Human relations - the world is fragile, complex, not always clear. It is difficult for us to understand ourselves, and even someone else's soul, indeed, according to the proverb, sometimes turns into solid darkness. And now someone very recently close to us becomes a stranger, the connecting threads are torn, people parted. But memories cannot be erased, they come to us without asking and most often at night, in dreams.
Our former and current us
Suddenly you dreamed about your ex-boyfriend. Just like that, like, out of the blue. But in the subconscious, which manages dreams, nothing happens by chance. And, if you think about it, there is always a logical explanation. For example, the day before you saw, heard, said, did something that you somehow associated with your former love. The result is obvious - he "visited" you in a dream. Or they met mutual friends, chatted about this and that. There was no mention of the past. And the subconscious mind worked, and the ex-boyfriend dreamed.
This situation is even more logical if, over time, the heart wound has not healed, and feelings have not been forgotten. Among us there are many subtle natures, monogamous people who will suffer all their lives, having lost their “self-himself. And if such a girl dreamed of a former boyfriend, it means that she constantly thinks about him, and these thoughts haunt her not only in reality, but also in a dream.
As a rule, we often dream of something that left a bright mark on reality, brought great joy or great grief. The brain is awake even when the body is asleep. He works through, comprehends a variety of combinations of what happened, intensely looking for solutions to pressing issues. Remember Mendeleev and his table or Mozart with the melody of "Requiem"! Here and here: the ex-boyfriend had a dream - either you are persistently looking for ways of reconciliation, or … You can pick up a cart and a small cart, as they say.
What will the dream book tell us now?
If our usual logic is at an impasse, and you really want to understand a dream, dream books come to the rescue. Appeared several centuries ago, they often served as lifesaver for young ladies and respectable ladies in love, and even now they are quite popular. True, they can interpret the same dream in different ways, but after reading a few explanations, you can choose something in between, trust your own intuition. In addition, dream books take into account the otherworldly aspect that we, who live here and now, are beyond our control and incomprehensible.
What does the dream book say about the ex-boyfriend?
- In this case, the book advises you to be more careful in your current relationships, because. they are under threat. You unconsciously compare the past lover with the current one and not in favor of the latter - such a comparison cannot last long. Therefore, you will have to decide and either throw the “former” out of your head, or build a new relationship.
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dream book dreamed of a former boyfriend - If you dreamed of a former boyfriend who is no longer alive, there are options. The deceased saves you from trouble in a dream, protects you from danger - pulls you out from under the rubble, from a burning house, etc. - in real life, you will avoid big troubles, you will be insured against accidents. And if he stares intently, as if he wants to give a sign, you should also be more attentive to the surrounding reality, listen to yourself. After all, between the “that” world and “this” the boundaries are very arbitrary. And if during life there were close spiritual ties between you, they will remain even after death. Therefore, the deceased is really trying to warn you, to provide some information.
- The person you broke up with asks you for some object in a dream or you talk to him on the phone, do you hear his voice? In this case, he is trying to get through to you. Most likely, he just needs to talk with you, speak out - obviously, most of all he wants to return his lost love. And if things between you were not so bad - why not give yourself and him a chance?
And if in the dream book you didn’t meet anything similar to your dream, don’t be upset! Life will tell you the right answer and give good advice!
