply your knowledge to the benefit of other people. So, you will become unusual and interesting for them. Courage and faith in the dream is the most important thing. An extraordinary person is a passion for self-improvement.
