The film "What Women Want" with Mel Gibson is very good, and it can be reviewed repeatedly. This is a light comedy about how an ordinary man was electrocuted, and he was able to read women's thoughts. At first, it almost drove him crazy, because women think so much!
But later he realized that this gift allows him to learn how to understand the behavior of a woman. This film, despite the fact that it was filmed in 2000, is still interesting to watch for both sexes. And all why? Because it reveals an age-old secret for men: how to understand women? Since the script was written by the ladies, the girls themselves noted that the film turned out to be wonderful and very reliable. If this picture has passed you by, and you still can hardly imagine how a man can understand a woman, then this article is offered to your attention.
Why understand women?
By and large, representatives of the same sex can perfectly understand each other, but not always a man and a woman quickly manage to come to a common opinion. How to understand women? What do they mean? What lies behind the coquetry? How to understandthat a woman is in love? These questions are often asked by men. After all, the very way of thinking of both sexes is very different, and therefore it is sometimes difficult to understand each other. Especially often a man finds himself at a dead end, wanting to understand whether a lady is in love with him or just flirting without a goal. How to understand a woman's attitude and correctly decipher the message coming from her?
Cherchet la femme
As the French say, no matter what happens, the woman is to blame. Actually there is something in it. All the ephemeral joys of the world, such as we alth, power, fame, fade before the simple happiness of loving and being loved. But here the first difficulties arise. You liked the lady. But how do you know what she feels for you? How to understand what a woman liked, how to behave in order to kindle her interest? There is no special science here! A little practice and attention, and in three minutes of talking with a girl you can understand who she sees in you.
What do women want?
It is perfectly natural for ladies to want to be beautiful (to attract a worthy companion), start a family and give birth to children. Knowing this, a man gets the key to understanding the behavior of women. You don't necessarily want to get married, but if you show yourself to be a worthy man who you can rely on and with whom you will be calm, then the ladies will treat you with great disposition.
Remember, you don't have to give it all to a woman. It is quite possible to simply show that you are not afraid of responsibility, that you can be relied upon. This willenough to look decent in the eyes of a lady. If you do not want to get married or have children, this is not at all a reason not to be loved by the woman you like. You will discuss these issues later in the relationship. Which will certainly start when you learn how to understand women.
Rule one: women are from Venus
Before you learn to understand the fair sex as yourself, you need to learn the following. There is a huge difference between the behavior of men and women due to different instincts inherent in nature.
Who is a man? The successor of the clan, the getter, the "stone wall". He may not be affectionate, since nature did not assign the functions of raising and raising cubs to him. He may not be able to cook, since his task is to get food, and let his companion show culinary talents.
And who is a woman then? This is the mother, the successor of the family, the keeper of the hearth. Sometimes modern young ladies try to escape from their destiny, start building a career, call themselves childfree. And then they shock others when they suddenly give up all this for the sake of a snotty baby and beloved spouse. It is these functions that nature has laid in women.
Rule two: the whole world is a theater, and the main actors in it are women
In ancient Greece, in theatrical productions, all roles (including women's) were performed by men. But in fact, the situation is just the opposite: it is women who are most inclined towards acting. Not all ladies are great actresses, butit is common for everyone to play from time to time, and this is not at all about the stage in the theater. Do not be surprised if you see the woman you like in different roles. Some are afraid of the world and diligently play the role of a bitch, others - a little girl, others - an insidious seductress. How to understand women in this case?
Remember that the mask is just a mask that is tried on in public. If a woman sees that you can be trusted, that you can turn your shoulder at any moment, do not betray and do not deal a crushing blow, then she will open up before you. Any lady, when she is natural, is feminine, sweet, light, caring. Remember that the rest are just masks.
Rule three: watch the moves
Comparison of women with cats is trite and old as the world, but sometimes you just can't do without it. Imagine a fluffy playful animal. When the cat is in the mood, she gently wags her tail, rubs her head. If she is angered, her movements will become jerky and nervous.
How can a man understand a woman by watching her? Always remember about cats. A playful mood will be given out by playing with your wrists, sorting out curls, stroking jewelry. If you appeared before a woman, and she begins to stroke her hair, straighten something in her clothes, she clearly sees you as an object of attention. If, when looking at you, nothing in the behavior of the young lady changes, most likely she is not interested in you.
Love and doves
By the way,observation of behavior can tell you that a woman is in love. As soon as her favorite appears in front of such a lady, her cheeks turn pink, her eyes shine, and her feet go towards her lover.
Love and sympathy is good, but how to understand what a woman loves? That this is not a mask, but genuine feelings? In addition, how not to confuse love with friendly feelings. Below you will read what signs in the behavior of a lady indicate her warm attitude towards you:
- A woman shares everything with you. There are moments in life that can only be told to those closest to you. If you fall into this category, then a woman has a special relationship with you.
- A woman told her close friends about you. Each of us has one or two closest friends. These people become confidants of our secrets. If you don't know how to understand a woman's feelings, the surest way is to find out if she told her friends about you.
- The girl is involved in your life. It would seem that unnecessary little things like how long you like to sleep or what you eat for breakfast are of no interest to anyone, but only if the person is not in love with you. If a woman asks you about everything down to the smallest detail, it is no accident.
- Empathy for trouble. When problems happen in the lives of others, we sympathize out loud, but in the grand scheme of things, we don't care. If a woman sincerely worries about the difficulties that exist in your life, then she cares about you.
Don't confuse friendship with love
Not alwaysladies play fair. They flirt, flirt, but they themselves do not experience anything. So how to understand a woman? Photos of lovers are especially annoying when you are alone, and all the surrounding girls seem to mock with their behavior. Don't get excited! So you are confusing friendship with falling in love.
Sometimes we wishful thinking, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. How to understand a woman who is sincerely interested in you, but at the same time it seems to you that there is no love? Perhaps you are close to such a young lady as a friend. She sees that you are interesting, that you are trustworthy, but at the same time she is not physically attracted to you. As they say, there is no spark. The surest sign of this is the absence of jealousy. Tell the woman about some (possibly fictional) lady of the heart. If her reaction is completely neutral, then you are just a good friend to her.
Check if the young lady is in love or not
But still, if this lady is not indifferent to you, then know that there is only one step from friendship to love. Show a woman that you can be a worthy gentleman, surprise with masculine deeds. If you think her attitude is starting to change, try this trick. This technique has a double meaning. If a woman already feels something for you, she will split. If not, then you can get away with it and let the woman look at you with different eyes.
So, text her in the evening (and even better at night) a message, something like: “I'm madly in love with you! Can I count on reciprocal feelings? Ideally, a woman should answerthe message is positive. If she says no, don't be upset. So far your efforts to conquer have not borne fruit. The next morning, you can say that you got drunk and mixed up the addressee in your contact list. This will calm the woman, but even if she does not feel anything for you, certain metamorphoses will occur in her head overnight.
