What does "notorious person" mean? To date, quite a few people cannot afford to live a normal and fulfilling life due to the presence of any complexes they have. This has a very detrimental effect both on the personality itself and on the perception of the surrounding people. In other words, the worse we think of ourselves, the worse people around us think of us. In this article we will talk about a notorious person. After reading it to the very end, you will be able to learn better about the causes of certain complexes, their manifestations (both on your part and on the part of others), as well as information on how you can get rid of them. We wish you a pleasant reading!
A notorious person - what is this?
Firstly, such a person is quite easy to recognize by his attitude towards the people around him. He will always be quite generous with insults or any other remarks about another person that were not said to his face. Most often, a notorious person will criticize another in what he himself is not sure of. ATif a man constantly tries to hint to you that if you do not start to monitor your diet, lose weight, paint your lips more brightly or do a different, more beautiful styling, then representatives of the opposite sex around will stop noticing you, and after and do desire as a woman. If such a case really once happened to you, then you should think about it … Perhaps such a person is worried, most likely, not for you, but for his own suitability as a man?
The behavior of a notorious person
The most obvious difference between such a person and the rest is the desire to criticize others. But besides this, there are other signs of a notorious person. He is not used to praising other people for anything. In the same way as he himself is not used to receiving praise. Most likely, such a person himself is quite often criticized by the people around him, therefore this notoriety and, perhaps, aggression in terms of harsh criticism is his response to this cruel world. Insecure people often slouch. As if something is pressing on their back, they cannot straighten it without making special efforts to do so. The voice of a notorious person may differ in a small volume or a special tremor in any situation. Such people are simply not accustomed to express themselves loudly and clearly, attracting the attention of the public. After all, a person subconsciously understands that if he speaks loudly, they will pay attention to him, and if they pay attention, then they will see his shortcomings. For the same reason, they are not used to expressing themselves, even if they really wanted to. All again due to the fact that they are afraid to draw attention to themselves. It is best, in their opinion, not to stand out from the crowd of their own kind and follow any rules of accessible fashion. They are afraid to look too beautiful and smart, especially if there is no suitable occasion for this.
Self-criticism and introspection as the cause of human complexes
Often the reason for the appearance of complexes can be picky about oneself, that is, perfectionism. We can evaluate our appearance, our ability in something with particular captiousness, and constantly see any shortcomings in everything. In addition to self-digging, a person can engage in self-criticism, comparing himself and his successes with the achievements of others. Another not the best tactic of action. After all, you will never keep up with others, at the moment when you can become better for yourself …
Childhood memories as another reason for human complexes
This is the most common cause of complexes in humans. The most difficult thing here is that the person herself may not even remember how in childhood her mother shamed everyone for something. Or how a father beat his son with a belt because he was afraid (although after this he could only experience even more fear). Maybe neither children nor parents ever think about the consequences of such actions, but, in fact, this never disappears without a trace … Complexes remain about stooping or cowardice.
Love yourself to get rid of complexes
This is one of the most difficult, but most effective ways to get rid of complexes. If you think you have flaws, then try to correct them. But at the same time, never forget that every person has good sides. You can't be bad at everything. Love yourself and don't forget to praise as much as possible. Praise yourself for absolutely everything. For being able to wake up early or go to bed earlier, for doing such a good job today, for taking time for your own rest. And then, when you start praising yourself, without thinking about it and without forcing yourself to do it, it will mean that you are "on the mend" and you should continue in the same spirit.
Love other people to get rid of your own complexes
This may seem illogical to you, some people who have complexes consider this method some kind of wildness. But in fact, everything is completely different. When you find something positive in other people and praise this quality in them, you fill yourself with positive emotions. And if you also compliment people, it absolutely sets you up for something good. If you learn to find something good in others, you will be able to find positive qualities in yourself. And if you compliment people in the face, then, believe me, they will soon do the same towards you. And such pleasant surprisesbut they will affect your complexes, which will fade into the background, third plan, and soon they will completely disappear from your life! In this way, you will get rid of them and begin to live much better.
So, this should probably end. Now you know who a notorious person is and how to deal with human complexes. Even if you think you're not one of those people, try to live by complimenting yourself and other people. Your mood will always be good and life will be better. We wish you good luck in this difficult endeavor for many!
