Surely every person has come across such a concept as "suspension". But few people know what it really means. Although the phrase "I'm in limbo!" many in everyday life. Well, it's worth figuring out what the meaning is.
Destructive pendulums
In simple terms, destructive pendulums are structures that subjugate people to their influence, directing their thoughts and consciousness in one direction. They take energy and establish power over them. A person who is under the influence of a destructive pendulum begins to build his life in accordance with its laws, often without realizing it.
They are all around us. The victims of destructive pendulums are applicants entering a prestigious faculty, and as a result, in vain mastering an alien and unloved profession. Young guys who go to serve under the contract, as a result, they die. Specialists who agree to attractive working conditions, but after the conclusion of an employment contract are drowning in a swamp of problems. And of course, those people who carelessly and windily tie the knot with a person who later turns out to be a “stranger”.
Finding freedom
Suspension occurs when a person is freed from the influence of the notorious destructive pendulums. Because, as a rule, having ceased to succumb to their power, he understands that he has no goal. This is what happens most often. But freedom without a goal is precisely the state of limbo.
You can feel it. First, a person begins to extinguish without exception all the pendulums that affect him. Conflicts, without which not a day passed before, cease. Worries that seemed serious and important recede. And anxiety and anxiety disappear altogether. It looks like the storm has subsided. Peace is coming.
Reverse side of the coin
After the retreat of all problems, a person understands what a suspended state is. Previously, he was at the center of all events, albeit not always pleasant ones. Now everything is happening as before, but without his participation.
Yes, there are no worries, but they are not replaced by new aspirations. And the pressure of the outside world is no longer felt, but this fact does not bring any special euphoria. Problems disappeared, but joy did not increase. And this "peace" begins to disturb even more than the recent stress.
Suspension can be compared to disorientation in space. Or with a situation where a person suddenly finds himself in an endless desert. The point is that it is completelyyou cannot isolate yourself from pendulums. All life is built on them. And a self-confident person will never surround himself with a vacuum from his own environment of existence. Measure is needed here.
Cases, again, a lot. One of the most striking is spoiled children. They have everything! And when they realize this, they begin to languish because they have nothing to want. Here it is, the suspended state. Does this seem strange? Not at all. After all, this is how a person works: it is vital for him to always strive for something.
What to do?
Nothing good will come from being in limbo. Human psychology is such that he needs to be under the influence of certain pendulums. Those that will be useful to him. No need to isolate yourself from all pendulums. Only those that are destructive and truly harmful.
In other words, you only need to get rid of the imposed goals. From those in the pursuit of which a person is moving farther and farther away from the line of his happy life. It is necessary to find the way, having embarked on which, it will be possible to eventually come to personal happiness and true success, which can bring sincere joy. And it's easier than ever. You just need to stop living in a way imposed by someone or something, follow conventions, rules, do something, because “it’s necessary”. And finally listen to your desires. For personal and individual needs. Only by hearing yourself, you will be able to find happiness.
