When a love relationship is more like a roller coaster, a person willy-nilly begins to think about what are the reasons for these violent feelings. Why can't he control himself in this love affair? Often the answer is that it has its roots in a previous incarnation.
Definition
Karmic love is a relationship that often brings a whole bunch of problems to a person. No one is immune from this phenomenon. Both young and old, both men and women are exposed to love from a past life.
Often people wonder what karmic love means. The explanation of this term is simple: they are relationships that are somehow connected with previous incarnations. For example, in a past life, a man and a woman were husband and wife - or maybe mother and child. They have not worked off their full karma and must do so now.
Love at first sight
One of the most commontypes of karmic relationships is love at first sight. There are many interpretations of the phenomenon when one person falls in love with another without memory, seeing the object of his adoration for the first time in his life. Often this happens even with quite adult, sane people. What happens at the moment when people meet each other's eyes for the first time, and passion flares up between them? Esotericists believe that in the vast majority of cases this phenomenon has the following explanation: these people in a previous incarnation were spouses, lovers, or were in a platonic relationship. When their eyes meet, this energy is activated again - they "recognize each other."
A new love relationship begins. The two discover how similar their tastes and ideas are. If one of the partners or both are also weak-willed people, easily succumbing to emotions, then this connection begins to occupy a dominant position in their lives. Succumbing to a storm of feelings, they destroy old ties, forget about work matters, leave their children.
All this happens because such a meeting seems to people a real sign of fate. Of course, such a meeting is not accidental. But it can have various reasons. It is possible that the couple must complete some process that was not completed in the previous incarnation. Maybe they need to realize some important things. It will not necessarily mean that they will have a happy love affair or family life.
Why this relationshipturn out to be unviable
Often such meetings take place precisely for karmic reasons. When “recognition” occurs during the first glance, and it seems to people that fate itself “brought them together”, one important point must be remembered. Having a memory of previous incarnations, the soul begins to impose on another person certain expectations, psychological projections that existed in the previous incarnation.
At present, the partner is a completely different person. In some ways, he looks like a lover from a past life, but in many ways - this is a new personality. At the moment, he is the quintessence of previous incarnations. And it contains the features of many, and not one incarnation from a particular life. This person will act completely differently. Her feelings are also different. Even if in the previous incarnation it was love to the grave, the relationship from the past will not necessarily be serious now.
When such a couple begins to arrange a joint life, the relationship gradually fades away. Powerful energy is gradually fading away. Past and present realities collide, come into conflict. If people have a certain life wisdom and experience, and the feeling between them is not destructive, but bright, they will find a common language. If they wish, they will be able to build harmonious relationships and become happy.
But most often the opposite happens - people break up. Their karmic debt is not worked off and goes on to the next life.
Signs of a love affair from a past life. Surprise
Is the current relationship withpast life, you can determine without going to fortune-tellers or clairvoyants. One of the main signs of karmic love is surprise. Relationships fall like snow on a person's head. At the same time, a man and a woman may differ in age, social and financial status. Sometimes it happens that people have known each other for many years, but it never occurred to them to start a family. For many years they communicate as friends, but one evening the situation changes dramatically.
Fast
Relationships are formed very quickly - already within one month after they met, the couple begins to meet. A person is not able to correctly perceive all the information, and only after a year or more begins to realize what really happened to him. Before that, he is in complete control of his emotional reactions, which he cannot explain. No matter how stormy the passion is, it is far from always that the partners after the "awakening" want to see each other, not to mention maintaining friendly relations.
Moving
After the official marriage, the spouses can change their place of residence, move to another city or country. A distant move, a break in ties with friends and relatives, the beginning of life “from scratch” is another important sign of such a connection. But whether it really represents karmic love must also be judged by the presence of other signs. One move abroad does not mean that the feelings came from the previous incarnation.
Tough relationship situation
One of the mostoften occurring options are an alcoholic or drug addict partner. Sometimes it can be a partner's he alth problems, such as living with a bedridden or disabled person. In some cases, the early death of a partner. One way or another, such a relationship can be safely called "punishment."
Usually this “punishment” is arranged by a person himself, unconsciously choosing a psychologically or physically disadvantaged person. This choice is due to a sense of guilt for the bad deeds committed against him in a past life. In the previous incarnation, the roles of the "bad" and "good" partner were opposite, in this one, justice is restored.
No children
Another sign of karmic love is the absence of children. Spouses are focused only on themselves. A love affair serves as a way for them to comprehend their own character flaws. In karmic relationships of this kind, their outcome depends on how each of the participants in the couple acts "correctly". For example, if a husband and wife do not quarrel because of infertility, but take a child from a baby house, soon a joint child appears quite unexpectedly. If only one of the partners tries to behave “correctly”, but he does not receive support from the other, the situation ends differently here. As a reward, fate gives him another partner, from whom he has children.
