Weaknesses of people and their influence on character and destiny

2024 Author: Miguel Ramacey | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 06:11

The weakness of man… What is the weakness of man? In the inability to refuse, in the suppression of one's own opinion, in lack of will, weak-heartedness …? Or maybe it's bad habits? What stops prevent us from “driving” further in life? Let's talk in more detail about the track record of human weaknesses and their influence on character and fate.

Man is an imperfect concept. Probably, each of us is cunning if he says that he has no anxieties and fears. The strength and weakness of a person are like day and night, the husband and wife "live" side by side, from time to time they stand in front. Yes, yes, like in a school lesson in physical education. Who has grown up over the summer, he becomes ahead. So it is with strength and weakness. Depending on the external situation, either strength sticks out its self, or weakness.

Of course, accepting and realizing your weaknesses is the first step to overcoming them.

Now think: do those very weaknesses prevent you from living? How do they interfere? What would change if you said goodbye to them forever? Yes, yes, as with a random fellow traveler on a trip: we talked and foreverbroke up. Let's take a closer look: what specific weaknesses of people stand out and how insidious are they in relation to the fate of a person?

Bad habits

One of the human weaknesses are bad habits. Moreover, men and women treat them differently. For example, men, although mostly in vain, try to fight them. But women, who are by nature stronger than men in spirit, indulge their weaknesses. And the excuse is more than strange: self-love.

The problem with man's weakness is that he goads him. Moreover, this does not cause much harm to loved ones. But does he inflict it on himself? And if you think globally and expand the scope of the question a little? What to say about those who are going to live off your weaknesses? Will he begin to manipulate you and thereby achieve success? And you … will remain that very doll on a string - a puppet for the rest of your life.

Are you satisfied? We think it is unlikely.

So, if the awareness of the danger of one's weakness has come, then let's look at typical weaknesses.

Uncontrollable fear

All problems come from childhood. This proposal has become so constant that there is no need to explain in detail. Fears are our sensations, feelings that predetermine the sad outcome of any actions. For example, death, death.

If you look at this phenomenon from the positive side, then during fear, the instinct of self-preservation wakes up. That is why incritical situation, many people remain alive and well.

However, if we talk about far-fetched fears that have nothing to do with the instinct of self-preservation? For example, the fear of being alone. Paradoxically, the fear of being alone has become a “faithful friend” not of 40-year-old women, but of 20-year-old girls. Paradox? Paradox.

Fear of being misunderstood, fear of public speaking, publicity, fear of having big money. In many ways, these types of fears hide many internal complexes. You need to get rid of them as soon as possible. In the work of psychologists, there are a number of techniques for working on your fears. If you continue to torment yourself with doubts, fears, what will your consciousness soon turn into? While some boldly plow open spaces, you will continue to sit still … Having achieved nothing and no one in life.

Envy and greed

Even without emotional overtones, these words are immediately perceived negatively. But what if a person every day torments himself with envy and greed for another? Definitely, these concepts are strong human vices.

They need to be eradicated from your inner state. For sure, they will not make your life happy, rather, on the contrary, it will be even more unhappy than it is. Moreover, being aware of envious feelings towards another, you unconsciously emphasize your own worthlessness, self-doubt. This leaves you vulnerable and easily manipulated.

Gluttony

Fast food, quick snacks at work, an abundance of varied food are factorshuman weakness. Many people simply forget about the harm if they have a delicious burger in front of their eyes. Overeating is the scourge of our times.

Perhaps it's genetic, when our great-grandmothers and great-grandfathers literally died of hunger. That is why in childhood we were told: “Until you finish eating, you will not leave the table.”

Although now the cult of he althy eating, lifestyle and sports, many still do not follow the diet and the amount of food eaten. It turns out that food controls us? Or maybe it should be the other way around? It's not about giving up food. Not at all. The crux of the issue is overeating. Nutrition must be balanced. If you're willing to be held hostage to food, then keep overeating.

Laziness

What is laziness? Seems like a familiar concept. And you can't figure it out right away. Try it for yourself: what is laziness for you?

Rather, laziness is the lack of desire to do something. This concept is closely related to inspiration. This is just the result of your mood, attitude, motivation and goal.

For many, laziness has not turned into a mood today, but into a permanent habit. Unfortunately, laziness is one of the weaknesses of a strong person. This habit is destructive to us.

