Sexists and feminists converge in endless battles. Some argue that the psychology of women is very different from the psychology of men, others believe that there is no separate scientific discipline at all. Who is right? Probably both sides. But only partially.
Amazons start and… win
The psychology of women in relationships is really different from that of men. Only now those women who build their interactions with the opposite sex according to the male model turn out to be successful in their personal lives. That is, they calmly relate to this area of \u200b\u200blife, not allowing themselves to be manipulated. Men are more interested not in sleepy clowns, but in bright, smart and independent ladies. They can marry less interesting women, but if a man can afford a housekeeper, then he will not marry a boring woman. That is, a wife of average intellectual qualities is a symptom of a man's financial insolvency.
Imposed addiction
Psychology of women inrelation to money is associated with cultural stereotypes. According to social attitudes, a situation is considered normal when a man supports a woman, and she spends her money on little things that simply improve her mood. Indeed, even a well-earned woman feels uncomfortable if she becomes the main earner in the family at least temporarily. Of course, "salary" discrimination of the fair sex adds fuel to the fire. It is a phenomenon that a woman is paid much less. Based on the fact that it’s all the same that a man is “obliged” to support her.
Slope path
Is the psychology of a married woman different from that of an unmarried woman? Yes, strong enough. And, unfortunately, for the worse. In most cases, after marriage, degradation occurs, both emotional and physical. This is a consequence of too much importance given to marriage in our culture. It turns out that the status of a woman who is married rises sharply (by the way, the status of a man goes down).
Take your time
A married woman tends to rest on her laurels. But in vain. Because in the event of a divorce, she will have to provide for the children, and it is rather difficult for the former “freeloader” to remarry with the children. So our culture of reverence for marriage is turning into female tragedies. Maybe it's easier to initially treat marriage as just a part of life, and not the most important one? Have children not because "it happened", but because you want toshare the joy of a creative active life. And only when you yourself can provide prosperity to your offspring, and not rely on "princes"?
We are different
The psychology of women differs from that of men not only because of cultural influences. We have a different hormonal background, the brain works a little differently (not worse, but just differently) and there is a desire for stability in relationships. But it is better to play a man's game, creating a situation for a man to hunt you all his life. If a man becomes uninterested, he leaves. To the other, to yourself. Or alcoholism. Therefore, one should not encourage female manifestations of one's nature - it is better for a modern woman who is not protected by traditional morality to live with her head, and not with her heart.
