Every person dreams of a kind and honest friend, wife, boss, colleague. Is not it? Kindness and honesty are the qualities that most people try to find in other people, forgetting that you first need to be like yourself.
What is honesty?
Let's talk about honesty. It is worth trying to define this rather difficult concept. Honesty is a character trait when a person always tells the truth and tries not to lie under any circumstances. He avoids lies, omissions. Honesty is the ability to always admit one is wrong, it is the ability to never make excuses, to be sincere in any situation. An honest person has a conscience that never sleeps, which strictly controls all his actions and actions.
On types of honesty
There are two kinds of honesty - honesty to other people and honesty to yourself. At first glance, it seems that being completely frank with yourself is very easy. However, it is not. Very often people fall into the network of illusions created by themselves and can stay in them for a long time. For example, there are caseswhen a person considers another person his most sincere friend, trusts him in everything, helps him, and years later it turns out that friendship as such did not exist. It's just that the first wanted to believe in this holy feeling, while the other simply skillfully used its principles. Therefore, it is very important never to deceive yourself.
Now let's talk about being honest with others. What is included in this concept? First of all, it is being true to your word. An honest person will always keep his promise, help in difficult times. You can trust him like yourself. He always speaks to the point and would rather remain silent than flatter and sing praises.
Is it easy to be honest?
To our great regret, it is very difficult to be honest in the modern world, as deceit, meanness and betrayal can be found at every turn. In most cases, they love those people who can cheat, evade an answer, or scatter in compliments. That is why man had an unbearably difficult mission to bring kindness and light into this world. Honesty is not only a quality of character, but also the duty of those people who consider themselves highly moral. There are several reasons why people choose honesty. Those who believe in God will say that the seventh commandment says: "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." And they will be completely right, living according to the Lord's prescriptions. Others, unbelievers, can also be no less honest, because they cannot live otherwise. Thus, we can conclude that honesty comes in different ways.
The honesty of a manalso lies in the eradication of lies. He will do his best to prevent another from lying, and in any situation he will ensure that justice prevails.
Laws of the Universe
Honesty is life, according to the laws of the Universe. It is worth noting that they are all honest. For example, the boomerang law. He did a good deed - in the future it will definitely return, he committed an evil deed and already seems to have forgotten about him, but no, he will return, and at the most inopportune moment. Honestly, isn't it?
A little about straightness
However, it is worth distinguishing between honesty and excessive straightforwardness, or even rudeness. An honest person is always correct, even though he speaks the truth. The straightforward one says everything he thinks about, without even assuming that his words are not always in place and can hurt their neighbor. When speaking the truth, be correct above all.
Be honest and sincere, and then your conscience will always remain calm. Also, do not forget that you need to be sincere in front of yourself. Good luck in this difficult but very necessary business!
