Energy vampirism is a special kind of parasitic connection in which one person feeds on the life energy of another. Accordingly, an energy vampire is a person who needs that same positive energy. There is another name for such a dangerous connection - prana. It's time to figure out who the energy vampire is, how to recognize and protect yourself from him.
Biological energy
Most people are familiar with that nasty feeling of emptiness and brokenness that appears out of nowhere. It happens that after talking with a girlfriend or sister, a person feels like a squeezed lemon. At the same time, there is not so much an emotional as an energy decline. Why is this happening?
This feeling often occurs after communicating with an energy vampire. Are there such people in your circle? Probably yes. That's whyit's worth talking about how to recognize them and learn how to block their attack.
The science of bioenergy appeared a long time ago. A person in essence represents an open bioenergetic system, which has a special structure at its core. It is this system that is able to absorb energy that comes with food, air, water from space, from communication with animals and society. For many people, the latter method is the most simple and affordable. While other people feed on rest and relaxation, special techniques, art books and their own hobbies, others simply feed on the energy of others.
After communicating with a certain person, do you feel lethargic, broken, apathetic, empty, moody? It can be said that you have given your own energy to another. There are cases when energy vampirism directly affected human he alth: jumps in blood pressure, headaches, insomnia, digestive disorders, etc.
Typical vampire
Very often a loved one becomes an energy vampire. There is nothing surprising here, because it is much easier to "drink juice" from your own. The theory of vampirism would look at least strange if you do not understand the practice of behavior of its typical representative. Just the same, it’s easier to understand here with examples that will help you understand how to behave with an energy vampire.
They are everywhere. Neighbor on the landing, colleague at work, girlfriend, exclassmate, sister, mother - anyone can be an energy vampire. Signs of people of this type are not easy to immediately identify. But as you communicate with them, it becomes clear that it is they who literally pull out all the "juices".
Characteristic type
They are not so many. The most prominent representatives of energy vampirism look like this:
- Family despot. This is a kind of outright aggression that often occurs in families. We are talking about authoritarian power, which is concentrated in the hands of one of the family members. It can be a father, most often a mother, and even a grandmother, who dictates the rules and daily routine. The aggressor will annoy each family member in every possible way, it is almost impossible to please him, and it takes a lot of strength to sort things out.
- Othello Syndrome. Here we are talking about the so-called solar vampirism. To recognize this type, it is enough just to recall such a concept as pathological jealousy. This is exactly what we are talking about. Total checking of phones, constant inquiries about where, when and how much, as well as suspicions on the verge of paranoia - unfortunately, such relationships are quite common. The energy vampire in this case is fueled by his jealousy. Or rather, suspicions that piss off a partner.
Living with such a person is very difficult. It’s good if it’s just an acquaintance with whom you can easily stop communicating. But what to do if communication with an energy vampire cannot be prevented? To begin with, it is necessary to determine the characteristichis featured.
Who is this?
The energy vampire is a special type of person. They have nothing to do with bloodthirsty movie characters. This is the type that is literally fueled by the emotions of other people. It is worth noting that these emotions can be of the most diverse nature: both positive and negative. It is noteworthy that energy vampires at a distance are able to receive vital energy. Therefore, it is so important to recognize this personality type in a timely manner and abstract from it as soon as possible.
As a rule, vampires have excellent knowledge and skills of psychology, which, in turn, allows them to manipulate the environment and the situation. The most charming person from your environment can give positive emotions, and then take them back a hundredfold. There are several signs that will allow you to recognize an energy vampire. It's not as easy as it might seem at first glance.
Seeking pity
They are almost always looking for support in the eyes of others. They love to burden their loved ones with trifling problems. Energy vampires are constantly looking for pity and compassion. This is one of the most common traps. And you, providing a service and supporting it, get into a kind of dependence on the situation. Believe me, such people will always find a reason to call and complain, to come and cry about their mortal existence. In return, you will receive not gratitude at all, but a feeling of emptiness and weakness.
It is worth noting that this will not happen immediately. At first, you will feel a surge of pride from the fact that you helped a person, provided moral support, and were with him in a difficult situation. But over time, you will certainly notice that it began to take too much time and effort. Moreover, then his requests will become more frequent and persistent, and his complaints will begin to go beyond all reasonable limits.
All Guilty
As a rule, energy vampires are surrounded by sheer negativity: an imperious mother, a grumpy wife, scandalous neighbors, tough bosses, a materialistic mistress, naughty children. For such people, the whole environment is to blame, but not themselves. The slightest reproach towards the energy vampire - and you become a member of this list.
A characteristic feature of this sign is that vampires cause a feeling of guilt in their interlocutors. Try to remember the last conversation with a person who looks like an energy vampire. If you feel guilty at least from the memories, try to minimize communication with him, because soon he will begin to literally feed on your energy.
