Venus conjunct Saturn in your natal chart makes you a very dedicated and caring person, but you may have trouble perceiving people. This can lead to some delay and reticence in forming close relationships. You crave love and affection, but there seem to be many obstacles to achieving this goal. Life throws you various painful trials so that you learn to love yourself and love others.
Retrograde
This can be a karmic aspect, especially if Venus or Saturn is retrograde. In such cases, people who knew each other in past lives, while feeling mutually betrayed or offended, will look for each other in this life in order to teach a mutual lesson and restore justice. It is also possible that the people who hurt you in previous lifetimes will return with love to you in this lifetime. Once you reach a certain evolutionarypoints in your life, difficulties and sadness will give way to loving and lasting relationships.
Difficulties of growing up
This aspect can be especially challenging when growing up. Lack of self-love or self-respect is usually the root cause of any shyness or inability to maintain close relationships. It would be much worse if parents or teachers were tough on you. You may have experienced deprivation, meanness, withdrawal from or lack of love and affection, especially from your father. Abuse is also possible, but the bottom line is that you may have felt unloved and unappreciated by others.
Insulation
Rejection, isolation and loneliness exacerbate these difficulties as you miss opportunities to develop communication skills. Feeling awkward in social situations is common and you would most likely prefer to interact with only one person or very few people at a time.
The more you resent, the more people will avoid you. Imagine that you are wearing a sign around your neck that says "unloved". Your karmic lesson in this life is to learn to love yourself so that others can love you. You may experience periods of isolation between relationships. Breakups and divorces are common to this aspect.
Other difficulties
The difficult aspects of the Venus-Saturn conjunction are generally considered the most difficult of all natal aspects by most astrologers. You feel worse because you are deprived of the love thatmost people want in this life. As a young person, you may prefer the company of more serious or older people. When you are older, you may prefer a younger partner.
Strong advice
Patience, diligence and determination, however, will be rewarded, as is the case with any difficult aspect of Saturn. The more you learn to accept and love yourself, the more you will be able to express your love and affection. Self-respect earns respect from others and you will get the love and loy alty you deserve.
Financial matters
The same terms as in your personal life can also apply to your finances. The lesson here is to learn the value of money and how to save enough to live on. Eventually, just like with love, you will learn to hold on to it rather than experiencing periods of reticence or poverty. Saving and investing will bring you the stability and security you seek.
Saturn-Venus Conjunction: Transit
This connection can bring isolation, sadness and deprivation into your life. It will be difficult for you to express love and affection, but it is easy to be cold and mean. Relationships suffer the most during this transit, but you may also experience some financial hardship during this time.
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Love relationships on an unstable basis may not last long, but as a rule, there should be other indicators in your or other charts. Any sadness or painful experiences experienced now will be karmic lessons that will lead to a greater understanding of mutual love and respect or loy alty. Women are particularly vulnerable to domestic violence.
Novels and intrigues
A new romance is possible now, but it won't be as romantic at all. Most likely, it will be based on practical considerations and may entail your career. A noticeable age difference is also possible. This is not the best time to party as you tend to feel overwhelmed and more preoccupied with matters of a serious nature.
Budget
Money can be hard to come by and transiting Venus conjunct Saturn gives us a good time to learn how to budget properly to reduce the risk of future deficits. Starting a savings plan would be a good idea now.
Saturn-Venus Conjunction in Natal
On a personal level, these people hold back on freely expressing their feelings, especially with regard to expressing love. Keep in mind that they are masters of compromise, duty, and responsibility to their fellows, and it is through this selflessness that they truly express their love. Often there is some form of deprivation in childhood, either related to the mother orfather or both. Most often, the child perceives something from the parent's relationship, which leads to a deep sense of duty towards the spouse and emotional reserve: the fear of letting go, enjoying the moment and openly expressing love. While this aspect in classical astrology is associated with delayed marriage or loneliness, it is much more common to see this in charts of people who do "partner" often early on and stick to the relationship through the fingers. Often they are alone, even if they are partners. As a rule, they tend to be a demanding partner most of their lives.
Love fears
There is a fear associated with love, and many people with this attitude struggle with a lack of trust. One of their biggest fears is rejection. Another reason they may stay true to a difficult marriage may be the fear of disappointment in the family, and what he or she feels will be a blow to reputation. Sometimes material problems are related to relationships. Some stick with relationships because they give them a sense of material security. Self-sacrifice is extremely common in this position. However, although they yearn to be loved unconditionally more than anything else, their conviction that they will not receive such love prevents them from truly trying to find it. With Saturn, there is both a fear of failure and a fear of success that keeps people from feeling free or brave enough to go after what they really want.
Detachment
You can have a somewhat detached way of communicating, and many people with this aspect (especially men) can come across as skeptical, factual, and even superficial on a social level. They are masters at protecting their feelings and go to great lengths to keep others from knowing about their vulnerability. Of course, this kind of defense mechanism further prevents them from finding happiness in love. It's so hard for them to let down their defenses. They need to really know where they stand with you before they can feel at least somewhat safe. Negative expectations in love must be processed in order to start working on this aspect. The good news with Saturn is that its energies are better handled by time and maturity. These people must make a conscious effort to evaluate their behavior. If they admit to themselves that they really want and need to be loved by a partner, they can gradually lower their protection. For example, keeping loved ones at arm's length and pretending they're okay, but that won't encourage closeness between you.
Influence of other planets
With the conjunction, and especially with the supportive aspects from other planets, these people are well positioned to advance in their chosen career. The business sense is strong, especially in the areas of finance and the arts. Commitment to something, whether it is a favorite project, job, business or person, is very characteristic of Venus-Saturn conjunction in directorates.
Intimacy doesn't come easily to you, andyou may appear cold or insensitive towards others due to your emotional coldness and caution. Perhaps because of painful relationships and separations in your youth, you don't trust others very easily and it takes a long time to remove all your barriers and protections. You may feel like you don't have many friends or people who really care about you. You must learn to appreciate and love yourself more and express your appreciation for others more openly. This is also very important for the Venus-Saturn conjunction in the solarium.
Coldness and aloofness
The ability to give and receive love is not something that comes naturally to people born with Venus in a difficult aspect of Saturn. Blockages are tested and love relationships can be a source of frustration until the locals learn to love themselves and feel worthy of love from others. Duty is often associated with love, and some may find themselves in a loveless marriage, for example. Especially when they are young, these people may feel uncomfortable in some social situations, not knowing how to express their feelings and fearing rejection. However, problematic positions on Saturn often improve with age, experience and practice! More negatively, some people with this attitude learn to scheme to get what they want from a partner, or they may treat the partnership as if it were a business. Venus conjunct Saturn in a man creates clearly not the best lovers.
Developed intuition
These aspects can make people particularly sensitive to "cues" that suggest they are not loved or rejected in any way. People with Venus-Saturn in a difficult aspect can often expect rejection in matters of love and care, whether they are aware of this tendency or not. This can often lead to negative love situations or feelings of failure in relationships. The Venus-Saturn conjunction in the Synastry also stimulates the development of ethical intuition.
