Creating a new family is quite easy - you need to apply and just sign in the registry office. For this, it is not even necessary to walk a wedding. But not everyone knows what to do next, how to improve relations between husband and wife after marriage.
Preliminary discussion
What do you need to avoid surprises after the wedding? It's simple, you can try to discuss all the nuances of a future family life, or you can even try to live together, seeing if it's easy for a couple in everyday life. This will make it clear whether the relationship between husband and wife will be able to improve after the wedding ceremony.
Roles
Everyone knows the old saying that the husband is the head and the wife is the neck. Do not resist this, because it is even more of a folk wisdom than just a saying. It follows from this that only a woman should lead the family life. But this does not mean at all that only a woman is engaged in household chores: she cooks, cleans, and washes. Roles in the house should be distributed equally (unless, of course, the wife is a housewife). The man is not at allmake it difficult to wash the dishes every day and help with cleaning on weekends. But it is necessary to accustom the husband to this, after all, in the parental family, he could not do this.
Conflicts
Not a single normal relationship between husband and wife will develop without conflict, there will always be something that will cause a dispute or indignation of one half of the couple. How to behave in such situations? There are a huge number of options, but there are a couple of very practical tips. Even in conflict situations, it is necessary to think with your head, completely turning off emotions, this will save the couple from many protracted quarrels. Also, in the heat of conflict, you don’t need to hit your loved one in the most painful places, it’s easy to do, but then you have to rake it all up. Well, one more piece of advice: in a quarrel, you should not touch on the relatives of your soulmate, no matter how harmful they may be. All the same, for a partner, they both were and will remain a family, you should not “hit” the most expensive one.
Leisure
What other advice can psychology give? Everything will be fine between husband and wife when the couple has a common hobby, and they can spend their free time together, relax. It is good for this also to have a common circle of friends. After all, a couple should support each other not only in grief, but also in joy. But here it is also important not to overdo it, because each partner from a couple needs a separate rest, let's say "rest from each other." Therefore, running away from your soul mate is not only possible, but necessary. But it's always better to let your loved one know when you feel like it.rest alone so as not to disturb him needlessly.
Trust
No normal relationship between husband and wife will be built without trust. Always and in everything. If someone has a secret, this can be said to be the beginning of the end. But here it is also worth separating zones. There are special things that a partner simply does not need to know about, you should not let your loved one go there. Otherwise, only trust and no secrets.
Problem Solving
And one more very important piece of advice. In order for the relationship between husband and wife to be normal, all conflicts that arise must be resolved. They cannot be avoided or postponed. If you don’t like or don’t like something, everything should be immediately “put on the table”. And if you accumulate resentment and grief, and then dump everything in a crowd on your lover, this will not make anyone feel better. Everything is on time and in order, then peace, tranquility and mutual understanding will reign in the family.
