Dead loved ones will forever remain in our hearts and memory. However, constant meetings with the dead in dreams seriously scare dreamers. After all, contact with the other world, according to our deep convictions, cannot be an omen of something good. Is it so? Let's see why the dead often dream. And is it necessary to take certain measures so that they no longer disturb the dreamer.
The dead often dream - what is it for?
First of all, you should consider what exactly the deceased did in a dream. The mood of sleep and the actions of the deceased are key answers that will prompt the reasons for regular "visits". And there can be many of them: from harmless to very serious.
It should be noted that taking something from the hands of the deceased is a good sign, but giving, on the contrary, is bad.
Psychological reasons
Why do you often dreamthe dead, psychologists say. They believe that the dreamer's guilt or his too strong longing for the deceased are the cause of such dreams. In this case, these dreams do not carry any negativity, you need to understand your own emotional state.
The collective unconscious, through the images of the dead in a dream, tries to direct dreamers towards spiritual development, being a link in understanding the law of cause and effect - both the law of karma regarding the dreamer himself, and his family and even the karma of humanity as a whole.
If the deceased says or does something that frightens the dreamer or prompts him to think, such dreams need to be interpreted. However, any dream in which a deceased person appeared should not be taken by the dreamer as a threat of imminent death.
Prophetic or empty?
Note that people rarely dream of prophetic dreams. Often they are the result of the active work of the subconscious, which we are not even aware of. Therefore, it is extremely important not to panic ahead of time. Prophetic dreams are remembered by the dreamer very clearly and leave behind a certain aftertaste. If a dream does not let go after waking up, it was probably sent for a specific purpose: to warn or show the future. Usually, higher powers send people dreams that will come true under certain circumstances. If the dreamer reconsiders his life and thinks about his own mistakes, a dream promising some kind of fatal event will not materialize in the real world. And now let's move on to discussing why the dead often dream.
Connecting with the real world
People's relationships don't end when one of them dies. We still have feelings for dead people, dearly loved by us during their lifetime. This is affection, fond memories. That is, after the death of a relative, there remains a certain spiritual connection with him, which can last for many years.
If this spiritual connection is very strong, the deceased may appear in dreams for a long time. Often the dreamer himself provokes these visits, overly killing himself and yearning for the deceased. It is believed that the deceased cannot be mourned too bitterly, as he is tormented in the next world. For example, a dead husband may dream of his wife complaining about excessive phlegm around him if she cries too much for him.
It is worth noting that constant meetings with the deceased through a dream are not very good for a living person, as it takes a certain amount of energy from him. As a result of constant "dates" with the deceased, a person may feel tired and devastated. In this case, the actions of the deceased are important. Either he is benevolent and comes because he is bored, or his attitude is hostile, which is very dangerous. What to do in this case, we will consider further.
Help and hints
Very often, a deceased person appears only to suggest something to a living relative. This suggests that he was associated with some kind of karmic task, but he perceived it completely.incorrectly, made erroneous assumptions, which negatively affected the ancestral karma. Since the task has not been solved, the deceased wants to tell the dreamer what to do and how to act for its successful completion. In this case, descendants will be able to change family attitudes, which will completely change the life of both them and future generations for the better. That is why the dead are often dreamed of being alive and talking about something important. The main thing is to remember exactly what was said.
In this case, until the dreamer finds a way to solve the karmic problem, he will be haunted by a dream in which the deceased relative will appear.
Mistakes during funerals
Forgotten on the deceased jewelry, fastened buttons, knots can cause inconvenience to his soul for some time, and then she can disturb her relatives in one way or another. From heavy dreams to an active poltergeist: noises of unknown origin in the house, a feeling of extraneous presence, the clinking of dishes at night, etc. If this happens, then this happens already within the first year from the moment of death. One should treat the other world and the funeral procedure with respect and caution.
Polluted home energy
If you have nightmares in which dead people appear, this may indicate excessive energy pollution of the apartment. In the process of contact with society, we constantly exchange energy, often not very positive. And we carry all this dirt to our home. For example, after conflicts, visiting a cemetery or other places with negative energy, we comehome, carrying negative information on their own shoes. That is why the dead man dreams very often in this case.
Or a thing was brought into the house that carries powerful negative energy. There were cases when people found and brought into the house things of now dead people. These include various decorations or simply items that were dear to the owners during their lifetime. And then in a dream they began to disturb negligent treasure hunters. Sometimes they even choked or made their hearts burst with fear.
Gradually, all the negative energy accumulates in the house. Especially a lot of it in the corners and on the chandeliers. If you do not regularly clean the home, there is a risk of deterioration in the he alth of residents and their financial situation. Frequent quarrels are possible literally out of the blue. It is difficult to be in the room, heavy and dense energy puts pressure on the human psyche, makes him tired and inattentive. What to do in this case, we will consider below.
Communication with the cemetery
Why do people often dream of the dead alive? They are also those who have a connection with the cemetery. For example, if the dreamer was exposed to black magic through a cemetery. And he may not be aware of it. The manifestations of damage are quite pronounced in this case: poor he alth, apathy, constant problems at work, nightmares, after which the dreamer feels morally devastated. Helping yourself in this case is very difficult.
Also, a dead person can be tied to a living one. Such damage is called necrotic binding, it occurs quite often inrecent times. Its mechanism of action is that the deceased cannot finally leave this world until the soul of the living person attached to him also leaves. Only a specialist can help in this case.
