Every woman wants a worthy man to appear in her life. But who is this and, in general, is there in nature? Is there such a code or set of rules by which one can understand that one man is "what is needed", but this one is not? Psychologist's advice on how to find a decent man, more.
Love yourself
The first and most important rule for a decent man to find you is to love yourself. How you treat yourself is how others will treat you. This is the law of reflection. Fall in love with yourself: big eyes, full lips, freckles on your nose and a snub nose. Accept your body with all its flaws. Love the changeable character, admire how well you do with cooking, business acumen. Dress up yourself, pamper yourself, buy something beautiful for your home that will inspire you. Do not rush at any man according to the principle "I will re-educate him", get positive emotions and joy from communicating with yourself. You are the closest person to you. A worthy man will come as soon as you are filled with joy andhappiness.
Change settings
It is unlikely that you will be able to meet a worthy man if you consider yourself an ugly woman not worthy of his attention, or think that all men are traitors, traitors and so on. Track your internal attitudes towards men and change them. Make a list of the qualities you like the most and look for them in the men around you.
Forgive those who hurt you
A man worthy of love will not be able to come into your life if you are still in the past and worry about the fact that your ex cheated on you a few years ago with your best friend. Sincerely forgive those who offended you. Consider it the price of future happiness. They weren't bad, they just didn't suit you and left to make way for the best man in the world.
Forgive your father, because many of the problems of adult life originate in childhood. Maybe your dad was once rude or did not say that you are the most beautiful? According to statistics, "daddy's" daughters are rarely unhappy in love, because getting the attention of a man and being the main value for him is normal for them from an early age. Allow yourself not only to love, but also to be loved, accept the fact that you deserve love. This will help attract a decent man as quickly as possible.
Determine what you need
Who is a worthy man for you personally? There is a curious parable about the store of husbands. This store had 6 floors and on each of them the numberthe positive qualities of the chosen one increased. But it was impossible to return to the floor below according to the conditions. On one of them there were hard-working men, on the other - handsome, on the third - loving children, besides, on the floor above, security was added to this list. And on the penultimate floor - love for the household. But most women wanted to go up to the top floor. The sixth floor was designed to explain to women that the flow of their demands is endless and they must leave the store without a man.
What kind of man is worthy? Maybe he is hardworking and reliable or a light romantic. Does he love extreme sports or likes to spend time together? Think about it and take responsibility for your choice. And the responsibility is that you can not get everything at once. If you want a hard-working man, be prepared for the fact that you will have almost no time left to be together, because he needs to provide for his family.
A romantic man with a gentle character, as a rule, does not know how to earn a lot of money, but he knows how to surprise. Create a clear image of your ideal man in your head, imagine life together in colors - this helps a lot to achieve your goal. The rules of a worthy man (that he must be both a romantic and a breadwinner, that he must blow off dust particles and be strict) are most often written by women, think about it.
Move
The ideal partner will not come to your apartment at your request. Get out of the house. If you want a sporty man, go to the gym. Go to a concert ortheater, register on a dating site, look for many options for a meeting, show your imagination. Maybe you will meet him when you go to the bakery? And such cases, believe me, there were. The main thing is not to take every exit from the house as a sign of fate. Let the Universe do the work for you. You just need to believe that your life partner will definitely appear soon.
Every woman deserves love. Love because love is not a person. Love is a state of mind, and then a worthy man will come into your life.
