We often hear the phrase "charismatic person", "charismatic personality". What do they carry? What character traits form charisma?
What is a charismatic person?
If translated literally from ancient Greek, “charisma” means “divine gift”. All are endowed with it. Everyone is talented in something. Another thing is to understand what it is and develop these abilities. Charismatic people are very strong internally. Leaders by nature, they attract and lead. You don't have to be a famous artist or athlete to be considered charismatic. Anyone can become one.
How to develop charisma in yourself?If you decide to develop charisma in yourself, pay attention to the main points:
- Individuality. It is not necessary to imitate those who are considered authority in your environment. Only your inherent traits are a feature that will make you stand out from the crowd.
- Lack of fear to look into the eyes of the interlocutor or just passers-by. Make eye contact and demonstrate your confidence and openness.
- The ability to listen andhear. A person who possesses this will definitely command respect. They will reach out to him.
- Expression of feelings and emotions. Feel free to talk about your feelings, do not be afraid to express emotions. Charismatic people do just that.
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Honesty. A person who deceives does not command respect and does not attract. There are exceptions, but the attraction will not last. When deceit is the norm for a person, sooner or later others will get tired of it.
- The level of self-esteem. Charismatic people are confident and don't worry too much about what others think of them. They have their goals and work hard towards them.
- Image. The most charismatic people create an image and position themselves accordingly. This includes appearance, behavior, habits, hobbies, etc.
- Communication talent. The leader has influence on people due to the ability to speak, to find exactly the right words. He skillfully conveys his brilliant ideas and "ignites" everyone around them.
- Professionalism. Charismatic people have deep knowledge in their field of activity. They have virtually no equal in the workplace.
- The ability to keep intrigue. A person with charisma knows the art of understatement. There are mysteries around him, so he is always interesting to others.
- Love. Charismatics love people. They are rich internally and share spiritual values with others.
- Originality. Such individuals do not follow the standards of behavior, thinking. They create them themselves.
- Calm. Even inIn dispute, a charismatic person remains calm. He simply offers ways to solve the problem, gives logical explanations for his views.
What is the main thing in this process?
Nothing complicated or something that cannot be brought up in oneself, no. The main thing is desire, aspiration, perseverance and everyday work on developing your strengths. The result is sure to come. And then the combination of the words “charismatic personality” will become associated with people with your name. You will be able to achieve everything in life that you have planned.