A man is a representative of the male sex. It has morphological and functional features that determine gender. It is customary to use this word to denote an adult. A teenager, a child is called a guy, a young man, a boy.
Meaning of the word "man"
In the Russian language "man" is a compound word, where the root is "husband", "chin" is a suffix, "a" is an ending. In ancient Russian times, the word "husband" was used to identify representatives of this half of humanity. The very root "husband" comes from the ancient Indian manus (man, husband).
A real man in human history
Attempts to create an image of a real man, a description of him, have been made since time immemorial. The most impressive and close to ideal are the gods, heroes - celestials: Hercules - the embodiment of the ideal of male power and Apollo, considered the model of male beauty.
The development of human society shows that for many centuries in most societies, men have had greater rights andauthority than women. This state of affairs has been enshrined in the dogmas of almost all world religions. This was mainly due to the fact that women have to devote considerable time to bearing and raising children. This predetermines their stay within the family.
However, recently, mainly in Western civilizations, there has been an increase in tendencies towards the equalization of the rights of men and women. It is accompanied by such manifestations as feminism, the sexual revolution. These movements are organized with a designated goal - the establishment of real equality between the sexes.
General characteristics
But despite these trends, there remains a desire to develop an optimal definition of how to characterize a real man. Moreover, such questions are raised by representatives of both sexes.
In modern times, on the basis of numerous studies by specialists in various fields of sociology, it is generally accepted that such a person is a realized personality. What are real men - those who have a favorite business, as well as close people. Real men have a family, a wife, children, for life, the well-being of which he is responsible and loves.
Criteria
The history of the development of modern societies has developed a number of criteria that, according to the majority, a real man should have. These include the following:
- The man is self-confident. He knows what he needs from life. Knows how to set goals and achieve them. Your desires are nothides, while in relations with others, including with the opposite sex, he takes the initiative in his own hands. Those representatives of the stronger sex who grovel before women, try to guess their desires, as a rule, do not cause sympathy. A real man is always confident in himself, can set standards and rules. Able to make demands on others. Can overcome his own weaknesses.
- A purposeful man. This property is a logical continuation of self-confidence. He does not talk about his dreams, does not exhort them about their importance, but simply does the necessary work.
- A man is stress-resistant. He knows how to control his own emotions. He overcomes adversity and bad weather without hysterical manifestations, does not complain to others, does not complain about fate. By doing so, he gains respect for himself. Those who complain about failures, about circumstances, who are prone to tantrums, are considered losers in society. Such representatives of the opposite sex are subconsciously recognized and try not to let them in, to stay away from them.
- A responsible man. This is a person with a formed character, he has no manifestations of infantilism. He can take responsibility for himself and his loved ones, for the decisions made. Do not blame the circumstances. Perceived by others, the social environment as an accomplished person, a reliable partner.
- Successful man. This is beneficial to society, to society. Differs in diligence, always stands out among others. As a rule, such individuals achieve noticeable results for themselves without any problems.social status. Successful men are able to adapt in real life, they are distinguished by erudition, ingenuity, and intelligence. They are immediately visible among the losers and lazy people.
It should also be noted that the main core of the character of a strong real man is self-discipline.
Character traits, personality traits
What is the most important thing in a man? The generally accepted norms, character traits with which he should be endowed are considered to be the following:
- Masculinity. This quality is characteristic of the stronger sex, combining fortitude, nobility, courage, honor.
- Strength. This character trait should be manifested from all sides. He must be strong not only physically, but also morally and spiritually.
- Courage. Inherent in those who can stand up not only for themselves, but also for their loved ones. It should be noted that courage must be combined with confidence.
- Honesty. Not all men have this quality. It takes courage to manifest it. Not everyone is ready to accept their own responsibility for failures.
- Integrity. It manifests itself in the fact that a man is able to take responsibility for his actions and behavior, for his family, for relatives and friends. She also expresses respect for the representatives of the weaker sex.
- Sense of humor. Strong, real men with this quality endure hardships and troubles more calmly. Their cheerful demeanor inspires confidence. Men who know how to jokeenjoy life, laugh sincerely, win the hearts of women without any problems. Moreover, this quality can provide invaluable assistance in solving serious problems.
- Kindness. It is especially important in relation to relatives and friends. With regard to a wider circle of communication, it is transformed into justice.
- D. A strong man, striving to become real, it is desirable to be distinguished by the presence of a broad outlook. He must be erudite and educated, especially in the area where he applies his skills and abilities.
- Sexy. Most believe that this feature should characterize only women, but the description of a man in this regard characterizes his charisma and attractiveness. Male sexuality is a manifestation of liberated confidence, which is not self-confidence. Women talk about such people - a handsome man.
In view of the foregoing, it is seen that if a man combines at least most of the qualities indicated above, then women, children, relatives and friends can feel safe next to such a person.
Some rules
It should also be noted that a real man takes care of himself, his appearance. But not someone who reverently follows fashion trends and dyes their hair.
In order for him to maintain a certain image, it is recommended to follow some rules:
- keep personal hygiene, take a shower at least twice a day;
- keep up your hair, go to the hairdresser in time;
- keep fit, exercise;
- pay attention to the cleanliness of hands and nails, keep them well-groomed;
- clothes on a real man should be ironed, shoes polished.
Description of a real man must necessarily include the message that he has his own opinion, based on sustainable principles. He does not change them, does not adjust them to the opinions of others. Such men are always counted on, they are entrusted with responsible work. A strong man in society can give up momentary pleasures in favor of achieving more significant goals.
Usually he is the leader in the company, in the family at work.
Recommendations
Recommendations for a real man include the following:
- he has no right to be wrong;
- does not laugh at other people's mistakes and failures;
- knows how to learn from his mistakes;
- can laugh at himself;
- for his life, environment, for himself personally is proud, not ashamed of how he looks;
- his feelings are not subject to his personal fears;
- he does everything possible for the well-being of his loved ones.
It should also be noted that the description of a real man includes an item about his hobby. He must constantly improve his abilities, read books, educational literature, increasing knowledge through them, try to communicate with wise people.
Films about real men
Cinema on everythingThroughout its existence, he tried to embody the image of an ideal, real man on the screen. Among the successful attempts, there are several, namely:
- "Bondiana", a series of films about James Bond. His image was wonderfully embodied at different times by such actors as Sean Connery, Pierce Brosman, Daniel Craig and others. At the same time, most note that Bond on the screen is a real man.
- "Leon". A film by Luc Besson that has become a cult classic. Actor Jean Reno managed to create on the screen an exceptionally devoted, caring and responsible person - a real man, although he lives according to the laws of the underworld.
- "The Shawshank Redemption". Banker Andy, groundlessly accused of murder, serving a life sentence, faces lawlessness and cruelty in prison. However, he does not turn into a victim of circumstances, refuses to put up with the inevitability. Having shown the best qualities of a strong man, he gains freedom.
- "Poddubny". A Russian film that tells about Ivan Poddubny, a great and invincible champion. Having gone through trials, he always remained true to his word, a decent and caring person, a real man.
Such a man is always responsible for his word.
