When reading about Lilith in the synastry, it is almost impossible to find positive aspects of her character, but modern astrologers focus on her independent nature, trying to make her story more positive, which in itself is good. We no longer need negative or bad planets, etc. The black moon no longer spoils our lives. So, applying it to modern astrology, we must objectively consider all available data.
Essence of Lilith
Although her story changes, there is a "common theme" that accompanies this mythological figure in all tales. In it, Lilith is exhibited, to put it mildly, not the most positive character. Therefore, turning to the positive aspects of this red-haired beast, we must bear in mind that many of her descriptions are very outdated. At the time they were composed, the people were harsh critics and moralists. Today, we live in a time when having multiple sexual partners or a woman's desire to dominate is normally accepted by society, in any case, this is not a cause for scandal.
There is a possibility thatin ancient legends, many things can be exaggerated, because it was a much tougher time. Today people are much more receptive and open.
Demon couple
To show how Lilith works in the synastry, it is best to choose the most demonic couple of the last century. Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton are a classic example of such a couple. Between them was a grandiose passion, and they loudly divorced, then to converge again. Liz Taylor was too independent for Richard Burton. Their quarrels and conflicts have become legendary, over the years they have been the golden couple of Hollywood, as well as an example of two people united by the astrological influence of Lilith. As a couple, they demonstrated both the wild and destructive energy of Lilith and the charismatic and magnetic power of the Dark Moon. This is their main charm.
Opposition of Lilith and Venus in synastry
There is one very well-known aspect of Lilith that is very often opposed to Venus. This is the aspect of the Black Moon, the lunar apogee. The harmonious aspects of Lilith between each of the partners allows them to bring magic into each other's lives, adding spice to where there is already good sexual harmony. In the long term, however, the aspects of Lilith cannot replace the classic aspects of the synastry of Mars and Venus.
Black Moon Lilith will show how tantric your sexual relationship can be and improve your sexual compatibility. Rigid aspects of personal planets can create an irresistible, obsessive mutual relationship between you.attractiveness - one that hypnotizes both of you. The conjunction of Lilith and Neptune in the synastry is what makes you leave a 30 year marriage on a random whim. This force can break the egregor of ingrained habitual behavior, but in the worst case, it really is what can be called a "heartbreaker" - a classic domestic pest, breaker of couples and hearts, destroyer of families.
Elizabeth Taylor
This actress had a huge Black Moon Corridor containing the North Node, Eris, Part of Fortune, and a very tight conjunction of Venus and Uranus. Not surprisingly, there is a discordant Eris in her natal chart. Thus, all this gave her a strong "lilithic" charm, and the conjunction of Venus and Uranus definitely explains her sparkling sexuality.
Planetary aspect
The solar conjunct or conjunction of Mercury/Lilith in the synastry receives power from the demonic and mysterious Dark Moon, which, in turn, is connected by a square with Neptune. This dynamic, driven, but also complex square aspect fully describes Taylor's love affair with the demonic Burton, as well as her glamorous career in Hollywood. At the top of the Zodiac there is a Dark Moon, connecting two people and establishing a close relationship between them - such is the power of Lilith in the houses of partners in the synastry. And this despite the fact that Burton was much more introverted and thoughtful than Elizabeth Taylor. The feminist asteroid Lilith opposes the Black Moon, trying to reconcile rebellion and equality withsexual magnetism. A typical example of such an explosive combination is the aforementioned horoscope of Elizabeth Taylor.
Richard Burton
It's time to say a few words about Taylor's lover. His "Middle Lilith" is a solid triumph of Mercury, he was famous for his mesmerizing voice. He certainly had a seductive manner of speaking. Like Elizabeth, he also has Lilith in aspect to Neptune. His Asteroid Lilith, however, plays against him. Because he was a rebellious drunkard and rebel all his life.
His Dark Moon is a semi-sextile Eris, an exiled goddess with a demonic scent. He said he drank because he always felt like a "poor Welsh boy" among Hollywood's elite. He never felt like he really fit into their cliches. Dark Moon is an exiled Lilith, and Eris in myth was an evil goddess who was not invited to the wedding. The Dark Moon is vulnerable and vengeful, like the evil fairy of Sleeping Beauty.
Neptune is cinema, glamour, and alcoholism. Trin Naptuna with Lilith gives this actor a wounded soul, longing, fantasy and the danger of delusion. Lilith in synastry with Neptune can work on two levels: sexual enlightenment or a very unpleasant toxic relationship. The most beautiful euphoric fantasy in this scenario can dissolve into betrayal and anger.
Lilith in aspect to Ceres
Ceres has a dark side to her and can feel melancholy from the pain of separation. It can also speak of indulgence: Richard Burton, for example, was known for buyingElizabeth is very extravagant jewelry. They were rather vulgar in displaying their we alth. Ceres can be bipolar and describe the swing from winter to summer in their relationship. Trines, in their meaning, can speak of indulgence and laziness. These aspects involve drunkenness with a difficult process of sobering up and recovering.
Lilith in the aspect of Chiron
The couple described in such detail in this article suffered from mutual emotional and verbal abuse. If Chiron is Jesus, and Lilith is Mary Magdalene, then this is the real equality between divine beings. Their epic fights were a passionate battle of the sexes, and you can be sure that their relationship provided them with many opportunities for spiritual growth. Elizabeth at home was a real diva, but when her spoiled princess nature grew too big, Richard threw her back to reality.