It is important to know that you can create such a binding yourself out of ignorance. For example, leaving a personal item in the cemetery. Therefore, it is extremely important to be careful in such places.
If the energy of the home is polluted
There are many ways to clean a room. The most popular is with a candle. It is necessary to go through all the rooms with a lit candle, reading the prayer "Our Father". If the candle smokes and "cries" - the energy of the home is polluted. If the candle is clean, then everything is in order, the cause of dreams must be sought elsewhere.
You can also clean an apartment or a house with incense sticks, which perfectly cleans rooms. Orthodox prayers will also help, which do not have to be read independently - you can turn on the broadcast of the service online.
What to do if a dead person often dreams and asks for something?
It is important to pay attention to what he does in his sleep. A soul that is complacent can ask the dreamer for something more than once. Even the pagans believed that in this case you should not refuse, otherwise you can cause the wrath of the deceased. Does he ask for food, complains of being cold or thirsty? Go to his grave and pour some water into a glass, leave a small offering of food. Or treat someone you knowgive alms in the form of bread. Many people leave food at the church and order a memorial service.
Some advise to bury on the grave what the deceased asks for. However, Orthodox priests do not recommend doing this, as it is considered blasphemous to bury something in a cemetery. In addition, what belonged to a living person is not recommended to be buried in cemetery land. Since part of his energy will remain there and mix with the dead, which can result in illness. Therefore, many advise to buy what the deceased asked for and give it to someone, explaining the situation. For example, if the deceased complained to the dreamer about the cold, you can buy warm clothes and donate them to a charity.
How to break the connection with the deceased?
The answer to the question of why the dead often dreams is as follows: perhaps the dreamer has a very strong connection with the deceased. In this case, it must be broken. Mentally say goodbye, throw out of the house all the things of the deceased (or distribute). It is also recommended to get rid of mirrors or at least wash them with s alt water. It is also recommended to go to church and order a memorial service.
If the deceased calls with him
Why does a dead relative often dream of being alive and calling for him? This may be due to many factors. Perhaps the soul of the deceased wants to warn about something. For example, about a serious illness that the dreamer does not know about. Do not panic and prepare for your own funeral. Often such dreams are a warning, the outcome of the situation can still bechange.
If the deceased persistently calls for himself regularly, you should contact the priest. Most likely, he will advise you to order a memorial service and put a candle for the rest. It would be useful to read prayers before going to bed. But what if these tips don't work?
Do you often dream of dead relatives? Rites
Here are some rituals that will help you avoid unpleasant encounters in your sleep.
If you are worried about the deceased, often dreaming, then take the poppy consecrated on Spas Makoveiny, scatter it at the front door, in the hallway and around the yard. At the same time, say: “Servant of God (name of the deceased), until you collect the whole poppy, grow a new one out of it, do not come close to (the name of the one who is worried about the soul of the deceased)! May it be so! Amen. Amen. Amen . The next day, go to church, light a candle for the repose, order a funeral service, distribute a commemoration. When leaving the temple, you need to make a feasible donation. After that, go to church for 12 days in a row, light candles for the repose of the deceased, saying: “Lord, let the restless soul rest forever! Amen! Amen! Amen!”.
You can also try another ritual.
If the deceased often dreams, then set aside a penny for 30 days. After exactly at noon, take this small money to the cemetery and put it on the grave of the deceased, which you dream about too often. It may happen that the deceased is buried far away - in this case, put coins on the grave with his name and the year of burial (if you can find it). At the same time, in bothcases, say: “I brought your cash share! Sleep, servant of God (name of the deceased), do not get up again! Do not visit me either in a dream or in reality! Goodbye! In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Amen. Amen.”
The next day, go to church, light a candle for the dead, order a funeral service, distribute a commemoration. Defend completely the service, take the sacrament and confession. Order a magpie and three masses for your he alth in the church, put three candles each at the icons of the Savior, the Holy Trinity, the Mother of God, St. Nicholas the Pleasant and Panteleimon the Healer. When leaving the temple, you need to make a feasible donation.
To cut off the spirit of death from yourself, it is recommended to perform the following ritual:
To cut off the spirits of death from yourself, you need to go to church and put forty sacrificial candles near the image of the Savior. Returning from the temple of God, read this conspiracy forty times: “Just as you, the Funeral Spirits, have no road to me, so I have no place in the grave yet! My word cannot be interrupted, not broken, and cannot be replaced by any word. I dress you, the servant of God (the name of the deceased who dreamed), in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen". Then go to church and confess. Order a service for the repose of the soul of the deceased, who dreamed and called with him. And to yourself - "For he alth." And do this for 40 days in a row. At the end of the term, give alms in three churches. And keep fasting throughout the year.
Of course, there are situations when the above measures do not help. In this case, it is important to find a master who can really help break the connection with the deceased.human being and build your own life.
Conclusion
If the dreamer is disturbed by such dreams, one should take them seriously, but do not panic, but try to find the reason. Most importantly, do not set yourself up for negativity and do not wait for your own death. Visiting the church and talking with the priest in this case is an absolutely necessary measure. You may even need to consecrate the apartment to protect yourself from representatives of the other world. After all, priests say that an unclean person can appear to a dreamer in the form of a deceased relative.
