The strength of personality, regardless of gender, does not appear immediately. The person himself does not always suspect that he can not only fantasize about something, but also achieve what he has planned. If you look aloofly at someone's dreams, you can always understand whose aspirations they are - the strong or the weak half of humanity, because women are worried about sensual experiences, and the main male need is action.
Rudiments
Already in the children's actions of boys, you can see the beginnings of the male core. Although at this age, being a man is not always easy. A classmate and a classmate walk home from school along the same path. The boy wears two briefcases every day - his own and a neighbor's. But misfortune happens, one hand of the boy is plastered. However, on the way home, he again has two briefcases, but not in both hands, as always, but in one. The girl's attempt to carry her briefcase by herself failed. So, the male core is clearly visible in the relationship between not yet fully formedpersonalities.
It doesn't matter if they break up later in life. Perhaps they will remain neighbors or link their lives into one. The main thing is that the male core of the boy once became an example for the girl in childhood. And in the future, she will no longer be able to be near a partner without a rod. There is hope that she will be lucky on the first try. And perhaps she will have to choose for a long time, get burned, be disappointed, be unhappy. Because not all men are able not only to wear trousers, but also to have a male inner core. And it's not just about a metaphor denoting the structure of the psyche of a strong person. Talk about the fact that a person in the modern world, especially a man, has no right to be weak in extreme situations.
The main features of a man with a male core
It is believed that courage should always go along with resilience and courage, responsibility is inseparable from self-confidence. It is understood that it is these qualities that should be inherent in a person who has a male core. But the harshness of the civilized world causes many "weak" women to have these character traits. But in men you will not always find them.
Men without a rod
It has become an objective reality that apathy and lack of will, brought up in "mama's sons" by powerful women with strong attitudes, dominate the life views, and, accordingly, the behavior of some men. They are incapable of being strong, have the habits of an eternal boy, ohthe morality of one or another of their actions have only a point of view embedded in their head from childhood. Not everyone succeeds in rethinking their life views, understanding the reasons for their mistakes and failures. Even just to understand that the solution of this or that issue could have a different result, if a man managed to defend his opinion, sometimes he cannot do it.
Therefore, not everyone is able to reasonably consider the fact that it is simply necessary to develop a male core, as life situations suggest. An indicator of a change in the inner world of a man is his actions. If a man who has not found himself in life joins the company of those who have given up, he is likely to plunge into a depressive state, and alcoholism will become inevitable. His character will become unbearable, he will lose even the job that somehow fed him, family discord, illness and neuroses will turn into constant companions. There is only one way out of the situation: to be able to develop the male core as a way to get rid of restlessness and find a favorite thing, a happy life, material prosperity.
Self-restraint
First of all, for this, a man must be capable of self-restraint. How to bring it up in yourself? Unfortunately, an accomplished person is hardly capable of changing anything without outside help. Will have to turn to psychologists.
Very young guys are able to educate themselves on their own. Teenage relationships allow you to take a cue from celebrities who have been able to achieve success in life and become models forimitations. Tips on how to pump the male core are expressed and written by peers from monitor screens; these issues are discussed in sports clubs and friendly parties.
Be accountable
The need to answer, first of all to friends, for failure to fulfill any promises made in a common company, makes a young person tense up or even limit himself in some way. A habit is developed not to allow discrepancies between words and deeds.
Growing up and the emergence of a natural attraction to the opposite sex allows you to create another beacon, which is not always easy to reach. Some have to resort to improving their own appearance. And only then the object of adoration becomes available. And the habit of forcing yourself not to lie down in the morning under the covers, but to run around the park, is also not easy.
The way to build willpower is to stick to an unfamiliar or unloved way of eating. Diet helps a lot not only to make the body attractive, but also makes you think differently. But all this applies to a person who has not yet become ossified and, under the influence of surrounding people and circumstances, can develop the male core on his own.
Hardening
But smart parents who care about the happiness and well-being of their boy, from childhood, bring him up in conditions of limiting children's unreasonable desires, but at the same time they do not allow tyranny, which they teach him to bean adequate person and have a male inner core.
Hardening a child's body not only improves he alth, but also teaches stamina and endurance. Compliance with sleep, food, walks, necessary activities disciplines not only the baby, but also his caregivers. The obligatory nature of morning, afternoon, evening hygiene procedures leads to the fact that cleanliness becomes a necessity, and even in difficult living conditions it will be impossible to part with this habit. Responsible attitude first to small children's duties, then to more extended ones, conscientiousness in completing lessons and good school performance are possible only with unobtrusive, but constant control by elders.
Tune in success
Raising a child so that in later life he can realize himself in his favorite business and manage to create a strong family is not easy. If a guy was not lucky enough to grow up in such a family, then he is aware that the male core in relations with others will benefit not only him, it is never too late to engage in self-education. And you have to start by believing in yourself. Setting yourself up for success means changing your internal state, overcoming the fear of failure and failure. And move towards self-improvement without giving yourself any concessions.
