For a long time, people celebrated births and weddings on a grand scale. And christening is the celebration of birth, but already in the presence of the heroes of the occasion. And the desire is still sitting in the depths of the subconscious on this very occasion to gather the largest number of people at the table and hold everything on a grand scale. And all the relatives are running around with one urgent question about what is needed for the christening of a girl or a boy. Although the heroes of the celebration themselves do not always want such a wide and tiring celebration. We will talk here about what you should prepare yourself for and how to make the right decision.
Like a wedding, christenings are divided into two stages: the ceremony in the church and the festivities. I must say right away that the official part mainly depends on the orders, rules and wishes of the clergy of the particular church you plan to apply to. And here practice sometimes comes to opposites. Therefore, do not be lazy and find out directly from the priest, who will perform the sacrament, all the nuances, requirements and wishes.
Notfeel free to ask in the church about everything you need for the girl's christening. It will not be superfluous if you receive from the priest both spiritual guidelines and explanations about the upcoming event, because under the tinsel of rituals very deep and serious things are hidden, the understanding of which increases success, lays the right attitude to the life of a new person. Spiritual matter is very thin: it cannot be affected by force, but it can sometimes be bent completely involuntarily and unconsciously.
In the modern world, great attention is paid to external attributes. Therefore, it is believed that the main thing that is needed for a girl's christening is a chic outfit for the child, for his godparents and all those present, as well as expensive things and accessories. The Church often goes along with this: it allows puffy dresses for christening, golden crosses and shooting of the sacrament. But there is also a more orthodox attitude: a child in church should be dressed simply, comfortably, use ordinary things, and only then you can celebrate the holiday in whatever you want and how you want.
Before God, everyone is equal, and a golden cross will not have more power than a copper one. But the state of mind of those present can affect the rest of the child's life to a greater extent than any attribute, photographs and impressions of those present.
Given all of this and my own experience, the most practical thing to do would be to use christening shirts. It's even better if they zip up.between legs. In this case, all the necessary parts of the child's body are open, and it is much more convenient for the godparents to keep the baby happy for a long time. And after the completion of the sacrament, you can dress up the child and add the accessories you like to the toilet.
What else do you need for a girl's christening? Hats, shoes and jewelry are not to be worn in church. They will ask you to remove them. But a large light towel is a must. Keep in mind that your daughter will keep it all her life. If the child is very small, then you can wear white socks and a light hat. When choosing clothes for the baby, think about how the godparents can quickly and easily take it all off. Rarely today is the ritual of completely dipping a child in a font, but everyone has to bare their legs, arms, neck and head. Keep this in mind and warn your godparents about possible difficulties.
And most importantly, don't worry. The clergy are very calm, patient and accustomed to all these procedures. Even if you didn’t foresee something, mother or other assistants will help, prompt and contribute in everything. Often, even the necessary things - crosses, chains, icons, etc. can be purchased here on the spot. But I try not to take folk signs to heart and I don’t advise you. It is not always possible to influence circumstances, but it is not worth getting upset because of this and spoiling the mood of others.
The main ceremony is over. Now you can relax and unwindas your heart desires. Plan everything so that you and your child are comfortable. Good luck!
