Each of us has such an acquaintance who from time to time chooses the wrong person for a relationship. His love affairs are like swamps, once in which he can only get out by losing something. The quagmire of sadness and unrequited feelings sucks him deeper and deeper. Despite their best efforts, they can't get out. Or maybe that person is you? What to do? Astrology will help you figure it out.
This is the feeling of life experienced by a person in whose horoscope the gentle and beautiful planet Venus has stood in opposition to the harsh and decisive Saturn. How to see this combination in the natal chart? And is it really so detrimental to personal life?
Venus
Named after the goddess of love and beauty, the planet in the horoscope carries the energy of harmony and sensuality. Venus is responsible not only for the quality of a person's personal life. ATthe sphere of influence of this planet includes all relationships with others, a tendency to creativity. Strong Venus in the horoscope in people who are sociable and trustworthy. Depending on the house where the planet is located, positive qualities associated with personal relationships are clearly present in a person. Aspects of Venus give a field for the application of her strengths and talents. With the positive influences of other planets, Venus rewards a person with the best manifestations of her sides: the energy of harmony and passion. With negative aspects, it makes him capricious, blocks creative undertakings. The energy of love is redirected in a different direction. Only the strong position of the planet can stop this outflow of joy and feelings. Then the energy drain turns into a block, a stagnation of energy, and prevents a person from using it fully.
Saturn
This planet usually brings heavy energy with it. Its impact responds with suffering, loss, unnecessary spending. With a favorable location, Saturn gives a person determination and stubbornness in achieving goals. Such people are restrained in feelings, attentive to the world around them, not talkative and faithful to their choice to the end. They do not like we alth, although money is given to them easily. They prefer a modest lifestyle, are patient and prepare for the blows of fate in advance. The weak position of Saturn affects the mental state. An anxious person, worries about trifles, any situation that is out of control can unbalance him. Such a person is impractical, he constantly has suddenmonetary losses, hence poverty and lack of internal self-confidence.
Venus vs Saturn
Opposition of planets is a negative factor. Given the energy of Saturn, which, in a bad aspect, greatly weakens the enemy, and the owner of the horoscope can significantly worsen the natal chart, we can say that the unpleasant qualities of Venus will be revealed in full. It is better to find out the particular characteristics depending on the house where this couple is located. The general interpretation boils down to the fact that the opposition of Venus with Saturn brings hardships both in personal life and in the financial sphere. Saturn is a depressive planet, with its mood it kills all the joyful prospects of a strong Venus in the horoscope. A person in a state of internal instability and resentment loses self-confidence, becomes tense and nervous. Over the years, the character of a person with such a combination of planets becomes more and more rigid, he ceases to feel. The choice of the second half is usually unsuccessful. It falls on a person who is cruel, devaluing, destructive, or simply not suitable for age or social status. Even when creating a family with a rich person, happiness in marriage is not expected, since there is no love for a spouse.
In the work the same story. The management does not like it, they deprive the bonuses, the salary is small. Whatever a person does, without working through this opposition, the financial sphere in his natal chart is blocked. Inclined to choose older friends, relationships with them are superficial. Many unresolved grievancesparents and from this negatively affecting the whole life of the individual. A person is afraid to appear vulnerable. He is disgusted by close relationships with anyone.
In general, all the best qualities of Venus are: the ability to love, feel life, put your soul into work, take care of your parents and be a good friend - all this is in a dead block. Naturally, such a position of the planets will bring a lot of problems to the owner of the natal chart. They can only be solved by strengthening Venus and appeasing Saturn.
Harmony between Venus and Saturn
The favorable aspects of this couple do not contribute to the full solution of personality problems. This situation says that it will be possible to develop the positive qualities of the planets only in adulthood. In youth, a secretive, indecisive person. Differs in unemotional, complexes. Venus gives attractiveness to such people, they attract the opposite sex like a magnet, but they are not capable of long-term relationships. They like loneliness, no matter how hard it is to accept loved ones. In a positive way, the business of such a person is developing. Work effectively alone or in a leadership position. In life, he adheres to the rule that everything should be “on the level”, the opinion of others is important. A person with a conjunction of Venus and Saturn is able to make decisions with a cool head. Everything he says was thought out beforehand, do not expect suddenness and emotionality from him.
Meaning of the opposition for personal life
Synastric astrology interprets the conflict of the planets as follows:well, if Saturn men - in opposition to Venus women. And yet they are in harmony. Then a confident, strong and determined man in a pair becomes a leader. And a girl with a strong Venus is a creative person, she is able to captivate him so much that she melts a cold heart and warms her soul.
If Venus is in opposition to Saturn, relationships collapse for unknown reasons. Both partners become mercantile. A person with Saturn is cold and prudent, she has the manners of a domestic tyrant. Saturian is jealous, prone to pathological distrust. A person with the energy of Venus will quickly close up from such treatment and try to leave. Her emotional outbursts annoy the Saturian. The capriciousness of a person with Venus infuriates a partner, he can afford rude antics. The Venusian does not tolerate criticism, and the other half cannot restrain himself. In the synastry, the opposition of Venus to Saturn is characterized by a lack of warm relations, revenge, excessive interest in the material side.
