In our world, a person who is not able to love is far from news. Some call it narcissism, others call it selfishness, narcissism - there are a whole lot of terms. It would seem that at the current time it is simply impossible without these qualities - business obliges, and personal relationships often develop in such a way that it is necessary to show composure so as not to wallow in depression and fear of parting. But, as they say, all good things should be in moderation, and with indifference, the absence of any feelings, it should be exactly the same. However, sometimes people do not realize that their obsession with themselves, hostility towards others is already developing into a mental disorder. That's what we'll talk about now.
Most often, a narcissist appears to us as a person who does not like people. Such a person is too fixated on himself, whether it be on the outer shell or on knowledge, spiritual development, and so on. Further. In the mind of an egocentric person, it is he who is the ideal worthy of all the best. All other people, including those who surround him and even love him, are a kind of "slaves". He believes that they exist only to give him warmth and joy.
Most often, a person who does not love people who are in his environment is distinguished by a very stingy inner world, a narrow worldview, spiritual emptiness and alienation. Even in noisy companies, such a person experiences a feeling of loneliness just because he believes that she (he) cannot condescend to everyone else. Such people rarely maintain meaningful conversations, not even because their knowledge base may be insufficient, but because they simply do not know how to communicate. It is precisely from this that a person who does not love people constantly suffers, although he himself does not consider such a state to be torment, but on the contrary, he admires him.
If this trend does not go away over the years, with the experience gained, then all this develops into misanthropy. Many psychiatrists call such a deviation a disease of the modern world, which, to one degree or another, is characteristic of each of us. A modern person who does not love people becomes so through the fault of the same society. Such a personality disorder has acquired a special scale in our country, where the division into social strata is too clearly manifested, where people with power and money push everyone else around, and the latter, in turn, begin tohatred is born. Thus, one person can only hate traffic cops, who endlessly fine her, another, angry at all utilities, begins to quietly hate white light.
In the course of such bleak trends that are engulfing our world, many of us forget what it means to love a person. And we are not talking about relatives or relatives at all, but, as they say, about the first people they meet. It is important to notice those little things that passers-by inadvertently do for you. For example, someone gave up their seat on the subway or helped carry a heavy basket of groceries to the checkout. Notice the smiles that a refiller, seller, hairdresser can give you, and don't forget to give a good mood to everyone around.
