When wedding congratulations fall silent, it becomes obvious for yesterday's brides that their chosen ones do not at all look like either the fairy-tale princes they dreamed about, or the “stone wall” that mom used to talk about. It was then that family life swept over them in all its diversity, the individual elements of which penetrate even into night dreams. To understand their true meaning, let's listen to the opinion of experts, and find out, for example, why swearing with your husband in a dream.
Advice from overseas
Wishing to save those women who, waking up, remember with horror about what they said to their husbands in a dream, we recommend them to open the dream book compiled by the American scientist Gustav Miller. In our country, he is well known both in scientific circles, where they pay tribute to his works in the field of psychology, and among the general public, who read with pleasure the dream book he compiled. In it, an overseas specialist evaluates this kind of vision very positively.
In his opinion, swearing in a dream with her husband does not at all mean an imminent discord in family life. Everything juston the contrary: the more violent the mutual reproaches and insults were, the stronger the love and trust will be in reality. In this case, the so-called shifting sleep effect takes place. And yet, the author warns that such a vision can sometimes indicate some kind of threat from the outside, so you should not relax at all.
From the sayings of a Bulgarian soothsayer
Another very interesting interpretation of the dream was made in Bulgaria by the famous soothsayer Vanga. She did not give him an unambiguous assessment, but recommended paying attention to the details, the main of which, in her opinion, was the appearance in which her husband appeared before the woman. It is on this that the dream will receive a positive or negative interpretation.
Seeing the faithful, although showered with curses, but at the same time, cheerful and cheerful, the night brawler does not have to worry - nothing threatens their union in reality. He will prosper despite all the blows of fate. It is much worse if the husband, watered by streams of abuse, looked pale and unhappy. In this case, real life can bring unwanted surprises. So, in all respects, it is better that he be well-groomed and happy both in a dream and in reality.
Opinion of an Austrian psychoanalyst
Opening Freud's Dream Book, experienced readers foresee in advance in what key his interpretations will be sustained, because it is known that the Austrian psychoanalyst saw some kind of sexual overtones in everything. He did not disappoint lovers of spicy and, analyzing the question, why swear with her husband in a dream. To begin with, the master claimsthat any manifestation of aggression in a dream (by words or action), one way or another, correlates with sexual intercourse.
Further, he clarifies that if in a dreamed quarrel (or even a fight) the initiative belonged to the husband, then in reality he experiences a passion for his wife, which she does not fully satisfy. However, in this case there may be nuances. If during a skirmish a woman gets the feeling that her husband is a stranger to her, then in real life, she will become a victim of sexual harassment by an outsider, for which she should be ready.
It's another matter if a woman, on her own initiative, swears in a dream with her husband, seizing, at the same time, the initiative. Such a plot speaks of her sexual dissatisfaction. In this case, again, it is necessary to take into account the details. The cold and alien face of the spouse may indicate that the wife is internally ready to make up for the deficit that has formed on the side. We also note that, according to Freud, if a woman swears strongly with her husband in a dream, reaching the point of fury, then this indicates her tendency to sexual masochism.
How did the ancient Chinese curse in their sleep?
The question of why swearing with her husband in a dream worried people even at the dawn of civilization, at least this is evidenced by the work, the authorship of which is attributed to the ancient Chinese god (!) Zhou-Gong, with the filing of which, night dreams visited the inhabitants of the Celestial Empire. Nowadays, a dream book has come out of print, en titled by his name. It contains very interestinginterpretation of everything that one has to see in a dream.
Swearing with your husband, according to the ancient deity (or the one who writes on his behalf) does not promise any complications in reality, but rather portends joy and future happy events. However, there is one “but”, which lies in the expressions that the spouses used when sorting out the relationship. If in the heat of a quarrel they used only decent words, then in the morning they have nothing to worry about. It is worse when non-normative vocabulary was used. In this case, there could be serious problems in reality.
The point of view of our compatriots
The question of why swearing with her husband in a dream is not bypassed by many domestic interpreters, whose works are widely represented today on the shelves of bookstores. In one of these publications, bearing the modest name "Modern Dream Book", there is even a list of the real consequences of a quarrel in a dream, depending on a number of its features.
So, a trifling quarrel, in their opinion, does not entail negative consequences in real life, but quite the contrary - portends good news. Even if it develops into a loud skirmish with a list of past grievances, there is still no reason to worry. Such a reflection of real life will not cause harm, and may indicate an imminent career growth.
Next on their list is "medium-sized scandal". An exact definition of this term is not given, but, apparently, it means a situation in which a wife in a dream swears at her husband and cries, reproaching him for "ruinedyouth." This is a traditional technique that even very young people resort to. The compilers of this dream book remain optimistic here, assuring that in reality such a dream only serves to exacerbate love feelings.
Scandals turning into fights
Moving further in ascending order, after the "scandal of medium significance" they have a "light assault" that has not yet been outlived from family life, and therefore has its reflection in a dream. And in this case, the authors of the dream book will be overwhelmed with optimism to such an extent that they consider the beatings inflicted in a dream to be the messengers of unexpected happiness. It does not matter who beat whom, and how the brawl ended.
And finally, the pinnacle of family relationships is the “serious fight”. This is the form of communication that leads to a hospital bed, and sometimes to jail. The compilers also did not forget to mention it in their dream book. Swearing in a dream with her husband, using her fists and everything that comes to hand, according to their version, is a bad omen. Both in a dream and in reality, such an incident can lead to a complete break between the spouses. Therefore, waking up after such a nightmare, you need to take care of each other with a vengeance.
What does it mean to swear in a dream with an ex-husband?
Unfortunately, even the most beloved (and sometimes loving) husbands often go into the category of "former". Since they under all circumstances remain a part of her life for a woman, it is not surprising that they sometimes appear to her in a dream, and if the previous relationship was overshadowedscandals, they continue to sort things out.
That is why the question of why in a dream to quarrel with a husband who remained in a past life excites many women, and therefore is covered in a variety of publications. The authors of dream books that are popular these days hold different points of view, but most of them believe that this is a good sign that promises good luck. Moreover, if a woman has not yet had time to start a family, then a quarrel in a dream with her ex-spouse portends her a new romantic relationship, which, as you know, can develop into a serious feeling. A new life will begin, in which you will not have to quarrel with your husband either in reality or in a dream.
Farewell to the past
Seeing such scenes, as many interpreters say, means wanting to leave the past and rebuild your destiny. In addition, for those women whose goal is career growth, sleep can be a sign of imminent success in the intended business. In any case, a scene from the past should give a woman the idea that it is time for her to improve her present, and, if necessary, take care of her personal life.
