Life is a complex and unpredictable thing, but every living creature has one. Therefore, it would be unforgivable to live it in such a way that on your deathbed you feel terrible because of unfulfilled goals and unfulfilled dreams. In this article, we'll share a few reasons why life is worth living for.
What is the meaning of life
Man has been looking for the truth for centuries to help answer the question of why he should live. How many thinkers and philosophers have been, how many treatises have been written, how many religions and cultures have been studied, but everyone has their own truth.
Each person chooses the meaning of life and what to live for. But to find it, you have to work hard. “Don't leave the room, don't make a mistake,” Brodsky wrote in his poem of the same name. To close oneself from society, to allow complexes and unjustified fears to absorb oneself leads to the fact that a person loses his taste for life. In Russia, as well as around the world, there are enough such people. Especially those who do not want to constantly develop, strive to learn something new, justifying ithaving children and some responsibilities.
But you can get acquainted with the world, feel it, search for your truth not alone, but with your husband, friends, children, and even work! And having reached one goal, you must certainly look for a new one.
Emotions and impressions
In old age, a person remembers everything he dreamed about. Someone has been inspired by France all his life, and someone by the white nights. But not everyone has the opportunity to enjoy a wonderful spectacle, and remembering, thinking: “This is what I understand - beauty!”.
Emotions rule people. They activate all 5 senses in order to fully experience the beauty of this world. Therefore, do not be afraid to set a goal - to experience as many emotions as possible in a lifetime. And for this you need:
- Go to concerts, theaters and movies.
- Always try something new: write a book, compose a song, learn to do the splits, travel around the world, pick up a kitten from a tree, paint your walls with bright colors, put on a funny costume, overcome your fears.
- Walk more often. It is not always possible to travel the world, but believe me, even in your city there will always be incredible places that you will be delighted with. To do this, walk more often, get out with your family and friends, look for unusual places for a picnic.
Continuous self-development
What does a person live for? It is important to understand that each of us is an inquisitive, intelligent being with a hugepotential. Human nature is such that it always strives to learn something new, starting from an early age. Young children reach for a hot pot and in a moment they will gain invaluable experience that some objects can burn. An adult betrays his friend and realizes that it is very difficult to cope in this world alone.
The life lessons they receive are enough for some. And someone goes further and continues to learn. Such people strive to turn the world inside out, to understand how everything works and works, from the laws of physics to the psychology of living beings.
Self-development strengthens self-confidence, makes you more significant than others. Such people understand that they can contribute to the development of our world, even in such a short life. Learn languages, communicate with people, learn new professions, feel free to watch documentaries, learn to analyze and don't be afraid to think all the time, build hypotheses and test them.
You need to live for the sake of life
Remember one simple truth: no one owes anything to anyone. All the attitudes “So it is necessary”, “I am obliged”, “Who else but me”, “I cannot do otherwise”, “I must sacrifice for the sake of something” are only in the head.
No one is forced to work where they don't like it. No one is sent by force to marry the unloved. Everyone has the right to decide how to live, what to eat for dinner, what style of clothing to choose and how to equip your home. But we are brought up differently. In addition to morality, morality and educationinstill some kind of program that should never be changed.
But one must live for the sake of life, not for the sake of “I can't do it any other way”. Yes, in order to achieve freedom and understanding that no one owes anything to anyone, you will have to try, study, study the structure of our world. There are times when people, getting an unloved job because of a difficult period in their lives, are simply afraid to quit and try themselves in a new field. And even though they had a difficult period a long time ago.
Huge family
“It is important to live for the sake of children” - this phrase very often sounds from human lips. There are several explanations for this:
- Firstly, such people could not achieve anything in life and now surround their children with care and excessive attention. But sooner or later your child will start looking for himself, and then you may encounter a feeling of devastation inside, loneliness. Children are a wonderful happiness, but you should not make them the center of the universe. It is important to keep tasting life, testing it and studying it under the microscope.
- Secondly, most people who are not interested in self-development and self-realization often say the following phrase: "I need heirs." It’s not enough just to give birth, because you still need to educate, instill in them a passion for life and help them express themselves. Children are truly the heirs on whom well-being, tranquility and peace on the planet depend.
Fulfill with your children, look together for what you can live for. Nobody forbids to explore, read, dance, go toconcerts, discover something new, even being in a huge family.
Finding your soul mate
Philosophers and thinkers of all ages often use two opposite terms in their works - “love” and “loneliness”. And this is no accident, because every person is always in the eternal search for his true soulmate. Someone asks their God to give them love, someone pleads with the Universe, and someone wanders aimlessly through the cities for hours and peers into the faces of passers-by.
“What to live for if there is no love in me and no one needs me?” - a question that drives millions crazy. Relationships and friendship cannot always replace this emptiness in the soul. Love is replaced by creativity, sports, career, but this great feeling, for unknown reasons, rules almost the entire human race.
Ensure old age and a comfortable life for your descendants
“All I have lived for is my family.” Most people work tirelessly for years just to keep their children from falling into poverty or financial hardship. Some succeed, others don't. For those who in their entire lives have not been able to cross the line of lack of money, a difficult state of mind sets in. On their deathbed, they reproach themselves that they did not work anymore in order to fulfill their cherished goal. But is it right?
You need to live for the sake of life. Calculate how many hours a day is spent on exhausting and monotonous work? And now, how many hours do you spend in a week, and then in a month, a year, and for several years. It turns out that a person has been chasing his dream all his life,not trying anything new, not noticing how his children grow up, to see if he can achieve the goal or not.
Self-development and a constant interest in the world around you will help you look at it from the other side. The difference is great: to work all your life where and by whom you do not want, or vice versa, to do what you love, which always starts to generate income, if you believe in yourself and your potential.
Fear of death
Many lose all taste for life, realizing that sooner or later any living being dies. But just imagine how great the chance was that you would not be born. An unimaginable number of factors influenced your birth: your ancestors meeting each other, wars, famines, severe illnesses. And that's not counting the number of sperm that compete with each other at the stage of fertilization.
Scientists have calculated that the chance of each of us appearing is 1 in 400,000,000,000,000,000. The figure is simply incredible! And that is why it is important to understand your peculiarity and capabilities, being the allotted time on the planet.
The Pursuit of Happiness
Every person has their own joy in life. Someone dreams of a dog, someone of good eyesight, and someone to see the dawn on the roof of a high-rise building. Happiness is in the little things, and you need to learn to notice them.
Go fishing with your loved ones and look for frogs, and if you are lucky, you will meet a muskrat or a beaver. Go outside at night and look at the sky, realize how many beautiful and terrifying planets there are at the same time. Make a beautiful caketreat your colleagues without any reason. Say something nice to someone who needs it, hug him or support him in difficult times. See how beautiful the cherry and apple blossoms are in spring, breathe in this sweet aroma and feel how inspiring this world is.
Every moment that makes you happier is something worth living for. Only for each person these events and stories are completely different.
