Sometimes the habits of the second half make us angry, infuriate, and sometimes just make us laugh. In order to save a family, build strong relationships, it is necessary to make efforts for both men and women. None of us are perfect, and it's important to be able to forgive each other's little flaws.
Women sometimes cannot understand how to react to the behavior of a beloved man and his habits. After several years of married life, when the passion is gone, we notice that many things begin to irritate us in a loved one, although they do not have an important effect on marriage. It would seem that recently the beloved was so romantic, and now he falls asleep immediately after sex and throws his socks in the corners.
What exactly are the habits of men that prevent the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity from living in peace?
Scattered things
Different wardrobe details in all conceivable and inconceivable places at home are a real threat to family happiness. Dirty socks scattered around the house are especially annoying. Interestingly, according to the theory of some scientists, suchthis is how a man marks his personal territory.
Loud noises
Flipping channels from one to another and not finding anything interesting, a tired man falls asleep without taking care to turn off the TV or at least turn down the volume. Another sound that can piss you off is the snoring of a loved one. This phenomenon is not the norm and may be a consequence of trauma, diseases of the respiratory system. Therefore, it is necessary to undergo an examination and be treated.
Lack of attention
Unfortunately, more than half of married men have such a disadvantage. Of course, this state of affairs is very annoying to their wives. According to psychologists, the forgotten words of love, the unwillingness to pronounce them, is a serious test for marriage. A woman needs communication with a loved one and simple attention to her problems. Marriage is the closeness of two people, both partners need to remember this.
Dishwashing and table manners
Each of us was taught in childhood to clean up after ourselves after eating. Only representatives of the strong half of humanity usually leave mountains of dishes in the sink, ignoring this rule. Moreover, they consider such an activity an exclusively female privilege, not even bothering to rinse the cup after drinking tea.
Besides, not every man knows table etiquette, so he considers it normal to slurp and chew food noisily. It is especially unpleasant when such habits of men manifest themselves at a party or a restaurant.
Long“meetings”
One of the most annoying male habits for women is spending too much time in the bathroom. Representatives of the strong half of humanity often accompany this whole process with reading books and magazines, solving crossword puzzles, smoking, etc. As a result, getting to the toilet for other family members becomes very problematic.
Another bathroom-related irritant is the habit of not closing the door behind you. Sure, there should be no secrets between a husband and wife, but it is not necessary to put on display what one would not like to watch under any circumstances.
Another annoying moment for many ladies is the toilet lid not up. And no matter how many times it has been said about it, men still forget to pick it up.
Hygiene
Many representatives of the strong half of humanity do not consider it necessary to take a shower every day, as well as change socks and underwear. Such habits of men force a woman to play the role of a caring mother and call to order every now and then with a reminder to wash her hands before eating or take a shower.
Staring at strangers
A very unpleasant moment for a woman is looking at a companion of other ladies while walking with her. Many men have the desire to go left, as they say, in their blood. However, even a faithful spouse, who does not lack the attention of his beloved, can look at beauties only in order to prove his importance and cause jealousy in his wife. But if a man belongs to the category of womanizer, then noscenes of jealousy will not improve the situation.
In bed
The sexual habits of men that annoy women are quite diverse. Many men love to spur themselves on with obscene words during sex or express their pleasure so loudly that all the neighbors in the neighborhood hear. It is impossible not to note the uncleanliness and the peculiarity of falling asleep immediately after intimacy.
Women often complain that a man demands sex at the wrong time. For example, when she is going to work. Although at the initial stage of a relationship, this he althy habit absolutely does not interfere with anyone.
Another point that revolts women is phone calls in the midst of love games, to which the partner immediately responds. Such habits of men cause fair indignation among the representatives of the opposite sex, because it creates a feeling of the presence of a stranger in bed.
Computer addiction
In the modern world, a computer often becomes a substitute for communication with a wife. Indeed, in the virtual space there are many interesting opportunities to spend time. Not surprisingly, the number of men addicted to virtual life is constantly growing. A woman in this case only has to watch her husband's back. And even the most daring will not dare to turn off the computer at the most interesting place. Here you have to try to come up with a way that can switch the attention of a man to family and children.
Passion for sports
Sport seems to be a he althy habit. But only in the case when a man is engaged in it, and is not an avid fan. Many women complain that their loved ones spend hours watching football, hockey or basketball. The most reliable way to distract your loved one from such a pastime is to play sports together, which is not only good for he alth, but also allows you to spend more time together.
Smoking and alcohol
These bad habits of men not only irritate the beautiful half, but are also a threat to he alth. Smoking can cause cancer of the lungs, lips, trachea, or mouth. Under the influence of nicotine, blood pressure rises, the risk of atherosclerosis increases, and vasospasm occurs. Smoking also negatively affects the nervous system, leading to memory impairment and decreased mental activity.
The addiction to alcohol can be called a real social disaster that destroys families and human he alth. All human organs are negatively affected, the normal functioning of the heart is disrupted, the liver is destroyed, and brain cells die. In addition, these addictions adversely affect the reproductive function of men.
Good habits
But, at the same time, our men have many positive habits that cannot but rejoice. For example, the habit of opening the door in front of a woman, giving the lady the most delicious piece of food, being interested inbeloved family, watch films that his chosen one likes, give flowers with or without reason, serve outerwear to a companion, etc. All this speaks of the excellent upbringing of a man.
Some of the habits of men can win the hearts of most women. For example, the ability to say beautiful compliments. Both shy girls and self-confident ladies like it. After all, each of us is pleased to feel our uniqueness.
Any woman is pleased when her lover or spouse refuses to meet friends or go to football for her sake, thereby putting her lover in the first place. Such habits of a man make a lady feel special, give her confidence that a partner really appreciates this relationship.
Calls or SMS from a loved one for no reason are no less pleasant. Just a few nice words are enough to make you feel needed and desired.
Pleasant surprises that men can do do not leave women indifferent even after many years of marriage. And it is not at all necessary to present jewelry to your wife, because an unexpected invitation to the theater or cinema, or just a pleasant walk in a picturesque place, can give a lot of positive emotions.
Such good habits are a manifestation of male concern for women, they remind us that real knights and gentlemen have not yet died out.
