Several years ago, information appeared on the Web that love is a drug. Even studies have been conducted, as a result of which it turned out that in love, like in drug addicts, the same receptors responsible for pleasure are activated.
But the scientists reassured us. Although falling in love has common symptoms with drug addiction, it is not.
Euphoria of feelings
It is in our nature to fall in love. It helps build relationships and create families. But there are people who fall in love for the sake of being in love. They often change partners, justifying themselves by looking for their soul mate.
An amorous person is an individual who falls in love a lot and often. This is a hunter for love euphoria, violent emotions and passion.
Distinguishing Features
A person who needs strong love experiences, thrills and emotions. He needs a feeling of flight, joy, lightness in the body and butterflies in the stomach. This is an amorous individual.
A person who attributes non-existent character traits to his partner, idealizing his image. He's drawingin your head an ideal picture of a partner, what he should be. This amorous person who forbids another to be himself, because if he shows himself real, the relationship will end.
A man who lives in his dreams and fantasies. The world of illusions does not allow him to see reality. An amorous person perceives people as ideal images, and is very disappointed when she learns the truth. True, this does not prevent her from starting the following relationship.
A person who depends on the state of being in love, who may become ill if there is no object to sigh nearby, is an amorous individual who needs to constantly search for the ideal partner.
What other traits does he have? A caring and amorous person can conquer you with his behavior. He is interested in your affairs, he meets you in the evening after work, prepares dinner, helps with cleaning, walks with you in the park, arranges pleasant surprises and unusual dates, gives gifts, pays a lot of attention, writes cute SMS, calls several times a day just because. Isn't this love?
What's wrong?
Every person has his own ideal image of a loved one. But some people get so caught up in the search that they forget to live the real life.
The process is important for these amorous persons, they are not interested in the partner's feelings and thoughts, only in the state that they experience while being with him. The longer it lasts, the longer the relationship. As soon as the veil of illusions falls from the eyes, then the time comes for parting and searching for a new object for love. Butlove is built differently, it is based on mutual trust and acceptance of each other with all positive and negative traits.
Psychologists say that this behavior is typical for people who do not want to take responsibility and are afraid to start a serious relationship.
What to do?
- If you recognize your partner in this article, then discuss this issue with him. Find out his opinion and what he thinks about relationships. If your conclusions and views do not match, then make an appropriate decision.
- If you recognize yourself in this article, then confess and give yourself inner consent to change. Analyze why this is happening, find the root of the problem and fix it. Live a real life with a real live person.
It's good to be forever in love at 17. This gives a sense of flight and inspiration for creativity and dreams of a brighter future. But at 30, this will bring nothing but disappointment and loneliness. Grow up, take responsibility for yourself, your life and build your bright future!