Female horoscope
A girl with such a combination of planets in the natal chart repels men with an internal barrier. It is difficult for her to create a strong relationship. At a young age, a woman with the opposition of Venus to Saturn either often changes partners, or does not allow them to approach at all. As a rule, it acquires the second half in adulthood, and the spouse may be much older. This is also due to the fact that outwardly over the years such people become much prettier. Often such personalities do not have a positive example of a parent couple. She has nothing tonavigate, the family model is not set. This combination of planets is common in older children in the family. They are given little attention, thereby giving rise to the idea that they are not needed. The child grows up with a lack of trust in the world. A person, growing up, becomes cold and prudent, shows authoritarianism and a tendency to educate a partner. It is hard for him to trust his life to another person.
Male horoscope
In men, the opposition of Venus to transiting Saturn is characterized by a tendency to control a partner, pettiness and secrecy. This man is a hard worker. And often, due to excessive enthusiasm for the work process, he leaves his personal life for later. Usually has problems with parents, so it is better to leave the parental home early. Early marriage is contraindicated, as it will bring even greater destruction, undermine faith in love and sincerity. A man needs to learn how to communicate with people. He looks at everything in his life through the prism of a personal relationship, that is, if he likes it, then it's good, if not, it's bad. In the expression of feelings, he is constrained, does not enjoy life. Builds boundaries in relationships. He is having a hard time parting with a partner, losing confidence in other people, if this happened. A native with this position of the planets in the chart is jealous, but does not show his feelings. This causes neurosis.
Children's horoscope
Baby with the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart - reasonable and modest. May believe that he is not loved enough, because his parents pay little or excessive attention to himattracted to adult work. He wants to stand out, to do something useful and important, to be appreciated. Without the response of his parents, he will take root in the opinion that love brings pain and disappointment. It is important for parents to understand that their baby needs understanding and showing feelings towards him. Hug him often, tell him that you love him and that he is important to the family.
Native reviews
People who have experienced transits of Saturn in opposition to Venus agree on one thing: it is extremely difficult for them to build relationships with others. It's frustrating and takes energy away. At the same time, such people become very attached to partners and, with initial coldness in relationships, later begin to show excessive interest and obsession. Complain that those they love don't love them. And vice versa. Often over the age of 30, they are unmarried and have no children.
How to strengthen Venus?
It is important to understand: such combinations in the natal chart serve to indicate to a person what he should correct in this life. What karma needs to be worked out. What to do in order for life to change radically and energy to flow freely throughout the body and bring joy and well-being.
In order to correct the destructive effect of the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart of a woman or man, natives need to love themselves first of all. Understand that no one is perfect, and he, too, that every person has the right to make mistakes. Accept yourself for who you are and love. Find your creative talent and develop it. For example, if youyou drew well in childhood, you can do it with pleasure now. Develop creative taste, dress well, visit the theater, exhibitions and galleries. A woman should take care of herself more, Friday is suitable for this - the day of Venus. Visit a beautician, a hairdresser on this day. Money invested in yourself tends to motivate you to love yourself even more. Men feel when a woman treats herself with love. This motivates them to become those who are supposed to be according to natural laws: protectors and support. After all, you need to take care of such beauty, like watering a flower so that it does not wither.
For the study of Venus in the horoscope, men need to pay close attention to the woman nearby. Pamper her and take care of her, gifts will help appease the capricious Venus. For action, also choose Friday.
How to strengthen Saturn?
These recommendations will be useful even for those who have a strong Saturn. The planet deals heavy damage, there are even whole periods when misfortunes lie in wait at every step. Saturn is in transit during this period. In opposition to Venus, the native gets a nervous character, the ability to despotism and excessive control. You can work out Saturn by the following actions:
1. Be patient, humble, and unresponsive to criticism.
2. Turn off selfishness and unconditional acceptance of one's fate.
3. Do not be hyper-responsible, be able to protect your interests.
4. Show firmness in good intentions, do not give up halfway.
5. Very important point:respect for elders, especially relatives and leaders. A good practice for working out Saturn will be visiting a nursing home, selfless help for the elderly. If there is no time to visit shelters, help older relatives or just please them. The best time for this activity is Saturday, the day of Saturn.
Neutralization of the opposition. Astrologer recommendations
To neutralize the negative impact, it is necessary to “reconcile” the planets. Understand the essence of the energies that they carry within themselves. Love and creative energy of Venus and calmness and moderation of Saturn. Understand that in order to improve your personal life and relationships with people in general, you will have to work hard. Accept the fact that now you will have to bring all things to their logical conclusion, after which the joy of the completed task will come, a feeling of fullness and the energy of Saturn will stir.
To neutralize the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart on the physical level, you can do yoga and meditation. A taut figure favors the patronage of Venus. An excellent study of Saturn will be a trip to the mountains. This area is his element. In the process of working out, you will feel internal resistance. This reaction is natural, because you want to change the balance of energies within yourself. The main thing is not to give up, patience and perseverance will bear fruit. The harmonization of Venus and Saturn will give you the opportunity to create a long and successful relationship. Self-love will give confidence that you deserve constancy from a partner andloy alty to the end. Make a daily routine, so the order that is so pleasant to Saturn will come into life. Strengthen ties with loved ones, with the older generation. The energy of the power of the family is a powerful nourishment on the path of life.
In conclusion
In order to find out the position of the planets in your natal chart as detailed as possible and to know for sure your strengths and weaknesses, contact an astrologer. He will examine the map in detail and determine the influence of the planets. There is no such combination, even a very negative one, that could not be worked out. After all, all the limitations, problems and blocks are in our heads.
