Seeing an unusual, remembered in all the details of a dream, some people can walk all day thinking. No wonder - they would like to know how to decipher the dream, for some reason sunk into the soul. Dream Interpretations do not always help - they give the same dream up to half a dozen different interpretations, often completely contradicting each other. So let's try to figure it out without them.
We all dream
Scientists have long established that everyone sees dreams. Moreover, almost every night there are from several units to several dozen. After all, night sleep is always divided into phases - deep and fast. During the first one, the brain hardly works, the body is as relaxed as possible, and it is longer.
REM sleep is much shorter. In these minutes, according to experts, all the information collected by the human consciousness and subconscious during the day passes from short-term memory to long-term memory. An observer from the outside may notice that in this phase the person mutters something, the eyeballs move under the eyelids. It is at this moment that he seesdreams. Usually people remember dreams only if they were awakened during the fast phase. A person forgets all previous dreams (or even dozens!) and it is almost impossible to remember them.
So, if a person says that he does not dream, then you should not believe him. He just doesn't remember them.
Why do all dream books give different interpretations of dreams
In the morning, a person wants to decipher a dream he saw in the morning, and, of course, he hurries to the dream book or visits specialized sites. And it turns out unpleasantly surprised. For example, such a simple and understandable symbol as a cat can have several interpretations at once. Dream Interpretation Denise Lynn claims that this symbolizes the intuitive "I" of a person. The dream book of the ancient Mayans suggests that you will soon go to a sanatorium - the main thing is to carry some cat hair with you to make this come true. The compilers of the Russian dream book believe that this symbolizes meanness, deceit. Dream Interpretation N. Grishina interprets the appearance of a cat in a dream as a source of doubt, mistrust. The gypsy dream book says that the cat dreamed because someone was plotting against you.
And this is not a complete list of interpretations! And how to decipher a dream if the dream book gives 5-10 interpretations? Just choosing what you like is not very reliable.
To begin with, all objects have different symbolism in different cultures. For example, for northern peoples, a hot day is a blessing, but for southerners, it is a real curse. In European cultures, the color of mourning is black, and inIndia - ash gray.
What can I say, even two members of the same family perceive the same object differently. One of them is crazy about dogs and is terribly afraid of spiders, and the other developed a severe phobia after being bitten in childhood, forcing them to bypass four-legged pets, but he simply adores spiders and made the whole apartment terrariums with these magnificent eight-legged creatures.
Therefore, it is not worth hoping that the dream book will tell you how to decipher the dream.
Is it always worth looking for meaning in dreams?
Let's start with the fact that not all dreams contain any meaning. Did you dream of your beloved cat sleeping at your feet, money before payday, or an item you talked to your husband (or wife) about before bed? Of course, such a dream is not prophetic. It simply reflects your reality. Do not forget: dreams are a mirror of life. Let it be sometimes crooked, distorting reality, passing through the prism of consciousness (your mind!), but a mirror.
Therefore, you should only pay attention to really unusual dreams.
Find the main element
To understand how to correctly decipher dreams, you need to learn how to find the main element in them. For example, you had a dream that you were running through a flowering forest, then across a field, then swimming in the cleanest river, but of all this, the bird sitting on the shore and looking at you was most vividly remembered?
Most likely, the meaning of sleep is in it. Therefore it shouldmove away the flowers, the field, the forest, the river and other details that are not highlighted by the subconscious, and try to understand what this bird is for you. Yes, yes, just for you, and not for numerous compilers of dream books.
Looking for suitable associations
Now we will tell you how to learn to decipher dreams. The fact is that, as mentioned above, the consciousness of each person is a complex interweaving of various associations, meanings and symbols.
Did you dream of a broken vase? Think about what it might mean. Decryption can be either fast, consisting of one bunch, or long, in which you need to unravel several keys.
For a connoisseur of beautiful dishes and interior elements, this simply means a serious loss. After that dream, try not to commit rash acts in the coming days, play by all the rules, and then you will probably not have to face unnecessary difficulties.
For a person who remembers well his childhood and a broken vase, which flew from an upset mother, this may be a completely different symbol. The vase refers specifically to the mother. And upset. It is possible that during the last conversation on the phone, the subconscious noticed a note of sadness in her voice, while the mind, busy with business, ignored such a trifle. But still, do not be too lazy to call your mother once again, or rather, choose the time, put aside all your business and go to visit her.
Yes, if you want to know how to decipher a dream, vision, dreams, you need to listen to yourself, yourexperiences, associations. Try to put aside all your affairs, sit quietly, think and understand why exactly such a dream had a dream at that particular time. It is possible that this will provide valuable information.
Someone believes that during sleep a person approaches subtle matters and is able to foresee the future. Others are sure that when people sleep, consciousness sleeps with them, but the subconscious, processing huge amounts of information received during the day, comparing them with existing data, can send certain signals, showing dreams.
Be that as it may, experienced people are well aware that sometimes you can benefit from dreams.
Can you solve someone else's dream?
Quite often, people you know may ask you to decipher a dream from a description. It is quite possible to do this. Moreover, the closer you know the person, the higher the accuracy of decoding will be. For example, the mother of a ten-year-old child who has spent her whole life in front of her eyes and whom she reads like an open book will almost always be able to find meaning in his dream, if any.
But if an unfamiliar person made such a request, the task becomes much more complicated. Here, it is not esotericism that comes into play, but ordinary psychology. The algorithm of actions is exactly the same as described above. First you need to understand what was the main element in the dream. Deciphering every little thing seen in dreams is definitely not worth it - for sure they are just decorations that do not carry a payload.
Having selected the desiredelement, ask the person how he reacts to it, in what life situations he encountered, what he associates with. Yes, it will take much longer and the accuracy will be lower than when analyzing your own dreams. But it is still possible to achieve an interesting result.
How right Freud was
Sigmund Freud, who first began to decipher dreams using associative chains, was only half right. He realized that each object in a dream is not an object at all, but a symbol that means something different for each person.
Above, examples have already been given that the same object is perceived by different people in completely different ways. But, of course, it is definitely not worth reducing absolutely any dreams to a sexual theme, looking everywhere for repressed desires and instincts, again associated exclusively with sex.
Conclusion
Our article is coming to an end. Now you know enough about the decoding of dreams to understand the content and symbolism of almost any of your dreams. And if necessary, you can also help relatives and just good friends deal with the interpretation of such.
