How often do we think: "To know where to fall…". How sometimes we regret unused opportunities or erroneous actions. Everyone would like to know and understand how to make the right decision that would lead along the right path to the intended goal. However, sometimes we forget the most important thing. About our
personality is in constant development. Solving new challenges, facing unusual and unusual circumstances, we change. This means that goals, values, priorities also do not stand still. They change with us. That is why it is better to put the question of how to make the right decision for the "here and now", and not looking ahead, let alone looking back.
The author has had occasion to talk with many people who sometimesfound themselves at difficult crossroads in life. And this is what is typical for those who gave the impression of a self-confident, accomplished person - they did not regret the past! They didn’t bite their elbows, even if they had to change their way of life, country, field of activity many times. They did not revel in self-pity if they happened to lose all their possessions and start all over again. Therefore, in order to understand how to make the right decision, you need to be clearly aware that a lot depends on us, but not everything. What seems right at a certain moment may turn out to be wrong. That's why more
The people who suffer the most from failure are inflexible people who find it difficult to adjust and act according to circumstances. And our path is far from always smooth and spacious. Therefore, the first piece of advice: take off the burden of excessive responsibility. A person is arranged in such a way that in any situation he can find both joy and disappointment. Even if you have reached your "goal", it can always feel like "the palace is too small and the molasses is too sweet".
So how do you make the right decision that you won't regret? First of all, try to trust fate and intuition. Very often we hesitate and doubt if there is some intrapersonal conflict, for example, between reason and feelings, between desires and duty. But this situation is also a stimulus for development. And intuition, which we often underestimate or drown out, is what helps to make the right decision. Do not think that this is something supernatural, "voiceabove." It is rather your subconscious mind that processes the situation in its own way. Our elementary, physiological reactions often tell us where we will be good and where we will not be very good. For example, if you are looking for a new job, listen to your intuition. If a conversation with a future boss puts you in a positive mood - this is a good start, but if the building itself, the atmosphere prevailing there, the appearance and manner of communication of employees cause tension and oppression, if you do not feel comfortable in this place - perhaps this is a warning.
And how to make the right decision in your personal life? The advice is the same. Do not try to reason, plan, think in lofty categories. Just feel the situation, immerse yourself in your feelings. How communication with this or that person will develop is often decided by the first minutes. And if we are comfortable, we feel safe, this means that these relationships have a future. And vice versa, if it is difficult for us to find common topics, if we are constrained, but, for example, the thought has settled in our minds that this is an excellent game, try to trust your intuition. We live with a person, and not with his status, money or position in society.
Another technique will tell you how to learn to make the right decisions. This method can be called "look into the future." The bottom line is to try to imagine the possible development of events in as much detail as possible,
which follows your choice. Are you offered a job but don't know whether to take it? As detailed as possibleand in colors imagine yourself in this place in a year, two, five. What does your typical working day look like, how do you dress, how do you relax? Do you enjoy going into the office or are you trying to come up with excuses to show up as little as possible? By imagining this, you are subconsciously preparing yourself to make a decision.
And perhaps the most well-known and effective method is to "sleep" with the problem. If you ask yourself a question in the evening before going to bed, in the morning you will receive a ready answer. Your subconscious or intuition will do all the work for you. Sometimes a conversation with an uninterested stranger helps. By speaking out loud all your arguments and doubts, you thereby come to a decision. Good luck!