Imagine that laziness “woke up” in you today. She literally "does not let you" get out of bed. You lie all day and “stick” stupid serials. And so from day to day. In six months, who will you look like? On a degraded overweight person without a goal in life and desire for somethingchange. The habit of looking for an excuse is also part of your laziness. Don't wait to be inspired or forced by external circumstances to do something! Get involved in life right now! One has only to try to "say goodbye" to laziness - and you will see how you will feel tomorrow.

Indifference

Among the weaknesses of people, “indifference” should be singled out separately. This feeling can be characterized by a popular saying: “My hut is on the edge, I don’t know anything.” This is about the position in one's own life, and about the fading of interest in everything and everyone.

Detachment, lack of empathy and empathy, the desire to do good and seek justice - all this can sink into oblivion if you do not start fighting with yourself.

Indifference is a conditional statement that it is impossible to change anything in life, everything is predetermined for us from there, from above. Perhaps this philosophy has a place. But don't you build your own destiny? Doesn't she depend on you?

Flatery and lies

Flattery and lies are quite interchangeable synonymous concepts. Is not it? I immediately recall the Fox and the Hare from the Russian folk tale about the hut. And if you imagine: how many such “foxes” surround us. And how many of us are greedy for flattery? We often succumb to “flattering” provocations, hanging our ears, listening to “good” things about ourselves, and then agreeing to do absolutely none of our work. Of course, it is possible, even necessary, to help out a friend. But when such "flattering" requests are permanent? Often we find ourselves simply doing the other person's work for them.

What is the difference between flattery and compliment? Complex issue. It's probably a matter of fact. A compliment is a kind of springboard for emphasizing an observation. But the pathological invented lie about oneself "beloved" is a common pastime for many people, mostly young men.

Lies and flattery are human weaknesses that are difficult to get rid of, but possible. Real life puts in place both liars, who after a while get confused in their testimony, and those who like to flatter. You just need to remove the noodles from the ears and throw them away.

Turn on your rational brain beforehand, pick up the "noodle shooter" when you listen to another compliment-flattery.

Dependency

Acquiring various kinds of addictions, a person begins to work to satisfy them. Alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, masturbation - this is not the whole list of typical human addictions.

A person shows his weakness and loses even more self-respect and self-confidence when he throws again and returns to the starting point.

Betraying oneself is an uncomfortable feeling after "just one cigarette", "just one drink" and "just one time".

I=crowd

Dissolve into the crowd and live like everyone else is an illusion of a normal life. In the real state of affairs, there is a different picture: a person sails through life in an unknown huge ship, at the helm of which is an unknown captain. In this case, the passenger (that is, you) cannot dictate the itemdestination.

Dependence on parents, lack of opinion, self-doubt, lack of self-control and self-discipline, eternal doubts between "good" and "bad", liberty or excessive soldier's strictness of education, psychological complexes, misconceptions about the role of a man and a woman, poor social adjustment and a conflicted spirit are human weaknesses that lead to “I=crowd” thinking.

Soon, this type of thinking becomes a habit.

Self Indulgence

This is one of the qualities that has a destructive effect on the character and will of a person. This basically happens with drug addicts, alcoholics and women (although it is strange to put the latter on a par with the former). It is they who make a lot of claims to the world, while demanding a lot. This is a manifestation of the weakness of a person's character. For women, this is a cocktail of inertia, “drinking” it, she feels sorry for herself.

Indulgence towards oneself is a kind of permissiveness. Where will she lead? Certainly not the successful and happy life everyone aspires to.

Effort Dislike

Not taking the right effort to put in forces one to look for the easy way out. However, he forgets that there are no easy ways in life. The value of what is acquired is directly proportional to the difficulty of obtaining it. Reread the previous sentence again and think about it.

A weak person does not need willpower, hardened spirit and constant vigilance. He lives as it is convenient for him, society and power. That is, like an amoeba that lives at the bottom of a freshwater pond with polluted water.

A person can hardly live without weaknesses. Each of us has them. However, everything needs a golden mean.

If you take life realistically, then weakness of character is a common disease that affects many young people. Yes, they are on the risk list, because they are just starting to look for their "I". And partly the adult generation has long given up on themselves, respectively, on their lives and their children. Weakness of character and the manifestation of weaknesses have long become a habit. Fear of new difficulties, overprotection of the "mother's skirt", addiction, easy money, lack of physical strength and internal energy are signs of weakness that need to be fought.

You don't want to be in life the simplest "degraded" amoeba without a purpose in life, living at the bottom of a polluted reservoir?