Charisma has only a select few, but millions dream of it. A charismatic person is an inborn leader and a favorite of the gods, who leads people. It's like he has a magnet inside him that attracts other people.
Charismatic - what is it?
In translation from the ancient Greek word "charisma" means "divine gift", "grace", "talent". To consider yourself a person deprived of any talent means to put a cross on yourself and on your whole future. Of course, everyone has charisma to a greater or lesser extent. Not a single person has yet been born who has been deprived of God's gift. After all, everyone has a spiritual beginning, which means that there are certain talents.
There is an opinion that a charismatic person is necessarily either a politician or a show business star. In other words, it is the presence of a large audience that is an indicator of its uniqueness and selectivity. But such an opinion is fundamentally wrong.
A charismatic personality has a very strong inner core and bold desires,a fire always burns inside her, which attracts those around her, if not forever, then for a long time. These are people who are attractive and attractive with their external and internal qualities.
How to become charismatic?
As mentioned earlier, inside each of us there is a spark from birth, but due to circumstances or a certain upbringing, it fades over the years. However, not all is lost! Through long training, you can try to develop charisma in yourself.
The very first thing is to develop confidence, as it is difficult to imagine an insecure and shy charismatic. It is also important to have your own opinion and not be shy to express it, always be responsible for your actions and not be afraid to take responsibility for them. Initiative, ability and desire to tackle the problem first, without waiting for support or help from the outside, are the hallmarks of any leader.
It is also desirable to learn to laugh at yourself, thus demonstrating that you, like anyone else, sometimes make mistakes or mistakes. By accepting your mistakes and learning how to come out of any difficult situation with humor, you will be one step closer to your goal. After all, a charismatic person is also an optimist who is able to look at life and some of life's difficulties through the prism of the positive and find something good and useful even in a negative situation.
And of course, in order to please people, you need people to like you. You need to learn to listen, to be indifferent toother people's problems. In communication, you need to inspire confidence and be able not only to demonstrate yourself from the best side, but also to show the interlocutor his own merits, let him know that he is very interesting to you and his opinion is important.
The most important thing is always and in any situation to be yourself, not to try to be what you really are not. After all, people immediately recognize lies and pretense. Positive, openness and unquenchable love for life and people will definitely help you find charisma in yourself.
