All girls dream of a sensual, caring and strong guy next to them. Just such a "prince" was born under the zodiac sign of Cancer. However, in reality, building something with him or simply explaining the status of your relationship turns out to be very difficult.
A Cancer man in love, what is he like? What is hidden under its impenetrable protective shell? Loving such a man is extremely difficult. He is touchy, prone to despondency and is indecisive. But this guy is smart, has a great sense of humor and handles finances wisely.
We look at the ascendant: Cancer or not Cancer?
Popular astrology considers exclusively the solar sign of the zodiac. However, this consideration of the horoscope is too superficial. The main characteristics of the personality must be looked at by the sign of the ascendant. The ascendant is calculated on any online portal for free. You only need to know the exact time of birth, date and place.
If your new acquaintance is Cancer Ascendant, feel free to go on a date with him. This person will neverwill not offend and he is set only for a serious relationship. But at first, determining whether he likes you or not is a rather difficult task. How does a Cancer man in love behave? How long will he hide his feelings?
How often Cancerians fall in love and how serious it is
Cancer man, according to the horoscope, appreciates constant sincere relationships. He's not the type to spread feelings. He takes relationships seriously and has been looking for the only partner for himself for a long time. But if he does not find his ideal and is disappointed in women, then he begins to have light intrigues, he can change. Much depends here on personal moral qualities and upbringing.
Some Cancer men are so stung by the female sex in the past that they absolutely do not want to meet anyone and have a relationship.
The Moon gives Cancers such qualities as housekeeping, practicality, love of order. They cook their own food and do an excellent job of housekeeping without a woman. Therefore, not meeting true love, not finding a woman with whom they want to raise children, Cancers turn into inveterate bachelors. Or hang.
Cancer men and their characteristics
For starters, I would like to note that Cancer is a sign of the water element and a sign of the cardinal cross.
All signs in astrology are divided into 3 crosses - cardinal, mutable and fixed. The four signs related to the cardinal cross are Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn. These signs know how to take the initiative, take matters into their own hands and bring it to the end.
All those born on the Cancer ascendant are those people who have inner strength and will not allow anyone to manipulate them. Rather, they themselves will be manipulators than victims. They, in principle, can take the initiative like Aries, but they rarely do this, because they themselves sometimes cannot control their emotionality and fear of being rejected. All signs of the water element are subject to fears, mood swings and doubts. Therefore, the study of solid masculine qualities for Cancer must be thorough.
Indeed, Cancers are under the strong influence of the Moon and often their mood changes very quickly. The moon symbolizes feminine energy, so for a guy who is influenced by her, life is quite difficult. But this female energy gives its bonus to Cancer - he receives an incredible intuition as a gift from nature. And thanks to this instinct, he can recognize the girl of his dreams after 20 minutes of talking with her. But he cannot show his feelings so directly and frankly. Cancers are too secretive and also vulnerable. It is impossible to understand that a Cancer man is in love with a woman. You can only feel it and squeeze confessions out of him or confess first.
A Cancer man in love: behavior and signs
What is the representative of the sign going through in love? How active is he? Can I be the first to confess my feelings for him? How does a Cancer man in love behave? We will answer in order. Cancers are educated people, often closed in on themselves, but if they fall in love, then a chivalrous spirit often wakes up in their hearts. Previously quiet, philosophical personalities suddenlyare active in conversation, begin to joke and tell amusing, in their opinion, stories. This behavior may indicate that the girl really liked him very much.
Sometimes a different picture emerges. Those representatives of the sign who love long informative conversations and are not averse to joking with everyone around, suddenly close themselves off from everyone and are silent for a long time. They are afraid that they will betray their feelings in the presence of others with a careless word or look. After all, it seems to them that other people also have intuitive abilities.
Signs of a Cancer man in love
There are several clear signs by which you can identify that your friend Cancer is experiencing tender feelings. So, remember these Cancer "falling in love symptoms":
- As a sign of water, Cancer is not very eloquent. He shows his feelings better through warm, unobtrusive care.
- He tries to be around, to give signs of attention to the chosen one.
- His attention is constantly riveted to the object of love. But if a girl catches his gaze, he will blush terribly and look away.
- A man can give his chosen one pleasant surprises from time to time.
The behavior of a Cancer man in love is sometimes absurd. If any phrase of his beloved hooked him, he decides to leave. But it will not be rude to talk about parting. He himself will be hurt, but he will try to do it delicately.
Of course, Cancers are different, a lot depends on what other planets are in his first House; where is it locatedThe moon, and also what is the planet that rules the constellation. But education is also important. Among the Cancers there are completely domestic "mother's sons" who have not left custody, but there are also quite serious young people with a rather firm, resolute character.
