The question “does a guy like you” arises quite often among girls. For example, you can ask him directly about this. Or ask the same question, but through one of your close friends. In a word, there are options. How do you know if you like a guy or not?
A few tipsTo understand yourself and find out how nice a young man is, some tips and observations will help:
- Communicate with him more. And then answer yourself the question: “Is this communication interesting, what are our common topics?”
- Listen to your heart. Does it knock louder and more often at the sight of the “object”. If yes, then you care about the guy.
- When you meet him, you are speechless. Or, on the contrary, you start talking too much (that is, you do something that is not typical for you).
- You always start talking about him with friends and acquaintances. You still can’t understand in any way whether you like the guy or not, but it’s clear to everyone around: there is sympathy.
- You are constantly interested in his hobbies, hobbies, tastes (what kind of music does helistens to whether he likes football, what are his favorite films and the like). And then you compare them with your own or with the ideal that you dream of. For example, you compare what kind of guys you like in general and what kind of movie that he likes, you would like to watch with him.
- He comes to you in your dreams. This is a sign that your subconscious has fixed thoughts about him.
- The constant desire to hear and see him. Without him, you miss, do not find a place for yourself. Meeting him brings a smile, a feeling of joy fills the soul.
Compare your feelings with the above points. This will be the answer to the question "how to understand whether you like a guy or not." If everything converges, sympathy takes place.
How a girl should behave with a guy she likes
Let's say we somehow managed to understand: a girl likes a guy. How should she behave now? What are the best things to avoid. A few suggestions about this:
- You are a gift to him. Behave in such a way that he wants to get your attention all the time. Don't try to please. This can immediately ruin interest. Let there be a feeling that communication with you must be earned.
- Do something that gets his attention.
- Never be rude. Guys don't like it (nor do girls).
- Keep mysterious. He doesn't have to know all your thoughts about him. Invited to the cinema - say with a pleasant charming smile: "Maybe we'll see."
- Sometimes let's understand that he's not the only one who likes you. But atIn this, in the end, select him, because he is your choice.
- Know how to challenge. For example, declare that none of the guys can win your heart. This will make him want to prove he can do just that.
- Be weak sometimes. Let your beloved feel like a protector, a support.
- Don't be afraid to say no. Always be yourself. If you don’t like something, or you had other plans for this evening, say it straight. You have the right to have your own opinion and personal matters.
In conclusion
In matters of love, there is usually no logic. But something can still be done. How to understand whether you like a guy or not, and how to behave if you like it, the advice of psychologists, girlfriends and your own vision of the situation will help.
