What is femininity, how to develop it in yourself? Why do some ladies attract men to themselves, while others do not? Femininity is the ability to create an atmosphere of love around you. This is the ability to inspire a man and motivate him to action. This is respect for yourself and those around you. How to develop feminine qualities in yourself?
There are two ways. The first is external transformation. But this is only the beginning. It must necessarily entail a deeper awareness of femininity. The second way is to start with an inner change that will lead to an outer transformation.
What is femininity?
The concept of femininity is so streamlined and elusive that it is difficult to articulate. This is something attractive that stands out from the crowd, makes you turn around. Femininity is the totality of all feminine qualities. It is reflected in the eyes and gestures, smile and speech, walk and clothes.
Is femininity given at birth? Or can it be earned in a lifetime? What adds femininity?Elegance, softness, charm attract the attention of men. Such a special person is a pleasure to deal with. Next to her, the best qualities of the stronger sex wake up - the ability to protect, protect from troubles, help. Such women radiate warmth, light and a special energy in which you can bask, as if in the rays of the sun.
Inner manifestations of femininity
You can grow chic hair, wear airy dresses, but be tough and categorical. You can meet a girl in jeans and berets - and endlessly enjoy her natural femininity. How to develop these qualities in yourself? A woman's true femininity comes from her inner sense of self.
First, it's sincerity. The ability to easily and simply say compliments, emphasize the dignity of other people. Femininity is the absence of envy, enmity. This is the ability to present the most unpleasant truth gently and politely. Sincerity is also necessary in relation to oneself. Honesty in one's thoughts and actions is not available to every woman. But sincerity does not mean lack of tact. It is not always worth telling the truth, not everyone needs it. Sincerity is a living, emotional expression of feelings and thoughts. This is a combination of childish spontaneity, spontaneity and adult tact.
Second is self-esteem. Respect and love for yourself, your body, your needs. Awareness of oneself as a person, not an addition to a man. At the same time, the flexibility of character, the ability to adapt to life circumstances. It is worthy to behave in the most unattractive situations, not to provoke them. Self-esteem is directly related to confidence into himself, with a calm attitude to extraneous evaluative opinions. It is the inner wholeness of character.
Third, emotional inconsistency. This is by no means an instability of behavior, when a woman is thrown from one emotion to another, from screams to hysteria, from tears to laughter. Excessive manifestations of temperament are always unpleasant and have a depressing effect on others. A slight degree of inconsistency attracts men. This is an amazing property of women with their illogicality, emotionality to attract sympathy to their side. Disarm with soft unpredictability, bewitch with gentle energy. Masculinity and femininity differ in that the first always acts within the given framework of social rules, and the second - contrary to them, captivating with natural spontaneity.
Masculine and feminine qualities
In psychology there are concepts of masculine and feminine qualities. The separation of male and female roles is especially clearly seen in the domostroy structure. However, it is difficult to meet a man with only masculine qualities, or a woman with a set of only feminine features. Usually these entities are intertwined in the character of a person to a greater or lesser extent.
Masculinity - focus on results, competitiveness and ambition. Femininity - consensus building, emotional connections and caring. For self-realization in society, both qualities are necessary. There are psychological tests, thanks to which you can determine the dominant traits in yourself.
Masculine qualities
- Confidence.
- Resolute.
- Aggressiveness.
- Fearlessness.
- Feeling of freedom.
- The desire to dominate.
- Adventurism.
- Commitment.
- The ability to focus on one thing.
These are generalized characteristics. They are not expressed in appearance (a courageous voice or emphasized authority), but are inherent in character and behavior. The ability to learn something new, to search for prey or knowledge - this is the main male mission. Feminine is preservation, strengthening. Therefore, it is so important to develop in girls the ability to calmly, with a desire to work at home, to create comfort and coziness.
Feminine qualities
- Softness.
- Compliance.
- Sacrifice.
- Ready to help.
- Submission.
- Compassion.
- Intuitive behavior.
- Tidiness.
- Passivity.
- The ability to do several things at the same time.
