Gorgias (5th century BC) said: “The word that will help you, you will not say to yourself.”
Psychologist Elena Novoselova often begins her lectures with this epigraph.
These words contain the essence of why people turn to a specialist. More recently, in our society, it was widely believed that only unbalanced people turn to a psychologist. And the opinion that in Western countries a visit to a psychologist is as common as, for example, a visit to a doctor, could not convince anyone. To this day, things have slowly changed. People began to understand that an experienced psychologist will help deal with key problems in life situations. Having trusted a psychologist, a person can, discussing the situation that has developed and tormented him, imperceptibly find the right way to solve his difficulties. Elena Novoselova, a psychologist, considers such difficult life situations together with people who turned to her for help.
Biography
After graduationsecondary school Elena Novoselova entered the Faculty of Philosophy of Moscow State University. After university, she continued to improve in her chosen field of knowledge at the Higher College of Psychology at the Russian Academy of Sciences. He is a member of the Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League.
Elena is the author of books on the psychology of relationships. Her books have helped many people in solving their family problems. Since Elena Novoselova is a psychologist specializing in family relationships, many are interested in how things are going on her personal front, how happy she is in marriage. Whether she has a husband is unknown, but she herself informed those interested in the presence of two adult sons. She also probably knows everything thoroughly about the problems that arise in a family with two adult sons.
Elena Novoselova - the host of the radio station "Silver Rain", hosts the author's interactive program "There is a way out!". Also Elena Novoselova is a psychologist-expert of television and radio programs.
Why do we need psychological consultations
What life problems are most often discussed by a psychologist?
Loss of the meaning of life, depressive states, men's crises. People often just need to be listened to calmly. With the help of leading questions, Elena Novoselova (psychologist) will lead a person to formulate an independent answer to the question that life has posed to him. Nobody will do it for him. This answer is already in the depths of the human subconscious. But you have to patiently get to the bottom, find out the reason.
Sometimesproblems are laid down in deep childhood, mature, accumulate and wait for a person to realize why he acts this way and not otherwise. Psychologist Elena Novoselova considers the study of the human subconscious to be an amazing and most interesting aspect of her work. A person needs sometimes to speak out without fear of being misunderstood.
Resonance therapy method
This is a modern method of practical psychology that combines classical and modern approaches to human psychology. It is based on psychological support with effective diagnostics and entry into the resonance of emotional states. Using this method, you can quickly help a person find peace of mind, return interest in a vibrant life.
Literary activity
Elena Novoselova is a psychologist whose books on the psychology of relationships are very popular on the Internet. According to their psychotype, men are more prone to confusion and depression than women in front of the rapidly changing modern life.
For about 20 years, Novoselova has been conducting ongoing consultations and trainings. Her experience, observations and reflections she outlined in these books. In today's world, people often need the support of a professional for peace of mind. This is especially true of the sphere of relations between people in the family. Elena wrote books in the form of lectures on the most burning topics. Energetic headlines with their catchiness entice the reader to buy a book and read it right away.
- Lecture book "Life over 50: Relationships, sex, joys, goals" -a book for the older generation about how life doesn't end after 50. At this time, the pleasures of sex are needed to maintain good he alth.
- Book-lecture "I gave birth to you, I will live with you!". A mother's love doesn't have to be unlimited. It can be synonymous with selfish, excessive love, which destroys the life of an emerging personality, creating her strongest emotional dependence.
- Book-lecture "Why do we need betrayal and how to survive them?". Women are having a hard time with their husband's betrayal: for them it is a catastrophe, the collapse of their whole life. However, Novoselova believes that this should be considered as one of the stages of life that makes a woman smarter, stronger, allowing you to create new relationships with another man who is more worthy of her than the one who changed her.
- Book-lecture “Alpha male? Yes!" - a book about men, about the fact that in modern society a man should be a strong support for a weak woman. Everything is so, but the man is not a robot, but a human being with his deeply personal experiences, weaknesses, fears. The prevailing stereotype of a victorious man is in conflict with real life: life is multifaceted and cannot consist of victories alone, but contains both failures and poorly resolved problems. To look weak and incapable of solving your problems in front of your wife or beloved is dangerous for male pride, it destroys the harmony of the male personality. Not being able to discuss his problems with anyone, a man begins to feel like a loser, an outcast. And this leads to diseases that seem to appear out of nowhere.
All these lecture-books were written by Elena Novoselova, a psychologist, to help people.
Reviews
There are many reviews of Novoselova's activities. These are thanks from the people she helped in difficult times and reviews of the books she wrote.
