Someone loves to be surrounded by many friends. Someone dreams of a big family with a bunch of little kids and a bunch of periodically visiting relatives. Many of us constantly communicate with colleagues at work, consulting with them on all matters of personal life … But there are people who can say with confidence: "I am a loner in life."
What does this mean for these people? What is "loner life"? Such people do not need anyone: neither friends, nor family, nor a partner. They think that they can handle everything on their own. They think that only their opinion is the only correct one, they do not want to hear anyone's advice. They do not want someone to call them and disturb their peace. They are so cozy and comfortable. They have their own small and at the same time such a huge inner world, into which they do not want to let anyone in, because they think that as soon as someone else appears in it, it will definitely deteriorate.
They will definitely have a family, only it will not consist of a bunchrelatives who come from time to time without warning. In their family, they are ready to see only themselves and their children. Well, if we touch on women, then the life of a single mother is actually not so bad as everyone thinks. Such ladies believe that they owe nothing to anyone, except for their children, of course. They are sure that no one will annoy them with betrayals and bad moods, family quarrels and scandals.
Why is it easier for them? Some of them are simply disappointed in people. They began to believe that all their actions are stupid and selfish. They narrowed their social circle to a minimum and fenced themselves and their lives with an imaginary wall when they realized that all their problems happen not because of themselves, but because of strangers. To prevent this from happening, they excluded strangers from their lives.
Many people think that a loner in life is some kind of punishment sent from above, they do not understand that people with similar views choose this path themselves, they themselves fence themselves off from society with a thick wall so as not to see and not hear horror beyond.
Wolf chooses such a life. One fine day, he simply leaves the flock that is disgusting to him in order to live according to his own laws, so as not to obey outside opinion. He creates his own family, and only his orders prevail in it. He is also a loner in life.
What's wrong with that, if a person, without interfering with anyone, just lives his own life and does not get into someone else's? However, at all times such people were disliked and feared. They are notunderstood and feared. No one knew anything about them, because they did not tell anyone anything about themselves. That is why they were considered somehow not quite normal, they were not loved for this reason. Such people have always been too complex for everyone to understand.
Who are these people? You can call them whatever you like: silent intellectuals, just eccentrics, slightly deranged, it doesn't matter. In fact, they call themselves simply: "a loner in life".
The worldview of such people can change over the years both in one direction and in the other. They are just so comfortable at some point in their lives. They are so calm, comfortable and cozy. They believe that this is the only way they can be sure of their future, that no one will spoil it for them.
