It's no secret that successful men are popular with the fair sex. But not all women equally understand the meaning of these words. Someone includes we alth in this category, someone - popularity, and someone - personal qualities and so on.
Need levels
Successful men earn their status through long and painstaking work, as well as thanks to natural abilities. In addition, it is worth noting that achieving heights largely depends on what goals a person sets for himself at a particular stage, as well as on what he wants from life. So, we can distinguish several levels of needs:
- Physiological - food, shelter, clothing and more. Most people go through this stage at a young age, earning the bare minimum.
- The need for security implies confidence in the future. A man is trying to earn money for his own housing, as well as save a certain amount as a "airbag".
- The third level of needs is social. Successful men strive to form a stable circle of friends, as well as to gain some weight in society.
- The need for self-expression and self-realization implies the disclosure of one's talent. Moreover, speech cango not only about creativity, but also about entrepreneurship.
- When a man needs harmony, he seeks to create a family, working for the benefit of his woman and children.
- The highest level of needs is spiritual. Quite often successful men turn to charity or become interested in religion.
Ingredients of success
The life of a successful man includes three main components:
- natural inclinations that imply the presence of certain abilities and talents;
- material success - achieving certain success in the struggle for resources (money, material values, etc.);
- spiritual level is the ability to persevere with failures and find the strength to move forward.
Success in all areas
Success includes many aspects, the main of which is he alth. Good he alth gives strength to move forward and achieve the goal. It is also worth deciding on a specific area of \u200b\u200bactivity. Only by directing your efforts in a certain direction, you can achieve heights.
Contrary to prevailing stereotypes, a successful man is not a heartthrob who is surrounded by crowds of fans. It is worth solving all your problems with women. Connect your life with the only chosen one, and if there is none at the moment, do not scatter on meaningless connections. You also need to be clear about your relationship with others. Designate a circle of close friends and maintain close ties with them. Do not confuse loved ones with thosewhich may be useful at work.
It is worth clearly realizing that success is not some specific point, after reaching which you can stop and enjoy the results. This is a continuous work of self-improvement, which aims to be better than others and yourself yesterday.
The style of a successful man
Many people think that expensive things are indispensable attributes of successful and rich men. So, women's magazines recommend first of all to pay attention to watches and shoes. Also, there must certainly be an expensive suit, briefcase and other signs of luxury. But all this is appropriate only in a business setting. If you meet a man "at the parade" in public transport, a park, or just in an ordinary setting, you should know: most likely, you are dealing with a womanizer who is trying to attract the attention of women with an external gloss.
In ordinary life, successful men do not like such "show-offs". Outside of work, they wear shorts, flip-flops and the most ordinary T-shirts. Nevertheless, such people look quite neat and noble even in the simplest clothes. And of course, they can leave expensive accessories such as watches, rings or chains. It is also worth noting that well-groomedness is an integral sign of success - a stylish, beautiful haircut, clean skin, nails and, of course, a slender, toned body.
Principles of success
The life of a successful man is based on the following principles:
- the ability to be decisive and take onresponsibility;
- in relations with family members, it is worth behaving exactly like a head, and not like a cruel tyrant;
- the ability to behave with dignity, without showing off one's position;
- respect for women;
- awareness of one's responsibility to the family in terms of providing material benefits;
- the ability to control emotions without letting them out at a critical moment;
- responsibility for raising children equally with wife and other family members;
- earning authority is worth instilling respect, not intimidation.
A successful man through the eyes of women
Every woman wants a successful man by her side. What is he? There are many opinions to be heard on this. So, most ladies see their ideal like this:
- characterized by pronounced leadership qualities, thanks to which there are always a lot of people around him;
- has a good financial position, as well as a high status in society;
- in his activities there are much more successes and victories than failures and failures;
- sets clear goals and knows how to achieve them;
- he stands firmly on his feet, confident in the future and can provide a stable income for his family;
- has an active life position, constantly striving to learn something new;
- popular in wide circles, enjoys authority;
- receives from his work not only financial reward, but also pleasure.
Which women like successful men
Behind every successful mandefinitely worth a woman. It is worth noting that businessmen and other we althy people are quite demanding of their soul mates. So, if you want to enter into an alliance with a successful and famous man, you must meet a number of requirements:
- often they choose girls much younger than themselves, but mature enough, ready to start a family and have children;
- it is not at all necessary to be able to cook and iron shirts, because, most likely, a housekeeper will do this for you (but you should prove yourself in some area of creativity);
- it doesn't matter if you have a red diploma from a prestigious university, the main thing is that you should be able to keep up the conversation;
- a woman should certainly be beautiful and well-groomed, but do not be zealous with extended nails and hair - this is a sign of bad taste;
- with regard to work, it is difficult to predict here (a man can encourage your labor aspirations in every possible way, or he can categorically forbid you to play another role, except for the guardian of the family hearth);
- despite their we alth, rich men really don't like it when someone squanders their money, so forget about crazy daily shopping trips.
What a woman should be ready for
If you want to connect your life with a rich and successful man, you should be prepared for the following risks, namely:
- too big age difference, which often leads to "generation conflict" and other inconveniences;
- excessive jealousy of both mere mortals and the more successfulindividuals;
- lack of romance and reverent attention, because all energy is usually directed to work;
- risk of becoming a victim of kidnappers, scammers, robbers and other ill-wishers of your beloved;
- even the richest person can go bankrupt, so think about whether you will love him without money;
- most likely, you will have to refuse to communicate with your old friends who do not correspond to the social status of your husband;
- he will constantly be surrounded by young pretty people who will become the subject of your concern.
The most successful men
Every woman dreams of Hollywood stars, artists or world famous millionaires. So, the most handsome successful men are as follows:
- George Clooney - despite his considerable age (50 years), remains at the top of popularity and still wins women's hearts;
- Daniel Craig - like his screen character James Bond, can not leave any beauty indifferent;
- David Beckham is an example of an ideal family man, a reference handsome man and a successful man;
- the more serious and "adult" the roles of Leonardo DiCaprio become, the greater his fees, as well as crowds of fans around the world;
- Despite the fact that Prince William has a long family, he still excites the minds of women around the world.
How to make your man successful
Of course, everyone would like to meet a rich and successful handsome man. But, unfortunately, there are not many of them. That's whyit is worth remembering that a successful man is the work of a woman who is next to him. Follow these guidelines:
- if you lack something in life, feel free to tell your husband about it (but without reproach) - let your desires become motivation for him;
- putting your soul into your faithful (cooking, cleaning, washing, etc.), do not forget about yourself - visit beauty salons, go out with friends, develop your talents;
- take care of your husband's he alth so that he can put all his strength into work (watch his diet, make him go in for sports and give up bad habits);
- talk to a man more often about your love, and also become a support for him in all his endeavors;
- for a man, life outside the home will always come first, so always start conversations about family life first;
- develop alternative scenarios for your future life (if you really love your husband, you will be equally happy with a millionaire, and with an ordinary manager or sales agent).
Conclusions
The success of a man is made up of many complementary factors. This is, first of all, he alth and good physical shape, which together give strength to move on, to new achievements and heights. In addition, there must be specific natural inclinations that determine the propensity for a particular type of activity. And, of course, there must be a constant desire to create something new, to improve your life, as well as the lives of loved ones.
It is worth noting that anythe girl dreams of having a successful man next to her. The hands of a woman can create real miracles. With a little effort and wisdom, you can lead even the most hopeless, at first glance, person to career heights. The main thing is boundless love and the desire to achieve heights together. A wise woman will always get her way if she knows what she wants from life.