Provocative behavior
Negativity is one of the obvious manifestations of vampirism. A person who is fueled by the vital energy of others often creates provocative situations, which result in quarrels, scandals and strife. Often he resorts to outright disgusting, dissolving gossip and condemning others.
This behavior can be seen incollectives. When one person gossips about another, sets him up in the workplace, offers to help, and then goes back on his word. There are cases when the management is engaged in such cases, pushing the foreheads of the structural units.
Weaving of intrigues
One of the favorite activities of energy vampires. This brings them great pleasure. Gossip and quarrels, squabbles and scandals in a team or between a group of people - this is exactly what you need for regular recharge. They easily rub themselves into trust, determine the weaknesses of the interlocutor and then pull these strings, playing on the feelings and problems of other people.
Manipulating with the dexterity of a puppeteer, energy vampires seek pity from some and, using the resentment of others, can ruin relationships even between the closest people.
Strike at the most unexpected moment
Energy exchange can happen at any moment. As a rule, the energy vampire begins to "feed" already when it becomes a source of gossip and gossip. He enjoys the emotions that arise in the interlocutor, his feelings and remarks. He takes great pleasure in discussing someone's stories, complaining about his own life, getting attention from his interlocutors.
However, there are times when they receive a colossal recharge that lasts for a long time. It is important to learn to recognize the energy vampire in the family and at work in order to be ready for the moment when heneed another "dose".
Extreme measures
This is a fairly indirect sign that allows you to verify the accuracy of your own assumptions. Energy vampires tend to be extreme. This applies to every area of their life. They can offer to go to the registry office right now, jump with a parachute, start a new relationship literally the next day after the break, which occurred because of a mere trifle.
Of course, you should stay as far away from such people as possible.
How to protect yourself?
Energy vampire in the family - perhaps one of the most difficult cases. Since minimizing a relationship with such a person is not so easy due to the relevant circumstances.
First of all, it is necessary to recognize this type of personality and analyze the relationship with him. If after a conversation you feel obvious fatigue, contact should be minimized. Well said, of course. But what to do when it comes to a close family member? Do not kick him out of the house and leave yourself?
In fact, there are several ways to protect yourself from the energy and psychological bloodsucker. But the main rule is simply outrageous: you don’t need to follow his lead and provoke yourself to an emotional outburst. No need to make life easier for energy vampires. If he openly provokes you into a scandal or a showdown, do not give in, try to abstract yourself from the situation and not take his words into account. There is a wonderful saying that will help to cope withenergy bloodsucker:
Only poise and peace of mind are your reliable protection.
As long as you reciprocate, following the lead of such personalities, your vitality will dry up like sand in a watch.
Practical methods
It's good if a person knows the techniques of psychological self-control (meditation, relaxation, auto-training). You can use any of these techniques to protect yourself from an energy attack. There is an elementary method that has been tested by more than one generation of people: bite the tip of your tongue seven times (yes, exactly seven, not six or eight).
Use a simple psychological trick. It is known that vital energy leaves through the limbs (palms, head and feet). As soon as you feel the onset of an energy vampire, simply cross your arms or lock your fingers tightly together. This will allow at least some of the energy to be retained. By the way, the Old Believers say that sometimes it is enough just to fold your fingers as if you are going to cross yourself.
Psychologists say there is a way to identify an energy vampire by date of birth. You just need to add all the numbers and simplify the sum to a prime number. For example: 1990-24-02. We add up all the numbers and in the end we get 9. By the way, it is people with 9 and 8 who are prone to vampirism.
This is not a completely accurate method, since the same number cannot define the same personality type. Therefore, it is worth paying attention to another method of protection againstenergy vampirism. This is where you need to practice a little:
- Mentally create a ball charged with positive energy at chest level.
- As soon as you feel that the vampire is trying to drain your energy, mentally throw this ball at your opponent.
- It's important to stay positive while doing this.
If you still failed to repel the attack, find a way to restore vitality. Do not use other people for these purposes. You can go for a walk in the forest or on the river, do embroidery or just read a good book. If you are forced to communicate with vampires on a regular basis, master the art of meditation.
How do energy vampires become?
As they say, they are not born - they are made. As a rule, under the pressure of close people who drive negative thoughts into their heads for a long time. Energy vampires come from unloved people and misunderstood teenagers who were not supported in a difficult moment. As a rule, these are weak personalities who cannot overcome difficulties on their own and need energy replenishment.
A psychologist and esotericist will never say who is an energy vampire by date of birth. This can only be understood by human behavior. Especially after receiving another portion of vital energy.
To turn into such a character yourself, you need to learn how to be distracted from problems and find energy in the world around you. sports,proper nutrition, meditation, dancing, reading and hobbies - all this helps to form a harmonious personality.