Fatality
Relationships in such a pair oftenare fatal in the most negative sense of the word. Usually referred to here:
- love triangles;
- relationships in which reigns either love or hate;
- relationships that continue regardless of the desire of partners, due to the influence of some external factors.
Karmic love in real life is usually filled with hardships and suffering. In fact, this connection is incompatible with normal human existence. A person simply does not have any spiritual or physical strength for personal and professional growth. On the other hand, having acted “rightly” in such a situation, a man or woman gets a chance to rise to the highest stage of his development, to rise above his shortcomings.
Other signs by which one can judge the karmic debt in love
The fact that the love affair is karmic in nature is also indicated by other "bells":
- Powerful and inexplicable attraction.
- The feeling of "recognizing" each other. From the very first conversation, it seems that people have known each other for many years.
- Constant thoughts about this person.
- Relationships can be exhausting, but people can't see life without each other.
- Opposite of personalities - for example, the right "A" girl meets the "bad" guy.
Karmic love by date of birth: calculation
You can also use numbers to find out if love is an echo of a relationship from a past life. To do this, you need to completely add up the dates of birth of both partners. All zeros in thisgo down. For example, a girl was born on 1990-11-05, and a man on 1985-15-07. The numbers add up: 1+1+5+1+9+9+1+5+7+1+9+8+5=62. Then the resulting amount is adjusted to a single digit. In this example 6+2=8. After that, they look at karmic compatibility by date of birth in love according to the table.
- Number 1 - the union is based on passion and love. But relationships can be superficial, and partners run the risk of quickly getting bored with each other.
- Number 2 - a love affair comes from distant previous incarnations. The union can turn out to be full of secrets and romance. But the relationship may deteriorate due to excessive head-hunting.
- Number 3 - a love affair is more influenced by a woman than a man. It is for him that the union will be karmic. For a lady, this will be either a convenient option, or another entertainment.
- Number 4 - relationships are karmic for a woman, not a man. The union may be strong, but to a greater extent it depends on the desire of the man.
- The number 5 is the highest wisdom. Communication is built on understanding and mutual respect.
- Number 6 - a situation in which both partners cannot get rid of claims, disagreements. Relationships are unlikely to last.
- The number 7 is love that will last a long time. For the sake of their own happiness, the couple is ready to go through many trials.
- Number 8 - the relationship is based on cold calculation and formality.
- The number 9 is a good union. The connection may last until old age.
Karma according to horoscope
About how it waspast life, astrology can also tell. A general karmic horoscope allows you to find out the features of the previous incarnation - both your own and your partner. By comparing these data, it will be much easier to build relationships. In astrology, the following opinion is accepted regarding the karma of the signs of the zodiac:
- Fire (Leo, Sagittarius, Aries) - the current incarnation happened immediately after death.
- Air (Libra, Aquarius, Gemini) - a person incarnated in the present shell months or years later.
- Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) - Centuries passed between this and the previous incarnation.
- Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) - a very large amount of time has passed between the previous incarnation and the present one. It could be a thousand or several thousand years.
For example, if one of the partners has a small "history", and the other is "older", this relationship can be safely called karmic. Most often it happens that "debts" are accumulated by a more "senior" partner. For example, relationships in the Aquarius-Capricorn pair will be difficult. A partner under the sign of Aquarius will be pleased with a love affair. Capricorn, who has already managed to "break wood" for his numerous incarnations, will experience difficulties in them, working off his debt to fate. The information that a karmic horoscope gives is useful not only for the analysis of a love affair, but also for any other relationship - for example, a subordinate and a leader, a parent and a child.
How to resolve relationship problems dragging onfrom a past life
How to get rid of karmic love? The ability to break a difficult relationship is determined by their characteristics. If one partner plays the role of a “debtor”, who behaved inappropriately in a past life, in this incarnation the situation is such that he must pay his “debts”. As soon as they are paid, then the need for a love affair will disappear. Feelings will fade away. This will be evidenced by ease in relationships, the absence of guilt or fear of a partner.
To achieve this, sometimes it is not enough just to cut off a love connection. A person suffering from the vicissitudes of karmic love needs to do a lot of work on himself. He should identify those negative qualities that are in his character, and which cause problems in the current relationship. For example, a man may love a woman who does not seek a serious relationship. If he suffers because of this, he should work on his qualities of sanity, realism and even some pragmatism. Perhaps if he turns his attention to more pressing problems in his life, then the situation on the love front will change for the better. In this case, the karmic love from a past life will fulfill its function, and the relationship will either become happy or fall apart on its own as unnecessary.
