A superficial person is a very loose concept. Everyone puts a different meaning into it, but the basic setting is the same - unwillingness to go deeper, and therefore to understand life itself. Such a person does not really think about the feelings of others and his own life, and, in general, about anything. Such people are often said to be shallow morally or intellectually. They look like ordinary people, but inside they are empty creatures. Let's look at the signs of the so-called narrow-minded person.
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Often when we stigmatize a person as "superficial", the problem lies in our own perception. This phenomenon is very common: one person does not understand the other, does not hear his words and does not recognize motives, and, not wanting to go deeper, concludes that this is a superficial person. So this topic is worth thinking about. And the article will give signs that characterizesuperficial person. Let's say they hung a cliché on the personality. But before you paint it in colors, you should think, maybe we, judging the other, think superficially ourselves?
Lack of clear convictions
If a person does not have a “moral compass” inside, then his actions are not subordinated to a single goal. His actions will be rather pragmatic, aimed at his own benefit. The boundaries of firm beliefs are too blurred, because in order to strengthen life principles in oneself, a lot of thought is required. For a superficial person, long and painstaking reflections do not make sense, and therefore he can turn his worldview in the right and convenient direction at any time.
Dim inner world
It is impossible to see the spiritual beauty of a person by barely touching it. This takes time and desire, and only then will you be able to see the colors of the hidden world of a person who before that seemed completely different. Sometimes even in the most nondescript candy wrapper there can be a delicious candy. With a superficial person, this will not happen. Once you take a look at his inner world, you will not find anything special. This will happen not because it was opened to you right away, but simply because there was nothing to “unpack”.
Lack of self-awareness
Self-consciousness allows you to analyze your own life. This process takes not only time, but also human energy. When you start to immerse yourself in your thoughts and think about your own life, you don’t know where you will come. Nobodycan't promise it will be easy. In such conditions, one can understand people who simply neglect introspection. For them, this seems too difficult, and most importantly, completely unnecessary process. Unfortunately, this method often leads to repeating the same mistakes in life, and hence to disappointment.
Narrow perception of the world
You can't have a wide view and still be superficial. No, not even so, it would be more accurate to say otherwise: it is impossible, having a broad view of things, to remain superficial in life. If a person sees nothing but work and home, he is often perceived as a boring and uninteresting person. A superficial person is not a sentence or fate, he is not born as such, but becomes. If we draw an analogy of life with a tunnel, then the need for the depth of one's own personality and the breadth of knowledge really disappears as unnecessary.
Excessive materialism
Having nothing of value inside, a person tends to reach for everything outside. Expecting an expensive car, a beautiful dress, or a new partner to help fill the void within, one desires all of these with amazing vehemence. In fact, as soon as you get what you want, the hole inside begins to gape with renewed vigor. It turns out that material things are not capable of enriching the inner world, but we continue to rely on them too much, partly out of inertia and desperation. In this situation, a person thinks superficially and drives himself into his own trap.
No own opinion
If there are no beliefs and principles inside, it is very difficult to form a concrete opinion about anything. But a person of superficial knowledge will not think about such a problem. In this case, the opinion of the majority is accepted. This seems to be not only easier, but also profitable. Still, the herd instinct is quite strongly developed in humans, and especially in the case of superficial perception.
Rush judgment and premature conclusions
To judge fairly or to analyze the action of another person is a laborious work of thought. Doubts, emotions, actions - all this only complicates the matter. Until such an issue is resolved, it floats in the mind and reminds of itself in every possible way. For superficial people, this circumstance is catastrophic, because it makes you think. It would be much easier to simply give out your assessment - “loser”, or draw premature conclusions, they say, you betrayed me. To hear a person in difficult moments is the virtue of very few, and if thinking is superficial at the same time, then this is completely impossible.
Find out what life is like in rose-colored glasses
Idealization of the world around them is also inherent in people of high intellectual abilities. The difference is that individuals with a lively and mobile mind often understand how the world around works, but they simply do not want to accept it, they become simply scared. A superficial person has no idea that life is not always likein a fairy tale, and when difficulties come, he sincerely wonders how it all happened. And if the idea of an ideal world can be forgiven for a child, then when an adult puts on rose-colored glasses, this is a problem that should be solved.
And finally, let's talk about high self-esteem
Without depth within himself, a superficial person cannot look deep into other people. He does not think that they have some worries and difficulties of their own, believing that only he has problems. It sounds extremely illogical and stupid, but in order to understand this, you need to look at yourself from the outside, which means you need to think. Shallow thinking puts its own difficulties first. And such a person believes that everyone should revolve around her, because she needs it. It is often said about such people that they are sure that everyone owes them everything. Now we know what a superficial and narrow-minded person is.