Women's femininity implies a combination of masculine and feminine qualities. At the same time, it has a large share of lightness and flexibility. It has an inner creative upsurge and inspiration. This is the ability to be soft, but not to offend yourself. Do not take a masculine position, do not come into conflict with the stronger sex. Realize their creative potential based on their position as a woman.
What makes you more feminine?
Feeling of happiness, harmony in oneself allows a woman to be calm and peaceful. ita combination that attracts others. A woman who loves herself, who knows how to give and receive love, creates an aura of comfort around herself. Such a lady knows how to compromise, adapt to her man and circumstances. Feels light and relaxed, allowing himself to be a source of inspiration for the stronger sex. She respects and loves men.
Femininity is the ability to come to the rescue and the ability to accept it from others. This is trust and ease of communication. This is friendliness and unobtrusive sexuality. This is inner well-being and a state of comfort.
Such a woman has a sense of humor, radiating positive and good mood around her. She is polite and has self-respect. Takes care of himself, his body.
Development of femininity
Upbringing and society can crush femininity. The desire to make a career, raise and raise children, a lot of worries and problems make a woman strong, inflexible, able to go ahead to her goal. These are masculine qualities, and, having taken them into herself, a woman goes into internal conflict with the stronger sex. She becomes not a companion and comrade-in-arms, but an adversary who should be overcome. Therefore, entering the male path, a woman opposes herself to a man.
It is necessary to develop femininity, because the representative of the beautiful half of humanity needs affection and support, care and love. Realization of oneself as a woman is possible subject to certain rules. If there are more masculine qualities in the character, then you can modify them, starting with externalmanifestations of femininity.
The tendency to change images and roles makes the weaker sex multifaceted, changeable. Working on the transformation of appearance, a woman is able to change her image. Therefore, it is quite possible in the development of femininity to start with external changes, which gradually reduce to internal changes.
Appearance
Symbol of femininity – long hair and dresses. It is not necessary to grow a braid or do intricate hairstyles. But you should get rid of haircuts with a hedgehog and the like. If there is no inner femininity, such hairstyles will give a resemblance to a man. Soft curls, frivolous curls or shoulder-length straight hair will add charm. You can not do styling every day. But the purity and he alth of the hair is required.
Flowing dresses or strict skirts will emphasize the femininity of the figure, add mystery. Heels - even low ones - will introduce fragile instability into the gait, visually lengthen the legs.
You should not put too bright makeup on your face, fill yourself with perfume. A slight understatement of the smell will make men come closer. It is better not to abuse cosmetics, but to prefer a he althy complexion and the radiance of a snow-white smile.
Movements
Beauty and femininity lie in the elegance and grace of movements and gestures. It is possible, without having a model appearance, to have flexibility, smoothness of gait. You should not allow yourself sharp, masculine movements. Do not wave your arms when walking and do not mint a step. light, dancingwalking is eye-catching.
Soft, smooth hand movements are mesmerizing. Unhurried gestures, calm turns of the head, combined with a smile, will attract hearts faster than harshness and impetuosity. And well-groomed hands and feet (with unobtrusive manicure and pedicure) will add attractiveness.
Communication
The ability to speak and listen beautifully makes a woman a pleasant conversationalist. Smooth, unhurried speech is just as important as the timbre of the voice. You should not allow yourself noisy notes, screeching sounds. Loud, clear speech is more like a commander. What adds femininity and charm? Slightly muffled voice. Velvet timbre, expressive intonations. Calm facial expressions, a slight smile during communication, tact emphasize the feminine.
You should pay attention to the culture of speech, avoid rude and harsh wording. When communicating, look at the interlocutor, listen carefully, be sincerely interested in the topic of conversation. Kindly express your disagreement, avoid categorical assessments.
Recommendations for the development of femininity
- Learn to surround yourself with an atmosphere of peace, happiness, harmony with the world.
- Allow yourself to be weak and helpless, take your time, don't fuss.
- Do not overload yourself with work, remember about female self-realization in the family.
- Be able to act with dignity, self-respect, not spend life waiting.
- Take care of your he alth, attractiveness.
- Exude caring, kindness, gentleness, sensuality, love.
- Feel your speci alty, uniqueness.
- Do not compete with a man, do not blame and do not look for the guilty.
