Time is a great architect, it can reshape people and events. What was shameful yesterday is now the norm, if not the ideal. The image of a refined bitch that goes over heads and hearts is actively cultivated today by gloss and society. Although in fact a cynical woman is nonsense, an anomaly, a paradox.
Digression
Subtle female nature by its nature was created not for cynicism, but for care, love and tenderness. Feminists can talk all they want about gender equality, but because women are allowed to drive piles, they don't get better. You can’t argue against nature and the laws of the universe, a man and a woman’s nature is initially set up for different tasks, but now someone wanted to try on someone else’s burden. As you know, in the neighbor's yard, the water is wetter and the sun is brighter. Or maybe they didn’t really want to, but somehow they didn’t refuse in time, and away we go.
It's one thing when a cynical girl is not for the state of her soul, but as a tribute to fashion. Like a dress, uncomfortable, but interesting cut. She tried it on, showed off and threw it on the mezzanine to a ripe old age, in order to remember herself and tell her grandchildren about what happened. Much worse when cynical - it's from the inside. Because it's pain, it'ssadness, something broke, so much so that it knocked you down. As the ancient Chinese said: "The stronger the armor, the more tender what is underneath." She set herself up, believed, sprouted … It doesn’t matter what, it doesn’t matter to whom, but now the woman knows for sure that it’s impossible to do this anymore - it’s painful and difficult, so she became cynical. This is a defensive reaction, nothing more.
Psychologists' opinion
Cynic people don't come into this world. Life makes us so, or we ourselves become similar under its wheels. The most cynical is usually a very sincere and finely organized person, although she often does not admit this to herself. Seems like a paradox, right? However, if you delve into the essence, then everything becomes logical and very understandable. There are such natures that react sharply to injustice, deceit, betrayal - something that one will let past, and the other through himself.
A cynical woman is undoubtedly a strong character, giving strength to see, but resist. Often such people evoke ambiguous emotions in the environment, they are envied, shunned, not understood or condemned, but by and large they are interesting and outstanding personalities, again due to their inner qualities. Pragmatism, implicated in rigidity, truth - in the absence of a beautiful cover for lies, indifference - on common sense. If the mind is lively and sharp, such a person attracts and repels at the same time, remember the same Dr. House. Balance on the verge of sensitivity and undisguised truths. Many people feel it, but it's indecent to say something like that. You can think, slowly like this, secretly from yourself, but out loud …A mask worn once can grow forever. And I want to look at her. Curiosity what to do. I would like to turn a grinning wolf into a dog lying by the fireplace, so that it is here and with you that everything would be different, for real, without games, without masks, without armor. The great Makarenko in half with Maslow lives in the souls of the majority. And you can put this mask on yourself and look at the world from the other side…
