How often in the company of friends, psychologist's offices and on Internet forums there is not even a question, but a cry from the heart: “Why should I live?”
But here's what's interesting. Completely different people name just a few reasons for their alleged departure. They are easy to classify.
The question of why to live is most often asked by people:
- Suffering from total failure in the eyes of the opposite sex, failure in romantic affairs.
- Men experiencing difficulties in intimate life.
- Unfortunate lovers who broke up with their partner or lost him.
- Bereaved people who have experienced the death of a relative or friend.
- Employees or workers experiencing financial difficulties, problems at work.
- Persons affected by outing. This is the name given to the public illegal disclosure of information about a citizen's gender identity or sexual orientation.
- Seriously ill.
- Depressed patients.
“Why live,” these people ask, “if there is nothing left in existence but bitterness? If no one needs you? Why live if nothing but difficulties infuture is not foreseen?”
I also think that living, seeing only the negative side of life, is not worth it. The reality is so different, it doesn't even look like a zebra, as the joke says. She looks like a rainbow. Multi-color, never repeated. Therefore, one should not think only about the black side of life.
You need to pull yourself together, shake yourself up, try to see other colors, feel other emotions.
Did you leave your beloved? Well, this is an occasion to change yourself and find a new, more worthy and loving gentleman.
Did your parents die? And who said that people are eternal? Or maybe they finally got rid of constant pain and suffering?
Have you been leaked unpleasant information? But you personally already knew this about yourself. And it didn't get any worse.
Why live in such a situation? And even to spite the enemies. Let them see how strong you are. Do not be afraid of gossip and condemnation, do not be afraid of public opinion, get out of the water dry.
Why live on? Just to be happy. To love, seek. Meet the dawn, get wet in the rain, cry with happiness. Yes, just smile, because the world is so beautiful! To feel and reveal the divine spark in oneself, to show love for all people, to learn to be friends with every person you meet - that's what it's worth living for.
Yes, it's difficult. It is impossible to change fate, turn it upside down in one day. You need to work long and hard on yourself, change your character, learn to experience joy.
And you can also live for someone.
Howoften people who ask the question of why to live forget about their parents? About your children? How often do they think about the pain they will bring to loved ones? But a person who thinks only about himself is the most ordinary egoist.
Why live in the world? To make the fate of your child happy. To ease the old age of parents. To enjoy all the colors of life. Fall in love, raise children. To draw closer to God.
It's not easy. But if you start working on yourself, start striving for perfection, then you can achieve anything. And there will be no time to ask the question of why to live on.
You need to live in order to live.
