A characteristic feature of our dreams is that not all of them, causing positive emotions, are good omens. This is easy to check. Having opened the dream book and choosing some plot that is obviously pleasant to us, we will see how its interpretation changes depending on a number of plot features. Let's find out, for example, why we dream of our own wedding.
The opinion of an indisputable authority
Review of interpretations on the question of why one's own wedding is dreamed of, let's start with the opinion expressed in his dream book by the famous American psychoanalyst Gustav Miller. This choice is not accidental, since this author is recognized as one of the most respected experts in this field.
In general, he admits that dreaming about your own wedding is a good omen, promising a successful exit from difficult life situations. But at the same time, the scientist warns that there are many other interpretations, depending both on plotfeatures of night vision, and from the one to whom it was revealed.
Why does an unmarried girl dream of her own wedding?
The American scientist's answer will be very disappointing to most girls who day and night dream of princes who, although they are delayed on the way, will certainly come to taste the bliss of married life with them. Of course, it is pleasant to dream about them, but to see the long-awaited ceremony in a dream does not bode well. Most likely, this will mean that the girl's hopes will not come true, and she will not wait for her prince.
However, according to Miller, there is a worse scenario. Speaking about what an unmarried girl dreams about her own wedding, he warns that it would be a bad omen to see guests dressed in mourning robes. Such a plot twist may mean that the wedding will take place in reality, but the marriage will be extremely unhappy and will bring the bride a lot of grief and disappointment.
What does this dream promise a man?
With a little more optimism, the interpreter writes about why a guy dreams of his own wedding. Such a vision does not portend troubles to him, but at the same time it does not promise imminent family joys. According to Miller, seeing himself as a groom, a young man should not prepare for a wedding, but for the conclusion of another business contract. Of course, such an interpretation applies only to those of them who are engaged in entrepreneurial activities. Others are advised not to take him seriously.
A completely different kind of interpretation is given in the dream bookown wedding dreamed of by a married man. Seeing himself signing with his wife again, he should be wary. Such a plot portends him a possible deterioration in he alth. However, no dream is a final verdict and always provides an opportunity to take the necessary measures. So in this case, the dreamer is advised to pay attention to his physical condition and, if necessary, pay a visit to the doctor.
Mysteries of Mr. Freud
In our time, no self-respecting dreamer can do without the tips of the Austrian psychiatrist Sigmund Freud. Those who want to know what their own wedding is dreaming of are turning to his works. However, in this case, they are waiting for a meaningful, but, admittedly, very vague answer. The scientist is limited only to the statement that a very ambiguous surprise awaits those who see such a dream, the nature of which they themselves have to guess.
Needless to say, the wording is very convenient, since almost everything that is destined to happen in the near future falls under it. The child brought a deuce from school - a surprise, a pimple jumped up on his forehead - also a surprise. What can we say about more significant events that occur daily and can fall like snow on our heads. So the meaning of the dream about your own wedding is hardly clear from Freud's dream book.
Interpretations of Vanga and Aesop
The famous Bulgarian soothsayer Vanga did not bring significant clarity to the interpretation of the dream about her own wedding. In the notes drawn up under her dictation (she herself writescould not, because she was blind), it is said that a night vision of this kind portends in the near future the need to make some decision, which is extremely important both for the dreamer himself and for his family. The fortuneteller is silent about what could cause such a need.
We note in passing that the ancient Greek fabulist Aesop also mentioned wedding dreams in his notes. Without going into an explanation of his special approach to issues related to night visions and their influence on a person’s fate, we only note that, according to the famous Greek, to see your own wedding in a dream means the approach of life changes. They will be for the better or worse - Aesop does not specify, but he recommends preparing for them with all urgency.
Ancient Greek mathematician's opinion
Having mentioned Aesop, we will not ignore Pythagoras, another ancient Greek thinker who wondered about the meaning of certain dreams. As a legacy to his descendants, he left notes in which he very negatively characterizes dreams about his own wedding, but makes their specific interpretation dependent on a number of circumstances.
For example, he teaches that if a dreamed wedding was not accompanied by any complications, then the streak of adversity that followed it (and it will certainly be) will not exceed two weeks. At the same time, any problems that arose during the ceremony predict serious troubles in real life, which should be expected in exactly 19 days. What did the famous mathematician base his calculations on?the dream book does not say.
Prepare your excuses in advance
Continuing the topic, Pythagoras writes that if the dreamer feels in his whole body the readiness to move from the official part of the celebrations to the wedding night and is tormented by the fact that it does not come, then in reality he will become a victim of slander from secret ill-wishers. In this case, he should prepare thoroughly and have the necessary excuses in reserve.
Considering that the interpretation of the dream does not provide specific details of the future case, it is recommended that the one who sees the dream carefully sort out in his memory everything that in his actions can one way or another find fault. It's funny that Pythagoras, among such reasons for nitpicking, mentions possible cases of theft, betrayal and even murders committed by an unlucky dreamer lately.
Women, beware
In addition to the interpreters mentioned above, who are, without a doubt, the most authoritative experts in this field, many of our contemporaries also covered the question of "why dream of your own wedding". Their point of view is also of great interest to anyone who would like to understand the secret meaning of such dreams.
In most publications that have appeared on store shelves over the past decades, a lot of attention is paid to the question of what a married woman dreams about her own wedding. Based on the materials published in them, it should be borne in mind that only a plot in which the dreamer commitsmarriage ceremony with her real husband. This promises her and her husband passionate love and family happiness.
At the same time, if in a dream the role of the groom will be played by some stranger (it doesn’t matter if he is familiar or not), then you need to prepare for treason. Okay, if it is your own sin, but after all, even the faithful can go to the side. So keep your eyes open and don't relax!
Interpretation of dreams depending on the days of the week
Strange as it may seem, but explaining why a married woman dreams of her own wedding, many interpreters attach great importance to the day of the week on which she saw her. As a rule, in the tables compiled by them, only five points. So, on Monday night, such a vision is seen as a harbinger of quick and unforeseen expenses, which are unlikely to be avoided. On Tuesday night, it means imminent changes related to work or entrepreneurial activity. It is best for a woman to see her own wedding on Wednesday night - interpreters say with confidence that this is for the money.
It is curious that none of these lists mention Thursday. Obviously, on this night, according to the authors, weddings are not dreamed at all. But on Friday, or rather on the night of this day beloved by all of us, dreams are considered prophetic, but the dreamers themselves have to guess their meaning, since in each case they are purely individual.
As for Saturday and Sunday, experts combine them together, succinctly explaining that a dream seen portends changes in relationships, notspecifying at the same time - with whom exactly. Thus, explaining the dreams that visited women on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, the interpreters leave them wide scope for their own fantasies.
Dreams about wedding preparations
At the end of the article, let's dwell on what it means in a dream to prepare for your own wedding. This question is also covered by the compilers of dream books, and the answer to it depends, first of all, on the characteristics of the dreamer herself. For some reason, in these sections of the dream books, we are talking mainly about women, as if preparations for the wedding do not concern the representatives of the stronger sex.
So, most interpreters agree that if a young girl sees something like this in a dream, then this is a sign that she has a serious cause for concern. Most likely, her potential fiance was carried away by a certain person, but there is still a chance to return his love. Therefore, not all is lost, but we must hurry. A dream that an elderly woman has had a different interpretation. She is not threatened with betrayal, but life can be overshadowed by troubles of a different kind. However, as the authors of the dream books reassure, they will not be too serious.
