Sympathy is a positive attitude towards someone or something, which is expressed by the manifestation of goodwill, attention and admiration. The reasons for the emergence of sympathy can be very diverse. Sometimes it is even difficult to explain why we sympathize with one person, but are completely indifferent to another…
Why do we feel sympathy?
When we say that we like a person, as a rule, we mean that we like something about him. It can be his external attractiveness, charming smile, gestures, voice timbre and so on. In addition, these may be his personal characteristics: sociability, optimism, sense of humor. For example, you are comfortable communicating with this person, you can easily find common topics, laugh at the same jokes. Sympathy is a non-binding pastime.
It should be noted that laughter is an important indicator of the quality of your communication. If you often laugh during conversations, it means that an excellent level of trust has been established between you and you are really very comfortable.be together. If during joint meetings you do not know what awkward silence is, there is definitely deep sympathy between you.
Likeness and dislike
Many of us know people who seem to have many virtues, but for some reason we are somehow oppressed by their presence around. The phenomena of sympathy and antipathy have not been fully studied to date. The specificity of these two concepts is that a positive or negative connection between people is not established by anyone, but arises completely spontaneously.
Sympathy is a very mysterious mechanism. It usually either exists or it doesn't. We can conclude that we like or dislike a person in a few minutes of communication. If sympathy did not arise immediately, then it is unlikely to arise at the second meeting.
In love and love
Love is a deeper and more serious feeling. A man in love wants to spend an incommensurably huge amount of time with the object of his adoration. Sympathy is when you just enjoy spending time together, when you are in love, you look forward to a new meeting with trepidation, you feel a surge of huge amounts of energy, you want to sing, dance, write poetry, or even just enjoy the simplest things.
Love is the deepest and most complex feeling. If, when falling in love, you see only the positive aspects of the chosen one (chosen one), then when you truly love, you see and accept all the shortcomings of a person. Sympathy and love have both very similar and distinctive features. Of course, a deep feeling always begins with interest, but not so often one leads to another.
Sympathy is a wonderful feeling that reveals the potential of a person. It is a reliable foundation for the development of more serious relationships. Surround yourself with people for whom you will experience sincere feelings, and then the world will seem much more colorful to you, and life will be beautiful and amazing!