What is remarkable about Cancers in love? Date Behavior
What awaits a girl who came on a date with a sensitive guy - Cancer according to the horoscope? Cancer men in love behave gallantly and attentively, and are absolutely sincere and expect the same from the girl. If a man is unsure of himself, he speaks little, looks embarrassed and somewhat funny.
All Cancers are very sweet and courteous in communication, especially with girls. These guys will never allow themselves rude remarks or barbs. They are characterized by balance and a sound view of things. They also try to choose modest and reasonable girls. They expect from the ladies of the heart that they take care of their feelings. And if Cancer is offended, he will not call for a long time, or maybe he will completely close himself from such relationships that cause him emotional discomfort.
He is practical, sometimes overly economical. He would rather cook a romantic dinner himself than take the girl to a restaurant. Will there be flowers on the date? At the beginning of the novel, Cancers often give some small things, if funds allow, and rather expensive gifts. But be warned, this won't last long.
Close relationships
The disadvantages of Cancer include his tendency to be late for dates. Saturn in this sign is very weak, namely Saturn is responsible for the perception of time. Butthe main advantage of the sign is fidelity in relationships. He will never even think about cheating, and if a companion aroused a feeling of love in him, he is ready to even forgive her inability to cook.
Cancerians know how to care like no other sign. In addition, many of these men are excellent cooks.
How does a Cancer man in love behave? He is strongly attached to his mother, he will never be able to refuse her help. He is honest, will not lie to loved ones, but will rather keep silent about bad news. He does not like the depressed atmosphere in the house.
In general, Cancers protect themselves from disappointment and discouragement. If Cancer succumbs to a depressive mood, then it will remain in it for a long time. He is well aware of this trait in himself and is afraid of becoming one himself.
Man of the zodiac Cancer is always in love with his head. He will devote all his energies to home improvement, to creating a strong financial foundation for a large family, where there will be children and then grandchildren.
But if a woman leaves for another, he will be completely broken. For Cancers, home and family are always their main value.
If the ruler of the zodiac is in a fall?
Jupiter is the ruler of Cancer. A lot in the behavior of a man in love also depends on which sign Jupiter is in. So, the representative of Cancer will be a more generous, hospitable, sociable interlocutor if Jupiter is in his element. And if he is in exile - in Gemini, then the character of Cancer is different. He will not give expensive gifts or scatter in compliments. Such a man, however, is more faithful inrelations.
Reasons for jealousy of such men
If a Cancer man is in love with a woman, he will be terribly jealous. At first he will try to hide it. But if the relationship develops into something serious, Cancer will be angry whenever another man shows signs of attention to his girlfriend. Of course, this does not apply to all without exception Cancers. Some people know their negative qualities and work on them. For a shy and insecure representative of this zodiac sign, competition with a more confident man is unbearable. But if he took place in his career and feels free enough with a woman, then he will not become jealous for no reason. And the reason will be the lack of sincerity and trust in the relationship - the intuitive Cancer seems to scan his girlfriend and sees when something is being hidden from him.
People under the influence of the Moon are all owners. And you can find out that a Cancer man is in love by the fact that he is jealous of you for everyone. Cancers get used to old clothes, furniture, it is hard for them to break any bonds. If he decided to open his feelings, then he completely trusts the woman.
Compatibility with other characters
The most suitable for a Cancer man in terms of building a strong family will be another watermark. Cancers will be very comfortable and cozy in a relationship with Scorpio or Pisces. Only Scorpio will be able to "read the mind" of Cancer and behave with him as patiently as is required to maintain peace. They are both very perceptive and smart enough to understand each other perfectly.
Despite the fact that Scorpios are very caustic and can be harsh in communication, they are ideal partners for Cancers. They know how to control their emotions and understand the emotions of others. The Scorpio woman perfectly understands the Cancer man. How to understand that he is in love will not be a question for this girl, since she will be able to "scan" the Cancer guy and call him to a frank conversation.
Good relationship will develop between Cancer and Taurus or Aquarius. But with a fiery sign, it is better for them not to build a relationship. It will be a difficult union for both.
Emotional protection
How a Cancer man in love behaves, we have already said - he closes himself to protect himself. This man will stop defending himself only if the girl constantly confesses her love and convinces him that she will never leave. To break off relations with Cancer in love means to destroy his life.
That is why he has been eyeing for so long, evaluating the woman with whom he is going to build a future. Friendship and trust are important to him.
How long does a girl have to wait for a marriage proposal?
Cancer Man can be both decisive and responsible. But he will not make an offer until he is 100% sure that this is a mutual sincere relationship. That this woman will not criticize him, nag after the wedding and demand more money than he is able to give her. Therefore, a potential bride will have to endure a couple of years.
Know if Cancer shows attention and leaves some time for a girl to think about the pastgoodbye, it means that soon he will offer you a painting. However, don't expect a lavish banquet from him.