Dark Moon aspecting Mars
Richard Burton with Dark Moon was a poor, mischievous Welsh boy who didn't fit into the Hollywood world and also suffered from alcoholism. And Elizabeth was, on the contrary, spoiled and self-confident. The conjunct is a heavy aspect, and in their regular synastry they had a very difficult opposition of Mars and Saturn, which negatively affected the relationship.
In the aspect of Asteroid Lilith
The position of the asteroid Lilith was also very different for these two, and this is a double blow to family well-being. A combination of magical, sexy, glamorous and martial, the rebellious energy that they generated between them is very closely related to the connectionSun/Lilith in synastry. They were famous in the 60s, reflecting the world's tensions in the sexual revolution, heightened by the conjunction of Uranus and Pluto.
Meaning of Lilith in the natal chart
You can take Burton's natal chart as an illustrative example, because he has all 3 Liliths very active. Starting from the basics. Is there Lilith in the aspect of the Ascendant or the Descendant? At least he has the square of the Sun in his birth chart. His Moon is shaped by the Black Moon Lilith, making him and Taylor the classic "Lilith couple".
These selfless people are somehow escaping respect and idolization coupled with the fact that they themselves have become taboo, exiled and demonized people in Hollywood. Sometimes people with Lilith in the natal chart start life as the crowd favorite, suppressing their eccentricity, and then amazingly transition to their more authentic self, suddenly causing universal hatred. This, of course, describes this couple very well. Amy Winehouse had the same thing - so she probably had drug problems and an obsessive, tumultuous love life.
Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton: synastry
It's not surprising that for such a star couple, their natal chart has a large geometry with many aspects. Lesser and greater trines are considered gifts of fate for their relationship. They have the glamor of Neptune and the sexiness of Mars, both pointing to the voluptuous and fertile Ceres, all attesting to their huge success as a Hollywood couple. Trine in fulldescribes the magic they had when they shone on screen.
At the same time, this pattern was also the cause of their addiction problems. Heavy aspects of Mars/Neptune are commonly found in alcoholics, it is a mild aspect, but Mars gets squared by Eris which makes it bitter and raging. Eris is also associated with benign Neptune. Neptune in aspect to Ceres is also another exciting aspect as they both strive to be something more. Ceres governs Neptune's herbs/opiates and alcohol. Both of these drugs are notable for their ability to dissolve boundaries.
If you look at your natal chart, then look at Eris - she plays an important role in pulling a minor grand trine into what some call a "model" aspect. A model is a prototype that allows us to understand the end product of astrological prediction on a larger scale. This is an example of the expression "As in the great, so in the small." Richard and Elizabeth were chosen to consider the impact of each person's toxic relationship on the family as a whole. Richard and Liz have become almost synonymous with describing the eternal battle of the sexes, where a man and a woman come together in a battle for supremacy in a relationship.
Sextile
If they solved their drinking problem, Neptune might have flattened their fiery synastry and taken it to a higher level. The Mars-Ceres sextile is admirable, as is the raw sexuality of Mars, refined by sensual Ceres. Ceres is also a conjunct of Jupiter which describes their exuberant,a tasteless and sometimes rather vulgar display of we alth. This is how the Jupiter / Lilith conjunction in the synastry often manifests itself. Richard gave Liz extraordinarily expensive jewelry, the most famous of which is a 69-carat diamond from Taylor & Burton.
Asteroid Lilith and the Dark Moon
Contacts with Asteroid Lilith can show where there is a power struggle in a couple, whether the person accepts equality in their partner or not. If there are serious aspects between them, it can mean anything from an altercation about someone wearing trousers incorrectly, to real domestic violence. Harmonious aspects can show where the characteristics of this couple appear, eccentric or strange. For example, they can act out their battles for equality in the role play bedroom.
With Taylor and Burton, we have already seen that they have an Asteroid Lilith in a double bind with the Black Moon, which only intensifies their marital battles. In their natal chart we have the Asteroid Lilith conjunct Saturn. Saturn is often associated with patriarchal values. The rebellious asteroid Lilith will always have problems with the heavy authority of Saturn trying to suppress her.
Studying the Black Moon Lilith will show "devils in the pool" and hidden rage that undermines relationships from the inside. A couple can make things better by joining passion in joint creative projects, raising the energy to a higher vibration. The ego has to be put aside in order to do something general, and that isreally helps. Otherwise, the worst case scenario is that Lilith's unfortunate placement will manifest as vindictive behavior, sadomasochism, seething anger, and sexual and psychological abuse. These are generally features of Lilith - she patronizes marginality, drugs, cunning, quickness, promiscuity and temptation.
The role of Pluto
Their square or Pluto/Lilith conjunction in the synastry gives rise to many difficulties, because Pluto is the planet of manipulation and dark domination. Fortunately, this is not a very difficult square, but combined with all the other stressful aspects, it does not help to smooth the situation, to put it mildly, especially when you think about problems with alcohol and inequality in a couple. There is a strong possibility that this nasty square will cause a person to abuse something. Mars Taylor is connected to Burton's Dark Moon in their synastry, which only exacerbates his personal demons.
Relationship between astrology and Tarot cards
In Tarot cards, Lilith patronizes the Moon card. This card corresponds to the Dark Side of the Moon, the unconscious, nightmares, the Oedipus complex and incest in the narrow sense of the word. In Tarot, this card is considered one of the most terrible and dangerous, as it is associated with illusions, delusions and self-deception.
